FabSwingers.com forum: Profile feedback (guys please)

By *easing_two OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

Our profile has been this way for a few years and get a good response but we are thinking about a change. As we are looking for guys we would like your feedback. Xx

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a bit demanding and negative. I can understand the reasons why but inevitably it will attract even more of the types you don't want because they love to annoy people who get fed up with timewasters and have rules etc. and it will put off those who match your requirements because it sounds a bit demanding and negative.

There's a way around this dilemma.

Why not seek out those who you think March your requirements yourselves? Why not let men simply contact you - the unsuitable ones will give you a 1 liner so that's an automatic filter already - if you demand a longer intro message, you'll just get a cut n paste one anyway. Let the 'genuine' man send you a suitable message without any input from you as that way he won't be influenced so the dickheads will fail and the good guys will get through.

By *easing_two OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

"It's a bit demanding and negative. I can understand the reasons why but inevitably it will attract even more of the types you don't want because they love to annoy people who get fed up with timewasters and have rules etc. and it will put off those who match your requirements because it sounds a bit demanding and negative.

There's a way around this dilemma.

That is exactly what I'm thinking

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, it's not bad but I would reorganise it because the way it's laid out at the moment, it begins very negative and demanding, and may I suggest you drop the shouting (Caps)

Nothing wrong with having dislikes or 'no no's on a profile but I would suggest putting them at the end.

Consider this. You get one chance to make a first impression.

The opening of your profile is off putting. To be fair, I got about as far as the 'no no's and stopped reading.