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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is my profile that bad or my pictures ? I have plenty in private but don't feel I should plaster them for everyone to see ? First impression of my profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've seen in the forums, cock shots aren't the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I no mate but 9/10 males ain't much different and I always send face pics with messages

Maybe just been picky and wanting more then 50% message return

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Is my profile that bad or my pictures ? I have plenty in private but don't feel I should plaster them for everyone to see ? First impression of my profile ? "

Cock pics put a lot of people off. Especially if your profile pic is a cock pic. Do you really need 4 pictures of your cock on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very very true !!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Anyone who messages us and has a cock pic as their main profile pic is instantly deleted.

You are more than just a cock, show people that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is my profile that bad or my pictures ? I have plenty in private but don't feel I should plaster them for everyone to see ? First impression of my profile ? "

I think that the females got bored after Dave99999

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above; the cock pic avatar is not a great plan. You're correct though that 9/10 blokes do the same - however, 9/10 blokes appear to remain disappointed. Why would you want to be one of the predictable 90% standard when you could be one of the 10% who stand out as different anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One very unflattering cock pic especially as an avatars is going to get you instantly deleted by a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who messages us and has a cock pic as their main profile pic is instantly deleted.

You are more than just a cock, show people that"

This.

It really is this simple fellas

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is my profile that bad or my pictures ? I have plenty in private but don't feel I should plaster them for everyone to see ? First impression of my profile ? "

First impression? Instantly forgettable.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fun guy feel free to message". Has fun guy got in touch with you yet?

Sally

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"One very unflattering cock pic especially as an avatars is going to get you instantly deleted by a lot of people.

"

Now that's what I call a decent profile picture

Can't stand cock pictures but a handsome man taking a selfie with his shirt off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry mr perfect

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Sorry mr perfect"
do a 'reply and quote' then people know who you're referring to.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

You need a pic that's going to entice us. As much as I love cock pics (guilty as charged) we need to see you as a person, it doesn't have to necessarily be a face pic, I don't have any face pics on my profile, not because I'm fugly, more to do with discretion. I love a pic that leaves a bit to the imagination xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry mr perfect do a 'reply and quote' then people know who you're referring to. "

Me obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What their cock looks like is literally the least interesting or appealing aspect of any potential meet.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Sorry mr perfect do a 'reply and quote' then people know who you're referring to.

Me obviously "

I'm loving that superman pic of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry mr perfect do a 'reply and quote' then people know who you're referring to.

Me obviously

I'm loving that superman pic of yours "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic is not very appealing, too much hair.

My opinion is include the pelvis area and abs in cock pics...

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Sorry mr perfect do a 'reply and quote' then people know who you're referring to.

Me obviously

I'm loving that superman pic of yours

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is my profile that bad or my pictures ? I have plenty in private but don't feel I should plaster them for everyone to see ? First impression of my profile ? "

I'm gay and I know you have Not interested in single guys ! Just giving you another perspective on your post.

A photo of your enormous dismembered cock as your avatar is a complete turn off.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Sorry mr perfect do a 'reply and quote' then people know who you're referring to.

Me obviously

I'm loving that superman pic of yours "

Yeah, but there's a Spider-Man in a thread as well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I no mate but 9/10 males ain't much different and I always send face pics with messages

Maybe just been picky and wanting more then 50% message return "

A lot of Women look at profiles before opening a message. I am also guessing that a cock pic as a profile avatar would get ignored, regardless of whether you send a face pic or not. A nice chest picture is much more approachable. I personally don't want to see that type of picture. I understand what this site is for, but i personally don't like it to be blatant and in my face like that. I like to schmoozed a bit

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Yeah I no mate but 9/10 males ain't much different and I always send face pics with messages

Maybe just been picky and wanting more then 50% message return

A lot of Women look at profiles before opening a message. I am also guessing that a cock pic as a profile avatar would get ignored, regardless of whether you send a face pic or not. A nice chest picture is much more approachable. I personally don't want to see that type of picture. I understand what this site is for, but i personally don't like it to be blatant and in my face like that. I like to schmoozed a bit "

This..... and pleas take notice this lady knows what she is talking about x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Yeah I no mate but 9/10 males ain't much different and I always send face pics with messages

Maybe just been picky and wanting more then 50% message return

A lot of Women look at profiles before opening a message. I am also guessing that a cock pic as a profile avatar would get ignored, regardless of whether you send a face pic or not. A nice chest picture is much more approachable. I personally don't want to see that type of picture. I understand what this site is for, but i personally don't like it to be blatant and in my face like that. I like to schmoozed a bit "

absolutely!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's all been said already OP - but cock pic as an avatar and the only public pic you have (and not that great a cock pic at that) combined with a generic profile blurb that loads of male profiles have are not going to help you at all.

My advice would be to ditch the cock pic and replace with some shots that show off your body and not your cock and re-write your profile blurb injecting some of your own personality giving details of who you are, what you're looking for and most importantly what you think you can offer.

You need to make yourself stand out from the crowd.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is my profile that bad or my pictures ? I have plenty in private but don't feel I should plaster them for everyone to see ? First impression of my profile ? "

When I see a profile where the avatar is a cock my first impression is that this guy doesn't understand how to excite a woman.

Mrs

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