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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've fell for me fuck buddy do I tell him or stay quiet ?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Depends.

How well do you guys communicate?

Do you do more than just bump uglies?

Would you consider him to be a "real" friend, even without the sex?

Would you be willing to risk what you have now if he freaks out and goes west?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Do you have any idea if he feels the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you set any ground rules at the start? And how long have you known him?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I met a lady a few years back and fell head over heels in luv . But got my heart broken when she took her ex back .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell him you never know he might feel the same if not at least you know and can move forward xx

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Be honest with him and yourself. If you're looking for romance and a long-term relationship and he's just looking for fun it's going to get really difficult the longer you keep putting off telling him.

Best to be honest and if it means breaking up with him you can move on to someone else. But you have to remember that this is a swingers site and the possibility of a guy looking for a partner for a long term relationship is going to be very slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine told me. It hasn't changed anything.

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By *urboTongue21Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Been there and done that...whatever feelings you have its never good to deny them so be honest with yourself at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him. Or you'll always wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told mine (it was before xmas) and he told me to fuck off and stop being so clingy!!! So that didnt go well. Loads of cancelled meets after that, I was in tears everytime. I was so upset over it cos obviously I loved him so much (in my head I did)

He txt me a couple months later and felt great to say no to him

I try to stay away from repeat meets now cos I dont trust myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you like to happen, if you told him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told mine in January and we are still seeing each other. But it's 1 hell of a complicated situation I am in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine n me thankfully felt the same and had 6 lovely years. Go for it

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I would say to go for it op,if you don't say you will neber know.If he feels the same then great,if not you can move on of you feel you need to.

Good luck

Miss

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I've fell for me fuck buddy do I tell him or stay quiet ?"

There's no way anyone can answer that without knowing anything about how he is likely to feel about it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've fell for me fuck buddy do I tell him or stay quiet ?"

I told mine but he didn't take it seriously and still doesn't now he's back from our 5 months separation. You have to make up your own mind what to do. Tell him and he might leg it, don't tell him and live with the frustration ect of the situation XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell for my FB but left it to late to tell her. she met somone and is in a vanila relationship now. still miss her and wander what it would be like if i had just told.her my feelings. Just tell them the truth and roll with the outcome

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've fell for me fuck buddy do I tell him or stay quiet ?"

Well maybe they will see this and find out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine told me - things slowly went wrong until he eventually put me in the most awful position. I'll never have another now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest?

That would always be my way of handling it.

For me, if I kept that to myself and they had no idea I'd feel like I was being dishonest to them.

It's your call though. If you really feel that way, won't those feelings just increase with each meet?

Good luck, it can't be easy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did and I told him ...lucky he felt the same way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married, had kids and bought a house with mine lol. We've been together 12 years.

either way your feelings aren't just going to go away. If you tell him at least you can make a decision based on his reaction. In my eyes you either walk away or stop been fb and make a go of it cos you can't be in love with someone and carry on. It will only hurt more in the long run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both said i love you yet within days he was back on here approaching other woman, obviously he doesn't love me in the right context lol

Casual sex is addictive so why buy the cow if you get the milk for free from a whole fab herd!

Good luck I hope he reciprocates as you'd like him to.

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk

That's exactly how we started 15 years ago. Not turned out to bad.

Although at first was awkward.

We did split for. Bit but mrs T couldn't be without me

H

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for your messages and your all right i do need to take the plunge and see what happens either way there will be tears maybe happy ones or sad ones xxxxxxx

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Thanks to everyone for your messages and your all right i do need to take the plunge and see what happens either way there will be tears maybe happy ones or sad ones xxxxxxx"

Is he actually single?

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes he is single

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Oh dear .... not sure how it went ?

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