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Somerset with no luck : (

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had some success at home but here at Somerset it's impossible! Think I've sent 40 plus messages today, some are a paragraph, some cheeky one liners etc. Face and body shot too all. The only tempter I had was a lady in France on holiday lol.

I've even had a hotel free all day.

Why is it so hard in this area?

Aarrgh, I need to go for a drink lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less populated maybe? I have the same in Norwich, but when I change my location when travelling get far more messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of ladies and couples around here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Updated my location now as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had some success at home but here at Somerset it's impossible! Think I've sent 40 plus messages today, some are a paragraph, some cheeky one liners etc. Face and body shot too all. The only tempter I had was a lady in France on holiday lol.

I've even had a hotel free all day.

Why is it so hard in this area?

Aarrgh, I need to go for a drink lol."

I can highly recommend French women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is plenty going on in somerset lol its always always had a good swinging scene plenty of good clubs in the south west as a whole and the southwest chat room is always busy ... I/us and plenty of others are doing great here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, you can't come to our area and expect to get instantly laid, get in the queue behind the locals and the construction workers from Hinkley C. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am the construction worker lol.

Actually managed to arrange a social with a couple.....turned out to be just a man FFS.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Have a look at Decadent Nights party IN HIGHBRIDGE (on the clubs page)!

Can't complain there's nothing around when there's a club on your doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a look at Decadent Nights party IN HIGHBRIDGE (on the clubs page)!

Can't complain there's nothing around when there's a club on your doorstep. "

Thanks for the heads up : )

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Please don't say that OP I am about to move to Somerset... I am looking forward to finding out what the scene is like there, although to be fair my preference is for a gentleman with a darker hue and they do seem a little thin on the ground in the south west

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I am the construction worker lol.

Actually managed to arrange a social with a couple.....turned out to be just a man FFS."

FFS sounds quite sexy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try fishing you may get more of a bite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the construction worker lol.

Actually managed to arrange a social with a couple.....turned out to be just a man FFS.

FFS sounds quite sexy.... "

Female Female Steve... That is why it appeals to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a trucker so i tend to see where are most popular gloucester and sommerset best bu far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll second what Dirty130 said...

Get along to Decs tonight. Great club. As a single guy you'll have to book first though.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Please don't say that OP I am about to move to Somerset... I am looking forward to finding out what the scene is like there, although to be fair my preference is for a gentleman with a darker hue and they do seem a little thin on the ground in the south west "
don't worry you will be fine as you have a vagina .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had some success at home but here at Somerset it's impossible! Think I've sent 40 plus messages today, some are a paragraph, some cheeky one liners etc. Face and body shot too all. The only tempter I had was a lady in France on holiday lol.

I've even had a hotel free all day.

Why is it so hard in this area?

Aarrgh, I need to go for a drink lol."

We're all employed unlike all the other areas in the country where you're all on benefits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I seem to have made a friend out of this thread so it's looking good : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done. I'm just here to annoy everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be fine! Just give it some time ?

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By *omersetfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Never found it hard in this area.

Just....complicated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never found it hard in this area.

Just....complicated "

You're right there lol.

Started to think it was getting better for me and then all falls apart lol.

The search continues ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try living in the Gloucestershire countryside. Looked on my phone for nearest match and it said 22 miles away .

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Absolutely loads happens in Somerset four clubs for a start but plenty of active couples and single women. The problem my friend is that you are yet one more man who has stumbled on swinging and RUINED it for us genuine guys by flooding the net with surplus capacity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not getting what you want you either need to alter your approach or broaden your horizons. Around you Bristol area and Devon are both active and you are within reasonable distance of 5 clubs I can think of off the top of my head.

Maybe if you're finding it hard it's because there are lots of great guys in the area and you need to up your game. If you are sending 40+ messages in a day maybe your approach isn't refined enough, are they genuinely people whose profile you think you match? I struggle to find a handful a week I think we'd be compatible with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well there's been a few weird let downs lol. It's hard to do a club as I'm working long hours with early starts, really tempting to try route 69 though.

Got a social meet next Thursday with a lovely lady though : )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Things are definitely looking up : )

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Things are definitely looking up : )"
good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Mrs Woody, love the profile and pics BTW.

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By *ockingitMan
over a year ago

Martock

I can commiserate and identify, OP. I'm no stranger to Somerset nor to the sex scene (of whatever flavour), but I'm new to the swing scene here and for sure it takes time and patience - but you also need to know what your motives are. If all you want to do is get laid and cry 'Next!' then good luck; if you want to make sexy friends and connections, as I and I think most people do, then you have to socialise!

Decadent Nights, Route 69, Gems and Twisted Boudoir are all open for exactly that business - socialising with swingy people.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thanks Mrs Woody, love the profile and pics BTW."
thanks

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