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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey!

So just writing this for a bit of advice really. I'm new to the scene & really want to check out a club for the experience!

I'm really worried that I have a public facing job & privacy really - any ideas how I can overcome this !?

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Hey!

So just writing this for a bit of advice really. I'm new to the scene & really want to check out a club for the experience!

I'm really worried that I have a public facing job & privacy really - any ideas how I can overcome this !? "

Chances of being "outted" at a club are very slim Hun. Everyone there wants discretion from everyone else. Go, have fun. If still concerned, go a little further away from home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry about this but in 3.5 years I've never seen anyone I know, we dont go to our local one for that reason too x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Don't talk about your your exact job or place of work and be very general with where you live.

Apart from that if they see you in a club whoever 'they' are then they are there for the same reason as you...

Oh and don't play on your own doorstep if you are concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same concern, travelled a little further afield, ended up bumping into an acquaintance and his wife who had the same idea! So it can happen, but it wasn't a problem. Everyone has same concerns I guess.

To be fair if you're that concerned about being found out, perhaps it's not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One 1 hand I would say that if you meet someone at a club you know from work, then they are most likely there for the same reason. The only issues i can see are:-

1. If you work closely with someone it might make work a bit weird.

2. If they try it on with you and you say no, they might get arsey about it, but both are unlikely i would guess.

We are all adults at the end of the day

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