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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi could anyone give me any advice on attracting women aged between 30-50? I am a very confident young man and I have no problems attracting women around my age but when it comes to older women I have no luck unfortunately. Is it just that majority of older women are not intresred in young lads and just assume all of us are immature.

Thanks in advance for any advice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's true that the majority of older women aren't interested in much younger men. Whether it's down to their perceived immaturity or just that they prefer men around their own age I don't know.

All I can advise is that you contact women who are looking for men your age and perhaps consider a club or an organised social.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the main reasons for women 40 plus not seeking your age group commonly state, is that many have children your age, which doesn't sit right with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the main reasons for women 40 plus not seeking your age group commonly state, is that many have children your age, which doesn't sit right with them."

This is my main reason. My youngest child is older than you.

If we were in a swing club though it's unlikely I'd be asking your age. If you were confident and smiled you'd be halfway into me already

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex


"One of the main reasons for women 40 plus not seeking your age group commonly state, is that many have children your age, which doesn't sit right with them."

Word for word this is me too. Carmel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone younger than 26 I find nothing in common with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone i appreciate the advice, I understand to be honest majority of men my age are very immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should do ok if you're looking to meet couples.

My main problem with young guys is that the vaaaast majority does not understand scheduling and commitments, therefore making it impossible to arrange a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone i appreciate the advice, I understand to be honest majority of men my age are very immature. "

Nobody on this thread named immaturity as an issue ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The first reply mentioned immaturity

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"The first reply mentioned immaturity "

And by latching into that one reply, you are effectively trying to blame everyone else for your lack of success. Which is quite immature.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks everyone i appreciate the advice, I understand to be honest majority of men my age are very immature. "

I think being 20 and immature go hand in hand, I was certainly immature at that age. . I don't think it's a bad thing at all life's about learning and growing and I don't think anyone would expect the same emotional maturity from someone of 20 as from someone of 50. I think awareness and a realisation that none of us know everything and can learn things from each other are more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first reply mentioned immaturity "

But FIVE didn't. That reply suggested 'perceived' immaturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My driving licence is 27 this year. I don't need to say anymore to the young ones than that

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"One of the main reasons for women 40 plus not seeking your age group commonly state, is that many have children your age, which doesn't sit right with them."

exactly!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

But he's asked for advice on how to attract women in a certain age group. There are women of that age who enjoy meeting younger men.

There are cougar and cub events at clubs op, could you get along to one of them?

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