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"Me & the girlfriend have been together for 4 years now & for the past 12 months there is no sex life I have tryed all sorts to get her in the mood etc but nothing works I have tryed to talk to her & all she says is sorry that's all she says I am geting a bit fed up with it now what can I do ? Do I just move on ? I do love her & everything else is fine apart from the lack of sex "Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her. If sex with her is important to you then dump her immediately, don't listen to the bullshit generic advice about conversations, doing housework for her, buying flowers and romance shit that will inevitably follow on this thread. If sex with her isn't so important to you, stay with her and cheat on her. How much can you afford to spend each month on prostitutes? | |||
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"Try to find out why she isn't in the mood. Your both adults, only by talking as adults will you resolve the situation one way or the other. There's little point in trying 'to get her in the mood' if there's something physical or mental that she feels she can't talk to you about while you're trying to get her horny. " I have tryed talking to her but all she says is sorry that's it nothing else | |||
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"Me & the girlfriend have been together for 4 years now & for the past 12 months there is no sex life I have tryed all sorts to get her in the mood etc but nothing works I have tryed to talk to her & all she says is sorry that's all she says I am geting a bit fed up with it now what can I do ? Do I just move on ? I do love her & everything else is fine apart from the lack of sex
Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.
If sex with her is important to you then dump her immediately, don't listen to the bullshit generic advice about conversations, doing housework for her, buying flowers and romance shit that will inevitably follow on this thread. If sex with her isn't so important to you, stay with her and cheat on her. How much can you afford to spend each month on prostitutes? "Though I hate to admit it, having been part of basically all of those conversations this advice seems the most solid. | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "But you are. Maybe she worked it out and doesn't want to shag you anymore. | |||
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"Try to find out why she isn't in the mood. Your both adults, only by talking as adults will you resolve the situation one way or the other. There's little point in trying 'to get her in the mood' if there's something physical or mental that she feels she can't talk to you about while you're trying to get her horny. I have tryed talking to her but all she says is sorry that's it nothing else " Well, you've two options. Try talking again to resolve the issue. Or both of you move on. | |||
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"She has "friend-zoned" you! She has what she wants, And doesn't feel that she has to make any more effort to please you. Why should she change? Life is just the way she likes it. "I was thinking the same | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. " she doesn't think there is a problem | |||
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"Try to find out why she isn't in the mood. Your both adults, only by talking as adults will you resolve the situation one way or the other. There's little point in trying 'to get her in the mood' if there's something physical or mental that she feels she can't talk to you about while you're trying to get her horny. I have tryed talking to her but all she says is sorry that's it nothing else Well, you've two options. Try talking again to resolve the issue. Or both of you move on." I have tryed talking to her but all she says is sorry that's it nothing else | |||
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"She has "friend-zoned" you! She has what she wants, And doesn't feel that she has to make any more effort to please you. Why should she change? Life is just the way she likes it. I was thinking the same "This, by staying you are giving the clear message that it's fine if she doesn't bother to try to meet your needs  . | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "Unlike you op 
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"We presume she does not know you are on here.. If she doesn't, and she finds out do you think it will make the situation better?. " no she doesn't know that i am on here & no it probably won't help | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem " So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. | |||
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"Me & the girlfriend have been together for 4 years now & for the past 12 months there is no sex life I have tryed all sorts to get her in the mood etc but nothing works I have tryed to talk to her & all she says is sorry that's all she says I am geting a bit fed up with it now what can I do ? Do I just move on ? I do love her & everything else is fine apart from the lack of sex
Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.
If sex with her is important to you then dump her immediately, don't listen to the bullshit generic advice about conversations, doing housework for her, buying flowers and romance shit that will inevitably follow on this thread. If sex with her isn't so important to you, stay with her and cheat on her. How much can you afford to spend each month on prostitutes? "Surely you're not suggesting prostitutes are on fab and charging | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
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Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you"she doesn't know that i am on here | |||
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"Me & the girlfriend have been together for 4 years now & for the past 12 months there is no sex life I have tryed all sorts to get her in the mood etc but nothing works I have tryed to talk to her & all she says is sorry that's all she says I am geting a bit fed up with it now what can I do ? Do I just move on ? I do love her & everything else is fine apart from the lack of sex
Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.
If sex with her is important to you then dump her immediately, don't listen to the bullshit generic advice about conversations, doing housework for her, buying flowers and romance shit that will inevitably follow on this thread. If sex with her isn't so important to you, stay with her and cheat on her. How much can you afford to spend each month on prostitutes?
Surely you're not suggesting prostitutes are on fab and charging "We aren't looking for single females so don't bump into them, but others tell me they are here. If i wanted one then this wouldn't be the site I'd use to find them. | |||
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"Me & the girlfriend have been together for 4 years now & for the past 12 months there is no sex life I have tryed all sorts to get her in the mood etc but nothing works I have tryed to talk to her & all she says is sorry that's all she says I am geting a bit fed up with it now what can I do ? Do I just move on ? I do love her & everything else is fine apart from the lack of sex
Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.
If sex with her is important to you then dump her immediately, don't listen to the bullshit generic advice about conversations, doing housework for her, buying flowers and romance shit that will inevitably follow on this thread. If sex with her isn't so important to you, stay with her and cheat on her. How much can you afford to spend each month on prostitutes?
Surely you're not suggesting prostitutes are on fab and charging
We aren't looking for single females so don't bump into them, but others tell me they are here. If i wanted one then this wouldn't be the site I'd use to find them. "Oh good old gossip(others tell me)  | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Unlike you op
Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here "You'd be surprised. Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere. | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Unlike you op
Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here
You'd be surprised.
Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere."I think cheating can be an appropriate work around solution to hold a marriage together. I don't know why one would bother to hold a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship together? | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. " it's not easy when you love her | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her " But it's easy to lie to her? And look for people to have sex with behind her back? Grow a spine | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her " Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions. Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'. | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
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Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here "She'll know. | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Unlike you op
Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here
You'd be surprised.
Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere.
I think cheating can be an appropriate work around solution to hold a marriage together. I don't know why one would bother to hold a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship together? "If there are no kids or joint mortgages involved then I agree. The OP says he loves her, but I fail to see how he can do so and still shag behind her back. Just go and find someone who can give you what you want OP. Stop deceiving the poor woman. Although I suspect you're not as stealthy as you think you are. | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her " Dump her ass now....your Cornwall's answer to Brad Pitt you will be beating the women off with a shitty stick ! | |||
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"Me & the girlfriend have been together for 4 years now & for the past 12 months there is no sex life I have tryed all sorts to get her in the mood etc but nothing works I have tryed to talk to her & all she says is sorry that's all she says I am geting a bit fed up with it now what can I do ? Do I just move on ? I do love her & everything else is fine apart from the lack of sex "Looks like you already moved on when you started this profile | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Unlike you op
Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here
You'd be surprised.
Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere."the rest of the relationship is ok everything is fine & I may be on here but I am not geting it from anyone else | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Unlike you op
Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here
You'd be surprised.
Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere. the rest of the relationship is ok everything is fine & I may be on here but I am not geting it from anyone else "Try talking to her about it rather than asking a bunch of strangers | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
But you are. Maybe she worked it out and doesn't want to shag you anymore." | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Unlike you op
Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here
You'd be surprised.
Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere. the rest of the relationship is ok everything is fine & I may be on here but I am not geting it from anyone else
Try talking to her about it rather than asking a bunch of strangers "He has. She said "sorry". That's a woman's way of saying "fuck off". | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "Why you so sure. After all you are? | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions. Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'. " she don't want to get married or engaged  | |||
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"Ah the good guy . I'm not getting it at home but been here a year (that ties into your post) . We suggest showing your lady your profile , tell her you like to meet people for sex and your happy for her to have her own profile . I'm sure your world will be rocking. " she would have a hart attack if I did show her  | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Why you so sure. After all you are? "because i know she hasn't | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions. Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'. she don't want to get married or engaged "Ok but you ain't getting any younger sweet cheeks | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
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Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here
She'll know."well she don't | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions. Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'. she don't want to get married or engaged
Ok but you ain't getting any younger sweet cheeks"I don't want to get married or engaged | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions. Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'. she don't want to get married or engaged
Ok but you ain't getting any younger sweet cheeks I don't want to get married or engaged "Or laid apparently | |||
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"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc? Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her? Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted. Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions. Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'. she don't want to get married or engaged
Ok but you ain't getting any younger sweet cheeks I don't want to get married or engaged
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Why you so sure. After all you are? because i know she hasn't "Well you assume so and personally good on her if shes getting it elsewhere | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Unlike you op
Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here
You'd be surprised.
Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere. the rest of the relationship is ok everything is fine & I may be on here but I am not geting it from anyone else "i bet the person who has verified you 3 times would say different | |||
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"Menopause perhaps? Common cause for loss of sex drive (shudder!) - HRT might help I've decided I'm not doing the menopause- simples! Sara" nope nothing to do with the menopause at all | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Why you so sure. After all you are? because i know she hasn't
Well you assume so and personally good on her if shes getting it elsewhere "I know she's not geting it any where else fact | |||
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"Was your sex life good when you first met her .maybe just try and think back to when in the relationship it stopped .try and think whags changed since then ?" sex life was goodish when we met | |||
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"If you love her and you're happy with her apart from the sex, then the relationship is at least worth trying to save. Right now according to what you've said she's not being very responsive to you trying to discuss it with her. That could be because she genuinely doesn't think it's a problem or it could be because she's uncomfortable about it. If I were you I would make some time to sit down with her and say something like this: "I love you very much but sex is an important part of a loving relationship to me, and it's hurting me that you're apparently not interested in sex and also not interested in discussing why. I want to help you work out why you feel how you do so we can work past it together." That can be the start of a discussion. If it's medical, you can make an appointment with the doctor and talk about it. If it's emotional, she may benefit from some counselling. If it's a disagreement with you then you can explore couples counselling. If she won't discuss it at all, then I think it's time you consider whether you can still be together." | |||
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"No mention of the GF on the profile, maybe she senses you're not all there?" ?? | |||
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"I am married for a long time with kids- our sex life went downhill about 8 years ago but there would be way too much collateral damage to quit the relationship now. But if I were you, I would get out now while you still can easily do so, otherwise face a sexless or devious existence for decades. And then who knows, maybe you could find a sex positive woman on here to have good times with." | |||
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"I am married for a long time with kids- our sex life went downhill about 8 years ago but there would be way too much collateral damage to quit the relationship now. But if I were you, I would get out now while you still can easily do so, otherwise face a sexless or devious existence for decades. And then who knows, maybe you could find a sex positive woman on here to have good times with." so why are you on here then does she know you are on here ?? | |||
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"No mention of the GF on the profile, maybe she senses you're not all there? ?? "I mean that your mind is elsewhere  | |||
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"I am married for a long time with kids- our sex life went downhill about 8 years ago but there would be way too much collateral damage to quit the relationship now. But if I were you, I would get out now while you still can easily do so, otherwise face a sexless or devious existence for decades. And then who knows, maybe you could find a sex positive woman on here to have good times with. so why are you on here then does she know you are on here ?? "I am on here looking for the sexual and physical love I dont get at home. No she doesnt know and hopefully never will. I have no desire to hurt her, I just want what I need. | |||
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"No mention of the GF on the profile, maybe she senses you're not all there? ??
I mean that your mind is elsewhere "probably yes | |||
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"I am married for a long time with kids- our sex life went downhill about 8 years ago but there would be way too much collateral damage to quit the relationship now. But if I were you, I would get out now while you still can easily do so, otherwise face a sexless or devious existence for decades. And then who knows, maybe you could find a sex positive woman on here to have good times with. so why are you on here then does she know you are on here ??
I am on here looking for the sexual and physical love I dont get at home. No she doesnt know and hopefully never will. I have no desire to hurt her, I just want what I need.
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else " | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "??? | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "Perhaps she is as good a liar or even better than the OP | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
But you are. Maybe she worked it out and doesn't want to shag you anymore."
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
But you are. Maybe she worked it out and doesn't want to shag you anymore.
Well she don't know anything
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"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. " True.... Oh miss...yes im a taker lol fingers and tongue fine..lol | |||
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"She is probably on here getting some haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else
Perhaps she is as good a liar or even better than the OP"well she is not because she goes to work & comes home & she is with me all eveing & she is with me all weekend so she's not | |||
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"Perhaps she can tell you've cheated on her several times and she's hurt by that. You could say sorry " | |||
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"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well " U can try bud.!..u seem content as u r.., if u broke up would u try changing or stay as u r.... Do u do things around the house(jobs) or do they never get done... Is sex always how u want it..?? Its never just sex bud..under lined reasons women dont want there men... In my opinion of course op  | |||
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"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well U can try bud.!..u seem content as u r.., if u broke up would u try changing or stay as u r.... Do u do things around the house(jobs) or do they never get done... Is sex always how u want it..?? Its never just sex bud..under lined reasons women dont want there men... In my opinion of course op "I am allways doing jobs around the house | |||
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"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well Maybe big man doesn't float her boat any more ? Have you asked her why she doesnt fancy you anymore? Maybe its as simple as a bad case of halitosis on your case that puts her off, and shes too polite to mention it?" I have asked her this & she said she still fancys me etc | |||
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"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well U can try bud.!..u seem content as u r.., if u broke up would u try changing or stay as u r.... Do u do things around the house(jobs) or do they never get done... Is sex always how u want it..?? Its never just sex bud..under lined reasons women dont want there men... In my opinion of course op I am allways doing jobs around the house "I don't mean shutting a cupboard or changing loo roll..lol..joking op | |||
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"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on. Its not easy as that sorry Why? Serious question ! ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship " Errrrm ok! So as the poster suggested confront try and sort it, as you've said you can't then move on! Don't be a dick and cheat on her (why are you on here?) grow a pair and do something productive about it. Let her find someone and you (else) | |||
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"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on. Its not easy as that sorry Why? Serious question ! ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship " But you will not be honest with her. You are going behind her back to have sex with someone else. Do you feel no shame in your actions?? Ask her if she minds... Or if you think she would mind..... Look at what you are doing and what sort of person you are.... Or are becoming. .it's all your choice.. Not hers. Would it hurt you if she was having sex behind your back? Ask yourself some searching questions before blaming her | |||
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I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that? "Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie. What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on? | |||
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I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on? "I'm not preaching I just asked a simple question.. No need to get nasty... | |||
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I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on? "So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint | |||
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I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint " Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where | |||
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I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where "Are you keeping her happy? | |||
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I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was "Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? | |||
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I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey?"ermm na you are ok thanks | |||
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was "If you're not communicating properly, how do you know? | |||
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"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on. Its not easy as that sorry Why? Serious question ! ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship I guess the only thing you can do is talk to her, make sure you get some answers. Then you can decide what to do. Whether thats moving on while you're still young enough to meet someone else or not. 4 years for me is still relatively early days "4 years early days really ? | |||
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?"I try but get no where as i said before | |||
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? ermm na you are ok thanks "No thanks what? So your going to talk to her? | |||
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before "Do you communicate as you do on here? If so then if suggest you change your approach | |||
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"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either " why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I | |||
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I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? ermm na you are ok thanks
No thanks what? So your going to talk to her?"no thanks to carry on to what I have been doing | |||
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"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I "If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset , | |||
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before
Do you communicate as you do on here? If so then if suggest you change your approach "no | |||
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"Right he's just looking for attention now. Not listening to any advice at all. Fuck like, gotta be something wrong with you if you can't even push for a conversation. What do you want people to say or you just enjoying people paying you some attention? " Totally agree | |||
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"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before
Do you communicate as you do on here? If so then if suggest you change your approach no "I pity her TBH | |||
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"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I
If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset , what do you mean mindset ? "Exactly!! | |||
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"Right he's just looking for attention now. Not listening to any advice at all. Fuck like, gotta be something wrong with you if you can't even push for a conversation. What do you want people to say or you just enjoying people paying you some attention? Totally agree " | |||
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"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I
If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset , what do you mean mindset ?
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before
Do you communicate as you do on here? If so then if suggest you change your approach no
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? ermm na you are ok thanks
No thanks what? So your going to talk to her? no thanks to carry on to what I have been doing "I was being sarcastic. ,, JESUS | |||
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"Right he's just looking for attention now. Not listening to any advice at all. Fuck like, gotta be something wrong with you if you can't even push for a conversation. What do you want people to say or you just enjoying people paying you some attention? " i am not looking for attention thanks you very much | |||
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"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters. Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky
I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?
Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.
What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?
So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where
Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was
Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? ermm na you are ok thanks
No thanks what? So your going to talk to her? no thanks to carry on to what I have been doing
I was being sarcastic. ,, JESUS " | |||
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If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset , what do you mean mindset ?
Exactly!! I really don't know what you mean? "Exactly! Do you need any sandwiches for that pic - nic? Think your short on a few? (Watch your head as this flys above it ) | |||
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" Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before "You've reached stalemate then. You're not totally happy and she won't talk about it. Neither of you seems to want to take any action. I'm not sure what any of us can suggest. I'm not sure either why you felt the need for the roll eyes emoji. | |||
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"She's had enough mate, she's waiting for/hoping you'll f**k off or that she catches you cheating so she doesn't have to make the tough calls either. Let's face it, you're trying to have sex with people behind her back... you don't love her, you just don't want to be on your own or be the one to end it. " well i am not going anywhere & if she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I | |||
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"Op. You are not going to find the solution on here. You need to sort the issue yourself how you see fit. Your not going to get sympathy from the forumites. Remember these posts are all too common and people are very weary of them. Remember also they arent in your shoes. They dont know the full story. They cant tell you whats best for you and your lady as a result. Only you pair can make that call. Good luck." | |||
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"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I "dude why should it just be her keeping you happy as it takes two to make a relationship work. as others have said get her to tell you why she doesnt want sex with you instead of her just saying sorry. if she wont then id suggest you end it with her as she is possibly doing the same as you which is cheating and she wont outright tell you that she is | |||
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" Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before
You've reached stalemate then. You're not totally happy and she won't talk about it. Neither of you seems to want to take any action. I'm not sure what any of us can suggest.
I'm not sure either why you felt the need for the roll eyes emoji."I'd shut this down, he's had good advice and isn't listening to it. He's being antagonistic and looking for a rise just for attention. | |||
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"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I
dude why should it just be her keeping you happy as it takes two to make a relationship work. as others have said get her to tell you why she doesnt want sex with you instead of her just saying sorry. if she wont then id suggest you end it with her as she is possibly doing the same as you which is cheating and she wont outright tell you that she is"well she isn't cheating | |||
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" Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before
You've reached stalemate then. You're not totally happy and she won't talk about it. Neither of you seems to want to take any action. I'm not sure what any of us can suggest.
I'm not sure either why you felt the need for the roll eyes emoji.
I'd shut this down, he's had good advice and isn't listening to it. He's being antagonistic and looking for a rise just for attention. "I am listening to the advice thank you very much | |||
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"She's had enough mate, she's waiting for/hoping you'll f**k off or that she catches you cheating so she doesn't have to make the tough calls either. Let's face it, you're trying to have sex with people behind her back... you don't love her, you just don't want to be on your own or be the one to end it. well i am not going anywhere & if she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I "Or if you kept her happy, maybe she'd 'put out ' a little more often?? | |||
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"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her" The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby? | |||
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"She's had enough mate, she's waiting for/hoping you'll f**k off or that she catches you cheating so she doesn't have to make the tough calls either. Let's face it, you're trying to have sex with people behind her back... you don't love her, you just don't want to be on your own or be the one to end it. well i am not going anywhere & if she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I
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"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?" Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. ! | |||
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"My second husband and me neva had sex for 18 months . It was he who was refusing me. He was cheating and staying out late. I told him to leave and he did." not good | |||
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"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?" yep | |||
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"The married woman that you've been having sex with and wants your baby does she know about your OH? And vice Versa?" nope | |||
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"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby? Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. !" I am not filling any one else up | |||
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"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby? Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. !" Yep | |||
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"The married woman that you've been having sex with and wants your baby does she know about your OH? And vice Versa? nope "What a man you are. High five | |||
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"The married woman that you've been having sex with and wants your baby does she know about your OH? And vice Versa? nope
What a man you are. High five "why thank you very much | |||
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"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby? Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. ! Yep " | |||
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"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby? Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. ! Yep "Sad act. | |||
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