FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't seem to be getting many or no replies

What's wrong with my profile??

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By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

There's nowt wrong with your profile, good luck

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By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

to be honest bud i cant see anything wrong

maybe not having a veri from a new meet.

Best way is to attend a social somewhere, dont go expecting to get laid, just get to know people, the rest comes easier after that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody will message you to find out more when there are profiles that give information.

Write a bit about what you're looking for and what you can offer.

Good luck.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

You have a good profile to be fair Op, just chill it takes quite a while for some to get meets. Just the numbers game with the men outnumbering the women hugely

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By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

i think its about 350 men to 1 woman at the momennt lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Your pics are great, you're tall and can accommodate both a big plus. Maybe write a bit more about yourself and what you can offer ladies of fab??

My only other observation is your age preferences 18-99.....really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely add more to your profile text if you are struggling to get replies OP. You'll be surprised.how many women will look at that, before even opening the message. As for your pictures, I don't see anything wrong with them at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice photos. Good looking guy. Profile text, however, doesn't tell us whether we should be interested in you. Sorry, we would never ask for more info.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Updated..... hopefully that will work

Thanx for the help

I'll await your messages haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of your profile, it depends a hell of a lot on the message you send!

If you just send one saying 'Hi', don't expect many replies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually write my messages haha no copy any paste either

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By *eythergazMan
over a year ago

Tyldesley

"Regardless of your profile, it depends a hell of a lot on the message you send!

If you just send one saying 'Hi', don't expect many replies!

(sorry, I couldn't resist)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe ur just 2 god damn sexy coz I think ur profile is perfect, put urself out there and msg ppl xx

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Looks OK to me, shame you're so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with you profile plus u have loads of friends and been verified by members you’re not the only one struggling on here there a lot of other men including me since joining for the last six month and 4 years off and one before that even in attending a social but I was a lot bigger then.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I don't seem to be getting many or no replies

What's wrong with my profile??

You look constipated in your second pic! I'd still shag you though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in Merseyside - try getting along to Townhouse & get some face to face meets there - even if it is only social, it'll increase veri's, but I'm pretty sure you will have plenty of ladies wanting to play with you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is good but could use a few details on what your particular interests are/what you can offer. Your interests section is too broadly populated imo.

Doesn't need much tho, it's a good profile all in all

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

Personally think it reads very negative and demanding. The flow goes one way - to you - and you keep asking people to contact you.

'not used for ages thought I'd give it another go' - so negative why even state this ?

' good conversation a must ' - change to ' I enjoy good conversation' it's softer

Profile text Seems to suggest a negative, selfish and demanding person. Not the type of person you wish to invite to a threesome.

Not being personal but you asked for feedback.

Even if the body type fitted the text would be off putting. Of course everyone has different tastes but you do say you not getting any meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pic of Llandudno..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a tad bland. A beige profile. Make it a fantastic bright purple so people notice it. Put in more about you as a person and what you can offer. What your interests are. No one will ask - so make sure you tell them.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally, I would get rid of the two photos of you in hi-vis, and probably the one of you hugging another bloke (your current avatar)... and set your avatar to be a face pic.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what ye saying mate it's hard graft trying to get a reply can anyone give me some tips am having the same issue ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I know what ye saying mate it's hard graft trying to get a reply can anyone give me some tips am having the same issue ?

Read forum threads on profile advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent you a PM to suggest changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks mate I shall check it out. I actually message people not just one liners but ye gotta grab attention some how haven't ye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am having no luck getting replies can ye tell me if my profile is shite ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're sex on legs

can't see why there is any problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about 100 guys to 1 girl... Competition is ferocious - be different and stand out from the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard graft like haha am just trying to make them laugh in me messages! They all seem to want someone over 6ft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great profile

...shame we're too old

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Once you send a message delete it

Woman cant believe you've beaten then too it, blows there freakin minds........

most are so pissed that they will reply

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

It just proves its not copy n pasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I would get rid of the two photos of you in hi-vis, and probably the one of you hugging another bloke (your current avatar)... and set your avatar to be a face pic.

Cal"

I like the hi vis...

But who am I kidding I like all the pictures...

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I definitely would if i was closer and younger

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

I think you should come to London next Saturday so I can give you a personal evaluation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate - if you're struggling there's no hope for the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to move to Neath OP

All your problems will be solved thereafter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha boss idea am on it nice one mate! Just a game isn't it

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Much better. If I was you I'd use your second pic (8th July?) as your avatar. It shows you off much better than the one your using atm. Handsome

Big arms

Sporty

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

2 years , no meets is of putting for lots / most people.

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