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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been on this site a few weeks and struggle to get views, let alone messages. Any advice on my profile? I think I'd find the club meets too full on!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Your profile is written ok. But nothing really sets you apart from the thousands of others on here. Women are unlikely to message you first, especially from such an uninspiring profile.

Your age will also be a problem for some, but you can't do anything about that so don't dwell on it too much.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The profile doesn't intice to meet you. What do you offer? Add better pics. (Read all the other profile advice threads)

Club meets arent full on. It's like going in a bar, people are just dressed sexily. You might get no play at all.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Perhaps a good place to start would be to take some of the very good advice you were given the last time you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to decide what you want. Your list of interests include adult parties, cuckolding, dogging, gangbangs, group sex and threesomes. You state you want to find out about swinging. Yet you are only looking to meet single ladies and say you don't want to go to a club. It's going to be hard to achieve all of the above if you only meet single ladies and don't go to clubs.

Mrs

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Perhaps a good place to start would be to take some of the very good advice you were given the last time you asked "

Hmm good call. A long reply in that gave lots of (ignored) advice.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Perhaps a good place to start would be to take some of the very good advice you were given the last time you asked

Hmm good call. A long reply in that gave lots of (ignored) advice."

OP as the writer of the above mentioned long reply - can I refer you back to it? I often give advice on these threads and it's somewhat disheartening to find a few days/weeks later that the requester is back asking the same thing without having acted on the sincere advice originally given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're not the only one me too but the key is be patients it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're not the only one me too but the key is be patients it will happen "

patience is no good whatsoever when someones been given very detailed advice and chosen to ignore it..personally that username would be as far as i'd get before deleting...as i think was mentioned several times last time you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're not the only one me too but the key is be patients it will happen

patience is no good whatsoever when someones been given very detailed advice and chosen to ignore it..personally that username would be as far as i'd get before deleting...as i think was mentioned several times last time you asked"
i do not even know u so i do not know what you talking about i took all the advice that people given but i take time do thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're not the only one me too but the key is be patients it will happen

patience is no good whatsoever when someones been given very detailed advice and chosen to ignore it..personally that username would be as far as i'd get before deleting...as i think was mentioned several times last time you asked i do not even know u so i do not know what you talking about i took all the advice that people given but i take time do thing.."

She's talking about the OP not you!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

They are referring to the OP not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're not the only one me too but the key is be patients it will happen

patience is no good whatsoever when someones been given very detailed advice and chosen to ignore it..personally that username would be as far as i'd get before deleting...as i think was mentioned several times last time you asked i do not even know u so i do not know what you talking about i took all the advice that people given but i take time do thing..

She's talking about the OP not you!"
oh okay sorry i got it wrong i must be goofy then

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Ive been on this site a few weeks and struggle to get views, let alone messages. Any advice on my profile? I think I'd find the club meets too full on! "

Do some research, look at what the guys that have meets and been here a while have on their profile, be proactive, you get out of fab what you put into fab!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site a few weeks and struggle to get views, let alone messages. Any advice on my profile? I think I'd find the club meets too full on!

Do some research, look at what the guys that have meets and been here a while have on their profile, be proactive, you get out of fab what you put into fab!!"

I'm one of those guys. Here's some advice!

Change user name, it's awful! It shows you are knob focused....and just as a matter of fact. Great Apes have quite small penises compared to their actual body size.

You cannot say you are interested in swinging, while refusing to get involved in any way other than one to one meets with single women. That isn't swinging! That's just serial shagging! Swinging is a lifestyle that you seem to wish to avoid.

Your "interests" seem to be just "tick" everything you can hoping to cast your net wide and maybe catch something?

Pics are OK...but nothing eye catching (to be fair neither are mine!), but your profile overall is bland and general...it certainly doesn't stand out from thousands of others.

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I didn't bother to check the green arrow, but from other comments...I can only assume similar advice has been given and ignored? You have then done the worse thing possible...having ignored good advice you then ask again! Good advice won't change....but you have to!

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It doesn't work without the clubs if you are looking for quality meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hurts doesn't it mate.

As soon as I mention in into covering my stunning body in lard then having sex on a giant bath of baked beans they don't want to know they just blank me and it makes my eyes moist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blanking is something the OP seems to be good at though, you must give him that

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Didn't get any further than the username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP... People can always see what else you've written.. School boy error my man.

A word of advice... If you ask for advice take it, or at least thank the community for it.

Good luck dude

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Bottom line. If you're just looking to meet single women around your age to get to know and have sex with, as stated in your profile, you would have more luck going to a vanilla night club or advertising on a conventional dating site.

You don't seem to be actually into swinging.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

As per usual, a distinct lack of references to Star Wars. How on Earth blokes on here get a shag without even a "I'll Leia" joke to a ladies husband, I don't know

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It hurts doesn't it mate.

As soon as I mention in into covering my stunning body in lard then having sex on a giant bath of baked beans they don't want to know they just blank me and it makes my eyes moist "
can come and lick it off

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If you looking for a hook up, stick to Tinder!

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Chin up chicken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is fantastic. Everybody wants a piece. But no. I'll not waver under pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems like you had a shag..unless thats an ex/meet in the pic...to which some will ask, did she consent?

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By *ods_Perfect_IdiotMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ive been on this site a few weeks and struggle to get views, let alone messages. Any advice on my profile? I think I'd find the club meets too full on! "

From my experience mukka it doesn't make a blind bit of difference what your profile says!!

Ultimately it's if your face and body fits for what the couple or femal is looking for at that time !! You can research and hotlist and send the best ever first message but if your not there type at that moment you don't stand a chance. Not to be negative like I'm sure you've check out the real hotties local to you and discovered that their verifications are from men with good bodies or big dicks with fuck all in their profile haha

Not true in every case and you'll find your meets but yeah don't worry to much !! Get to the gym and get better pics haha even then you'll have your work cut out !! It's an women's world fab and can be very fickle !!!

Personally I love a good profile and pic sets you apart, probably for own self satisfaction!!

Just don't let it get you down or be too serious !!

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