FabSwingers.com forum: recognised

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

has anyone ever been recognised on here by someone who knows you

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By *rive_me_crazyWoman
over a year ago

Calne

Yup, just from my profile pic! Fortunately it's someone I don't mind but could have been awkward.

I also saw an ex-employer at a club once. Fortunately I'd changed dramatically but he he hadn't

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"has anyone ever been recognised on here by someone who knows you "

I'm sure it happens all of the time. For most people on here, they are as keen to keep their own privacy as anyone else so the general process is to block and forget.

Apart from meeting with Anita's cousin once, we have not had any issues with encountering anyone we know.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

someone once said she saw her sister in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised a good friend when I first joined. Haven't said a thing yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

who recognised you

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There are always a lot of similar threads to this.

As usual my reply is:

My twin sister and her husband are on fab and are forum users too, they might comment on this later.

I bumped into them at a club last year. I also bumped into my uncle and his wife at the same club about 8 weeks ago.

It's no big deal OP

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Well if the person recognising you is there then you recognised them so all 'in the same boat' so to speak.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yep!

As a result we met for a coffee, had a good laugh, are now even better friends & are planning, just as friends to go out more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, and don't think I ever will be. Discretion is paramount to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, guy i went on a date with 18 months ago recognised me. Meeting him next week for drinks and fun.

Was totally shocked that he knew it was me though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

Never mind eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few who thought they did but thankfully after some probing turns out they didn't know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend is on here, after chatting we realised no big deal we are all going to a club together should be fun

But equally there are people we would not like to see lol block and forget lol

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

There is two I've seen whom are both married. I've not said anything just avoid any type of contact on here!

On the other hand there is one particular person I wish was on here..but as yet no joy.. I can always dream!

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By *ive it to usCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We have been in the scene for about 20 years. We were with a young lady at a very well known club. And her mum and dad walked into a group room while the 3 of us were playing. That was interesting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"has anyone ever been recognised on here by someone who knows you "

No, because I've never been recognised ever by someone who doesn't know me but get recognised all the time by people who do know me.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Yes, just last last week! After swooping pics and chatting, the guy recognised me. I thought I recognised him but wasn't sure. Anyway, we were friends 12 years ago and both fancied each other, but never said, due to circumstances.

We met up this week and it was just like old times, no awkwardness or stilted conversation, and with added fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes seen a few we recognise and a few we know . Replied to both never really been an issue all here for the same fun met some didn't others and one cple we knew veerywe cammed with and although see each other at functions never anything is mentioned lol but and secret a turn on.ws fun

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By *oggingslutWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

seen a few people I know and generally a smile etc is enough unless everyone wants to acknowlege more, but im totally open about swinging etc one sister swings, aunty too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone I know is on here, we are on here for the same thing. No drama

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Yep my male cousin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple I was chatting to spotted me shopping in town. They came over and chatted for a while.

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By *ackb85Man
over a year ago

Newmarket

I recognised a couple of here. There's profile was the give away more that than pic as that was only a headless bikini shot. It's s friend of mine and his hot gf. They messsged me a few weeks ago to go around to theirs, she appently loves to strip and tease and see how things go. I bottled it and didn't go. They don't know it's me like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just recognised a couple on here. Seen them at a fairly regular vanilla gathering. Had been admiring them so it wasn't too difficult. Would like a fab meet but don't want to make things awkward. Thinking of what to do... Any advice?

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We have - by a reenactment friend. We now get together at some events!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tattoos have ratted me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup... but it's all good.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Just the other day a lad I went to school with....

It's happened a few times (perils of pink hair!)

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

as far as we know it's never happened to us

I think it would be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I bought his silence with a blow job lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised by a work colleague. Did not bother me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

A lady that lives in the same street as my parents.I panicked at first but she did explain that non of her family know she's on here so she has as much to lose as me if she tells anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was really stared at by a couple while at my local farm shop...they were smiling and I wondered what the hell for. When I got home they had sent me a message saying 'Hope you enjoy the cheese'....

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"If anyone I know is on here, we are on here for the same thing. No drama "

Exactly this .... I couldnt give a flying fig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised on fabguys by a guy who knows me but I don't know who it is , frustrated to say the least. But both discrete. Also found my best mates son on here and fabguys. That was a surprise especially after we probably shower together hundreds of times after football!

I also realised I knew another guy after 2 minutes chat

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By *horeyMan
over a year ago

Calne

"Yes. I bought his silence with a blow job lol"

Hey, don’t I know you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recognised a few I know but the strangest part is seeing people you don't know but recognising them when you're food shopping. I'd never approach them though, discretion is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tattoos tend to be a give away though, I've recognised loads of people by their ink. again, I'd never breach discretion

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By *angzMan
over a year ago

Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle

I've been spotted by someone who messaged me to say so but not tell me who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago my brother saw me on here. Then decided to tell my mum hes a right twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes by a guy who walks past me on the way to work some mornings. Nothing has happened yet but he messaged to say I have a nice ass lol

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Went out on a "vanilla website" date and find out she saw me on Fab!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes got recognised by my aunt and uncle after sending then a face pic and other pic asking for a meet not realising itnwas them obviously to my horror got a message back saying who and I s##t myself. All ok now we laugh about it and now chat openly about swinging

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Other thing is bumping into people you know in the swinging world out in the general world around - maybe with family / their children, etc. Working out a polite greeting which wouldn't look out-of-place given rather passionate greeting you are more familiar with

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

The more we get into this lifestyle, the less we care who knows..... we find it very liberating telling friends that we go to clubs etc..... my own mother and father have even started to guess and we didn't deny it..

Nobody is doing anything wrong, and I think more people are either doing it or thinking of doing it than we all think.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes, they swing, we swing - no problem. (We've now also swung together)

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

"If anyone I know is on here, we are on here for the same thing. No drama

Exactly this .... I couldnt give a flying fig"
totally this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Went out on a "vanilla website" date and find out she saw me on Fab!!

I saw a girl on tinder with a bio stating not looking for one night stands but she is also on fab with 60+ verifications looking for casual NSA and is very much active on fab

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

In the street,yes I have. I was in town and clearly heard someone say my Fab user name. I just carried on about my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady who is on here with no face shots is the only person i have seen on fab who states she is from my home town in all the time i have been on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never, and don't think I ever will be. Discretion is paramount to me."

Not true I saw you in the black bull on Thursday night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never, and don't think I ever will be. Discretion is paramount to me.

Not true I saw you in the black bull on Thursday night.

And Osbourne's during the band

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Went out on a "vanilla website" date and find out she saw me on Fab!!

I saw a girl on tinder with a bio stating not looking for one night stands but she is also on fab with 60+ verifications looking for casual NSA and is very much active on fab

Nods, it's when you see the same person on different sites, with very different wants, you wonder what they're really looking for.

Have bumped into a couple of workmates at kink events with no drama (although the look of horror when she recognised me across the room was a memory I'll not forget) but not bumped into anyone in the street with family/friends, could be a difficult ' so where do you know x from? type question.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Whilst I was married by a couple living a few doors down the street.

Wasn't the reason for the divorce lol

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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago

Nr LOUTH Lincolnshire

"I recognised a couple of here. There's profile was the give away more that than pic as that was only a headless bikini shot. It's s friend of mine and his hot gf. They messsged me a few weeks ago to go around to theirs, she appently loves to strip and tease and see how things go. I bottled it and didn't go. They don't know it's me like

They might do know though

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Story of our life as Kim rather than me is recognized almost everywhere she goes not because of being a swinger but because of her porn career, we also get swingers introduce themselves in unlikely places like supermarkets pubs etc as they think because of what we do we're fair game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised a female work colleague, we are now FWB so all is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cousins Mrs is on here. He has no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised our neighbour.

He needed a verification so I did the neighbourly thing and gave him one (the verification).

He's a single guy and while it's not affected our relationship any, I find it funny that he's more worried about people finding out than we are (won't be from us)

Mrs x

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By *ackb85Man
over a year ago

Newmarket

They might do know though

Lol maybe they do! Maybe I should give it a go!!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We were once recognised by our neighbours. For two years they said nothing and on the day we moved from Scotland to Devon, they told us. We thought it was really good of them to be so discrete for so long.

Compare that to the guy in a club who bought up our pics on his phone, and showed them to our friends!

The only person we have ever recognised messaged us a few years ago, was politely refused, blocked to prevent his embarrassment, and we still see him and his wife at the gym to this day.

We occassionally get messages from people saying they think they just saw us somewhere. Come to think of it, we seem to get recognised in Supermarkets more than anywhere else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a sh@t they in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I got a message a few years ago the opening line was I'd recognise those tits anywhere lol. Kinda freaked me out but he soon explained who he was, had a giggle and he still keeps in touch it he wants to meet up and play as we used to play 20+ yrs ago when we were teenagers. He also told me I gave him his 1st ever blowjob lol

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

guy from our local pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was married my partner and i had a friend request from.....wait for it ?? my mother in law ?????? it was at that point i made all nudes friends only haha. Still to this day i see her at work and have the horrible thought that she liked my nudes enough to try to add me ??

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have been recognised a few times but it has never lead to any

real problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen someone I know from work who really Isn't a fan of me. The day he recognises me, there is bound to be some shit thrown my way. Discretion all day long

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By *harlieandflorenceCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes an ex boyfriends brother when I was a single fem on here. I met him and his wife and we had a great time

F x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From Plenty of Fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup, recognised within 2 weeks of being on here by a friend.

Totally unexpected as he is in a relationship and expecting a baby soon.

Requested that he does not share his find with the rest of our friends. I guess it is tricky to keep it private but we want a clear distinction between our personal lives and our swinging alter egos (if that's possible!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. My parents neighbours. They said hi and we've chatted but nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes an ex boyfriends brother when I was a single fem on here. I met him and his wife and we had a great time

F x"

Fuck that's naughty and yet so fucking hot!!

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We've bumped into three people we know outside the scene, at clubs now. Really just laugh about it then forget about it. We absolutely DON'T play with them though, because it's not an area we want to mix up

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

We got winked at by our neighbours (Married with kids) Son..

Blocked immediately, but he still looks very sheepish when we talk to his mum and his wife.

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By *ara_and_MJCouple
over a year ago

rochdale

I was on a stag do, when the friend I was sharing a room with mentioned he'd seen my singles profile on fab. He is a friend of many years, & knew I was a transvestite anyway. It's not a problem, its only sex & not meant to be taken seriously!

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"has anyone ever been recognised on here by someone who knows you "

Yes lots.. I just blocked them!! Simple!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup, including a director in a previous company i worked for. Not a problem... we are all here for a reason no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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Recognised both of us from being in same college course

Minka x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times. They are on here too, so it doesn't bother me too much. It's when they ask to meet that's not good. I would never want to (fab) meet the ones I know in real life.

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

Yes, spotted a guy we both know on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes someone sent me a message saying I know that tattoo then instantly blocked me. No idea who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just yesterday I was chatting to a guy and when I sent him a couple of pics showing my face it turned out we'd worked together a couple of years ago. He's out and instantly said not to worry as he's discrete, but was surprised to find me on fab as he'd thought I was homophobic! We had a really nice chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message from someone I went to high school with. I was shocked at first but ended up having some fun together anyway

may as well see the funny side to it and crack on

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By *ockingitMan
over a year ago

Martock

I'm probably one of the rarer people that kinda doesn't care too much anyway and has some face pics in my public profile. Anyone who spots me on here is likely either to have far more to hide than me or probably knows me from the scene anyway!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen a lot of people, been shocked by it. Especially some of the couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've seen a old school friend on here

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