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By *igjohn78 OP   Man
over a year ago

lincoln

i suffer from a bad case of premature ejaculation. any help or advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i suffer from a bad case of premature ejaculation. any help or advice "

Give yourself a little light relief before the main event?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try China brush solution keep you going for hours and hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try China brush solution keep you going for hours and hours "

Was going to comment try a warm up round haha. But seen this above an wondered what it was haha

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

What is China brush solution ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Type it in on eBay,dab small amount on they wash off after 30 mins ready to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated.

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By *igjohn78 OP   Man
over a year ago

lincoln

i have just got some dragon pills let see how that goes

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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago

osterley


"Type it in on eBay,dab small amount on they wash off after 30 mins ready to go "

Wouldn't put anything off eBay on my pride and joy it might fall off ????????

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Type it in on eBay,dab small amount on they wash off after 30 mins ready to go "
Have you used it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated."

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I have this too, you're not alone. It drove me nuts for a while (no pun intended) as I can get myself off relatively quickly, no problem. What's helped me, was to simply communicate a bit more with new partners and tell them how to get me off. Also having repeat/regular partners works out better as you learn more about each others sexual needs, which often leads to more satisfying sex.

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OP, I'd say get yourself a fleshlight, some good lube, and just practice, a lot, which is often the only way we learn how to get better at something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look at the wall and talk to myself about the colour or texture... Anything to take my mind of it for few moments until the feeling passes.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"What is China brush solution ?"

My question too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used China brush before

I bought it from love honey not eBay

It's a liquid you apply to the bell end, half an hour before sex

It works as in it delays you from cumming but for me I could not cum when I used it. I mean 3 hours of full on thrusting and banging, my dick was sore, abs wrecked and the reality it wasn't going to happen hit. the mrs was satisfied, well she was getting sore as well.

I wouldn't and haven't used it again as it's a bit smelly so no oral and I like foreplay. Hope this helps

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By *ensualguy70TV/TS
over a year ago

paisley

yes i suffer this too as ive mentioned in a thread a whoile back. All i do is slow down let the feeling dispures then get back inside the lady

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By *jr123Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated.

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I have this too, you're not alone. It drove me nuts for a while (no pun intended) as I can get myself off relatively quickly, no problem. What's helped me, was to simply communicate a bit more with new partners and tell them how to get me off. Also having repeat/regular partners works out better as you learn more about each others sexual needs, which often leads to more satisfying sex.

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OP, I'd say get yourself a fleshlight, some good lube, and just practice, a lot, which is often the only way we learn how to get better at something. "

I also suffer from retarded ejaculation. I can have sex or even wank for ages and still not cum and I know what I like. It's weird. Sometimes it just happens.

I have a couple of fleshlights and even they don't do it for me.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Change position often, in a way that gives your partner different sensations (as well as you) and the time involved in changing gives you time to cool a bit. Vary your speed and even stop, while giving other parts of your partner attention and can still be in penetration mode. Also withdraw and do some oral for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep mixing up the position and keep referring back to a blow job as it seems to change the sensation!

Other than that, try take your mind out of the game and think of the queen!

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Try Durex mutual pleasure condoms

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By *mynclMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Drop a blue pill

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Drop a blue pill

Agreed or get a cock ring too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi great and honest advice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple pints of Stout and I'm good to go

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By *weetChariotMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated.

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Same. I think its in the head, i enjoy the feeling of fucking but climax is often an age, a wank can be 40minutes, but the amount of spunk ... Often 7-10 tissues to clean up, its usually everywhere ... Last one shot over my shoulder! Partners love it lol!

I have this too, you're not alone. It drove me nuts for a while (no pun intended) as I can get myself off relatively quickly, no problem. What's helped me, was to simply communicate a bit more with new partners and tell them how to get me off. Also having repeat/regular partners works out better as you learn more about each others sexual needs, which often leads to more satisfying sex.

....

OP, I'd say get yourself a fleshlight, some good lube, and just practice, a lot, which is often the only way we learn how to get better at something.

I also suffer from retarded ejaculation. I can have sex or even wank for ages and still not cum and I know what I like. It's weird. Sometimes it just happens.

I have a couple of fleshlights and even they don't do it for me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop watching porn if you regularly do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at male full body orgasms.....with training you can have as many orgasms as you want (and each can last for hours even way after you finished having sex) And no cum!

Its not easy and takes a long time to master...but trust me its totally worth it!

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By *urray MintMan
over a year ago

Brewtoon


"Have a look at male full body orgasms.....with training you can have as many orgasms as you want (and each can last for hours even way after you finished having sex) And no cum!

Its not easy and takes a long time to master...but trust me its totally worth it! "

Your no telling me that you order a pint down your local with your full cum face ? ! Lol

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By *orrado76Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I was asked to attend a dinner party in aid of premature ejaculation; I didn’t know what the dress code was going to be so I just came in my trousers.

Ahem, not helpful

Plenty of delay sprays/gels available but go easy with it, maybe try it out by yourself first time round.

Personally, I find doing the nine times table in my head works kinda well. Just try and avoid shouting out "108!!" as you climax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My regular partner has premature ejackulation... what can I do to help ?...

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Alternate from sex to oral when your close to drag it out.

Certain cock rings can delay things too.

Other than that i can only suggest sorting yourself several times before a meet to make sure your not so trigger happy so to speak

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Man up

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Try China brush solution keep you going for hours and hours "

I like it, keep him to busy painting to ejaculate

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"My regular partner has premature ejackulation... what can I do to help ?... "

Bring them both along the combined time might be just acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I'm average , but whenever I'm on a blue pill... I go for hours sometimes not at all...

Mr.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

A premature ejaculation is like a guitar solo. You know it's coming but you can't do anything about it lol.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Think on an old pensioner.

This might not work if you have a fetish for old dears but you get the jizz.

I phoned the Dr about my delayed ejaculation but was refused an appointment.

They said that it was because I am always coming late.

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By *ontanMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I wank at least once befor a meet. If I really wanna be sure of going for a session n half I wank twice. Empty out both balls.

Its a pain in the arse I know myself. Only other thing that works is alott of alcohol. But thats not always an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently there's this thing in Japan that helps.. they tie heavy weight to their balls and swing that around for awhile.

One guys this skilled he can pull a fucking car with his sack haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i suffer from a bad case of premature ejaculation. any help or advice "

I used to myself mate but it naturally went over the years and as has been mentioned previously have a wank before hand. Also try and relax and not think about it as that tends to make it worse. Just go with the flow. If it happens just give the lady some oral until you're ready again and you ought to last longer the second time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would a stop-cock work?

- Mrs. J -

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated.

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I have this too, you're not alone. It drove me nuts for a while (no pun intended) as I can get myself off relatively quickly, no problem. What's helped me, was to simply communicate a bit more with new partners and tell them how to get me off. Also having repeat/regular partners works out better as you learn more about each others sexual needs, which often leads to more satisfying sex.

....

OP, I'd say get yourself a fleshlight, some good lube, and just practice, a lot, which is often the only way we learn how to get better at something. "
what a decent answer xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A safety wank before is the best idea! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally I'm average , but whenever I'm on a blue pill... I go for hours sometimes not at all...

Mr."

Sorry to come across stupid... but what is the blue pill? Viagra?

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By *ust another coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I'd be upset if the man I was with didn't cum after a minutes..would think there was something wrong with me.. x

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Germolene?

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Apparently there's this thing in Japan that helps.. they tie heavy weight to their balls and swing that around for awhile.

One guys this skilled he can pull a fucking car with his sack haha "

Total balls

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Would a stop-cock work?

- Mrs. J -"

It will be better than a drain cock

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By *aughyapantsoffMan
over a year ago

Thurrock

Breathe it out - relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think pre wank is called for..... And just don't think relax always helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cockrings can help delay cumming and also gives you extra girth and help keep you hard if your mind wanders if your trying to delay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally I'm average , but whenever I'm on a blue pill... I go for hours sometimes not at all...

Mr."

If you need enhancement with the divine lady who shares your bed then we are all doomed

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Viagra makes it harder to cum...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Apparently there's this thing in Japan that helps.. they tie heavy weight to their balls and swing that around for awhile.

One guys this skilled he can pull a fucking car with his sack haha

Total balls"

Stretched balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tramadol works

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By *hyone74Man
over a year ago

uk and ireland )


"Type it in on eBay,dab small amount on they wash off after 30 mins ready to go "

Thanks sounds like I might try some of this

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated."

I agree! Especially if we have had a lot of sex. I'm not as bad as you but I would like to be faster so repeat rounds could be fit into the night. Also, if you go too long it starts to get numb and then you never cum! And a quickie is just out of the question!

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