FabSwingers.com forum: First meet jitters!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bit nervous about my first meet. I'm quite a shy, awkward, nervy person lol. I'm a bit self conscious too.

Any advice?

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By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

Be yourself,

Remember that just cos you are meeting you are under no obligation, have a drink and a chat first if you want to settle down a bit

Breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you do when pulling in the vanilla word, get really d*unk, slobber all over the guy, take him back to yours, have a d*unken fumble and fall asleep, wake up to loads of ackwardness and he can slope off before he's even got his shoes on, voila! A perfect meet

Alternatively

Chat, flirt, keep to just a couple of drinks, if you like him, fuck him xx

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By *lue.eyes92Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Just be yourself and act as though you would meeting anyone else, let it be natural and not forced/awkward after the first 5 minutes you will wonder why you were so nervous

good luck!

And maybe drinks .. if it's that kind of meet!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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take your time choosing, maybe only meet for a social to take the pressure off.

hope you find a patient, lovely guy as that will help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All part of the thrill. Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would keep off the drink, unless its just the one to take the edge off the jitters...

its the first couple of minutes that are the worst..

once you have got them out of the way you should be fine

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Get hugged, it helps alot

Mints and moving might help too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the advice!

Hopefully it goes well, think i just need to chillax lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was same when steve took me to club

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Wear your lucky pants...just incase

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Wear your lucky pants...just incase

Or no pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves and jitters are what make it exciting Op.

I'm sure once you meet all those nerves will go out the window.

Just be yourself and the main thing, have fun.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wear your lucky pants...just incase

Or no pants

That's quite exciting to do on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the excited/nervous moments before a meet. I sing really loudly in the car on the way there

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A few nerves are good. Just relax, they are probably just as nervous as you!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The anticipation is part of the fun. Embrace it, let it add to the build up and the fun.

Adds a dimension.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day you don't get nervous, is the day to stop xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was same when steve took me to club"

u took urself to a clun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was same when steve took me to club

u took urself to a clun

club even

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By *vent44ukMan
over a year ago

Galashiels

I'm a guy and can be equally nervous meeting a lady for the first time. Done it quite a few times and always nervous, but it has always been fine after the first few minutes (well so far

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Nerves are natural.... roll with it it's part of the excitement. Above all just be yourself.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Nerves are natural.... roll with it it's part of the excitement. Above all just be yourself. "

This ^^, don't act, drink too much or give in to any pressure. Enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit nervous about my first meet. I'm quite a shy, awkward, nervy person lol. I'm a bit self conscious too.

Any advice?

My advice would be to meet someone you feel comfortable with ( as comfortable as you think you can at least) nerves are normal, but if you meet with someone you are unsure of it will make them so much worse.

Other than that, make sure you feel you are in a safe environment, be yourself as others have said and other than that enjoy yourself, you are there for you, nobody else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some great advice guys, really helped!

Thank you :D xx

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By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

yay, was it all good in the end??

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By *unlovingx2Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Bit nervous about my first meet. I'm quite a shy, awkward, nervy person lol. I'm a bit self conscious too.

Any advice?

Just remember the guy will be thinking he is a lucky bigger so be yourself and enjoy the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't stop shaking, be honest and they will take lead xx enjoy xx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Could be worse.

Not having them...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Could be worse.

Not having them..."

What would that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yay, was it all good in the end??"

The verification seems to indicate so!

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford

Nerves are good it's part of the thrill and chances are the other party is feeling nervous too.

I'd have a drink but not too many!

Being d*unk isn't a safe position to be in and besides if sex is on the cards you want to remember it and put in a good performance

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yay, was it all good in the end??

The verification seems to indicate so!"

It was amazing!! Both were a bit nervous but once we got going we were much more relaxed x

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

"yay, was it all good in the end??

The verification seems to indicate so!

It was amazing!! Both were a bit nervous but once we got going we were much more relaxed x"

That's great it worked out so well for you. I'm always nervous going on a meet but that adds to the excitement & usually once we start kissing I get much more relaxed. Hope you get lots more fun. Carmel xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find some self confidence and go out there and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people your meeting are probably nervous too. I get nervous at every meet. When you first meet them just be smiley and chatty....it will put them at ease also x

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Bit nervous about my first meet. I'm quite a shy, awkward, nervy person lol. I'm a bit self conscious too.

Any advice?

Spend time getting to know potential meets online first. Don't rush into things.

When/if you decide to meet do it at your pace.

Make the first meet in a public place like a cofeeshop, casfe, pub etc.

Only do things you want to do.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Always seem to be nervous or maybe excited or a combination of the 2

Even with folk have met before.

Anticipation is a wonderful feeling.

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