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By *un maker OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading

Hello everyone,

I not new to this site as ive been on here for over 4 months.. But unfortunately I've not had a meeting or not been invited as well. Don't know what the problem is.. I'm fit and always horny and surely there are people out there as horny as me. What am I not doing right? You opinion is highly appreciated..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile smacks of desperation ,, ie leaving ya mobile number imho , but who am i to preach ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

write a bit more than one line in your profile m8 it may help tell the girls what you want and who you are .

only get one chance to make a first impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fix the pict to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bang on about this, I'm a woman and I like to meet men that have some presence. Your profile is all written in lower case, there is no punctuation and the spelling is terrible! (bored has an "e" in it) All in all, when I look at a profile, I'm trying to judge the guy who wrote it, as I don't want to meet someone who can't hold a conversation, I would NOT consider your profile as it comes across as ignorant. I'm sure you're not at all, but the point is, that is the impression!

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Txt speak generally does not go down well with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, now all txt spk, still huge errors, W missed off the word "Warning" which, considering it's a cut & paste, is a bit slapdash!

It's the window through which you are viewed. If you can't be bothered, why would anyone else?

U jst don gt it m8!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree that the profile text needs a rewrite and also put some more pics up. Its very competitive for single guys on here so you need to make your profile stand out from the others. Also if you're sending messages in text speak then that won't go down well with some people. Good luck!

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By *e gentle with usCouple
over a year ago

luton

We always do our best to make new single guys welcome, but remember you out number couples and women by huge numbers. Just because we are here doesn't mean we'll fuck anyone who asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed with all the comments on your style of writing - dreadful !

As a single guy the odds are against us - I use FaB to keep in touch with people I ve already met - and I meet in clubs

You re not in my area - - but why not try la chambre in Sheffield or Isis in Leeds when there s a party on and take it from there

Good luck to you - if you want to keep in touch please do - I wish you well

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Hi there. Belated welcome to you. Your profile should be a true reflection of you in order to find good matches. Try to be a little laid back and not let frustration get the better of you. Also a little humour and a thick skin may help. Have fun with the site and anything else is a bonus. unfotunately moaning or coming over as desperate is a turn off. Don't forget everything you already know about approaching woman off site and try to use that experience on here. You look fit so if you are a nice reliable straightforward guy you will do ok but it takes time. Good luck. Its meant to be fun you know!

Mistress x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hi there. Belated welcome to you. Your profile should be a true reflection of you in order to find good matches. Try to be a little laid back and not let frustration get the better of you. Also a little humour and a thick skin may help. Have fun with the site and anything else is a bonus. unfotunately moaning or coming over as desperate is a turn off. Don't forget everything you already know about approaching woman off site and try to use that experience on here. You look fit so if you are a nice reliable straightforward guy you will do ok but it takes time. Good luck. Its meant to be fun you know!

Mistress x"

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if you've already changed it as there's no mobile number. But I don't know anything about you, what you're like, what you enjoy, what you're looking for - just saying women and couples isn't enough - are you saying any couples and any women? Tell us about what turns you on so people know if you're a good match.

Plus, what you've written is the same length as the pointless warning at the bottom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures! If you have no pics up, you are unlikely to get any response at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put a good pic of yourself, join in the forums, go to a social or 2.

Ive been on here for over a year, didnt get my first meet for ages,but if you get to know people on here,and they get to know you, it gets easier.

There are some great people on here, relax, enjoy, it is as much about the banter as it is the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures! If you have no pics up, you are unlikely to get any response at all"

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't really matter how long you have been here, every day brings it's own opportunities and dissappointments.

I haven't looked at your profile, but I have read the posts above and just want to say that there is plenty of good advice that's been offered to you.

It's up to you whether you take it on board and accept it or reject it.

Your current tact is not working, so do yourself a massive favour and listen to the people who are offering their advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont meet on here its just a chat site LOL !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just make it more concise, correct the spelling and really hammer home your good points.

So if you have a massive black cock you need to shout about it.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Looks like you been verified you musta had a meet somewhere.

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