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First club meet for beginners?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're still new to the swinging world but open to the idea of trying a club.

As a couple looking for females only, are there any particular clubs/events in London you would recommend?

Thanks!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We're still new to the swinging world but open to the idea of trying a club.

As a couple looking for females only, are there any particular clubs/events in London you would recommend?

Thanks! "

In our opinion, clubs are a great way to "dip a toe" into swinging. You can chat with people and ask all the questions you like... Then watch some of the action, or get involved if you feel like it. If you're feeling shy you can just find a private room and have some private fun between the two of you.

On a private meet, where you've made arangements with an individual or couple, there is always some expectation. When you go to a club, there's none.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple like you. Looking for the same. We visitor first club on Thursday. Scared shitless. But for no reason. We only socialised but had a fab night. Chatted with lovely people and will definitely be visiting again xx

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"We're still new to the swinging world but open to the idea of trying a club.

As a couple looking for females only, are there any particular clubs/events in London you would recommend?

Thanks! "

Some clubs do couples only nights. But single bi females looking for a couple are very rare.

There are lots of bi fems but they don't always want couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're still new to the swinging world but open to the idea of trying a club.

As a couple looking for females only, are there any particular clubs/events in London you would recommend?

Thanks! "

I am on the same boat; wanted badly to come out of my shell and be brave to meet people in group.

I am planning at last by going to a spa at london, which got some event next sat. I feel spa is more relaxing than meeting in club, even if you don't enjoy Having some sexual avtivity, you can still jump on to hot tub or sauna room etc..

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple
over a year ago

london

Clubs are great. Gives you the chance to dip your toe without any pressure to do more than you're comfortable doing. If you put yourself on meets you can stress that plays not a given as you want to see if you connect. We find it takes the hassle away from trying to arrange meets on here. It's a win win. Hope you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are great. Gives you the chance to dip your toe without any pressure to do more than you're comfortable doing. If you put yourself on meets you can stress that plays not a given as you want to see if you connect. We find it takes the hassle away from trying to arrange meets on here. It's a win win. Hope you enjoy"

Definitely agree with this. We spent a long time attending clubs just to socialise and play with each other. Never any pressure to do any more and when we finally did make the jump to play with another couple after meeting them in a club first it really helped us feel more relaxed. Miss T

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