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Considering playin with a woman!! Confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never played with a woman...but not opposed to it...but tbh I don't think I could bring my self to go down on a woman.Is it fair to play with a woman and not return the favour so to speak..pls help..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's happy with it. You may feel differently when you're naked with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

took wife to a club she now wants to try bi sex

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )


"Never played with a woman...but not opposed to it...but tbh I don't think I could bring my self to go down on a woman.Is it fair to play with a woman and not return the favour so to speak..pls help.."

Some bisexual women may not want to play with a pillow princess. But there might be a woman out there who's will to let you explore with them, best to be upfront with them.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm...a "truly " bisexual woman isn't going to be that impressed with a one sided sexual experience ...but maybe another bi curious woman wouldn't mind ...in my opinion of course xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Never played with a woman...but not opposed to it...but tbh I don't think I could bring my self to go down on a woman.Is it fair to play with a woman and not return the favour so to speak..pls help.."

An experienced bi sexual woman will probably want you to do that. Best be honest with her what you are comfortable with but when you do manage to get naked with a woman, trust me you will enjoy it

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Never played with a woman...but not opposed to it...but tbh I don't think I could bring my self to go down on a woman.Is it fair to play with a woman and not return the favour so to speak..pls help.."

I've played with loads of women and I don't go down on any of them .

My wife on the other hand loves it and enjoys eating pussy as much as she lives sucking cock

So do what makes you happy .

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never played with a woman...but not opposed to it...but tbh I don't think I could bring my self to go down on a woman.Is it fair to play with a woman and not return the favour so to speak..pls help.."

Why on earth would you do something that doesn't appeal to you?

90% of women I've played with haven't played with me. I'm not really bothered. It was fun at the time.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I've been struggling with my mind for a few years now weather I could or couldn't go down on another woman, but I'm leaning towards I can wish me luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a trans girl I'm more than happy if you don't reciprocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to them and see whst there feelings are

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Never played with a woman...but not opposed to it...but tbh I don't think I could bring my self to go down on a woman.Is it fair to play with a woman and not return the favour so to speak..pls help..

Why on earth would you do something that doesn't appeal to you?

90% of women I've played with haven't played with me. I'm not really bothered. It was fun at the time. "

Is this the M of the couple commenting? It can make a difference which gender is commenting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been struggling with my mind for a few years now weather I could or couldn't go down on another woman, but I'm leaning towards I can wish me luck "

I felt like this, but I actually enjoyed doing it.

Just hated how nervous I felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never played with a woman...but not opposed to it...but tbh I don't think I could bring my self to go down on a woman.Is it fair to play with a woman and not return the favour so to speak..pls help.."

Maybe if you get into it you might feel differently ...

You won’t know til you try..

Also some women aren’t too fond of oral anyway, I know I’m not

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You should be up front about how you feel. You might meet someone who's happy to go with the flow.

I'm almost a lesbian so I'd be a bit miffed personally!!!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

I've been a self confessed 'pillow princess' for a while, popped the bi cherry a while back but had never gone down on someone until recently and I waited until I found a woman who is very responsive so I knew I was pushing the right buttons (everyone wants to know they are doing it right right?) and WOW, mind blown and cannot wait to play more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be aware that bi woman aren't fetish dispensers and may not be happy being an experiment, particularly if you can't bear to do to them what you're happy to receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never played with a woman...but not opposed to it...but tbh I don't think I could bring my self to go down on a woman.Is it fair to play with a woman and not return the favour so to speak..pls help..

Why on earth would you do something that doesn't appeal to you?

90% of women I've played with haven't played with me. I'm not really bothered. It was fun at the time.

Is this the M of the couple commenting? It can make a difference which gender is commenting."

What couple? I'm a woman. The OP that I was quoting is a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm...a "truly " bisexual woman isn't going to be that impressed with a one sided sexual experience ...but maybe another bi curious woman wouldn't mind ...in my opinion of course xx"

i dont mind to be the giver - the one lady isnt the only lady id see - and yes as soon as you get going and you think yay over nay you might feel differently about swapping ends

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

We all started somewhere sweetie xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been struggling with my mind for a few years now weather I could or couldn't go down on another woman, but I'm leaning towards I can wish me luck

I felt like this, but I actually enjoyed doing it.

Just hated how nervous I felt.

"

Yes there definitely alot of nerves and wat ifs lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys u all given me something to think about....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of women in my time who wanted to go down on me and didn't want it back. They are out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be aware that bi woman aren't fetish dispensers and may not be happy being an experiment, particularly if you can't bear to do to them what you're happy to receive. "

Sex is what the participating parties make it to be. OP and anyone else shouldn't feel any pressure to do anything that they feel uncomfortable with.

And if the other person, bi woman, is do insensitive to insist and demand, then just fuck the bitch off.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There are, single bi women who much prefer to give than to receive. I'm one of them.

That doesn't mean I will just sit back and do as I'm told, it means I will do it because I want to. Attitude and personality is just as important as physical attraction, if it's expected of me to do it, you can guarantee I won't.

If it appreciated that I do it, then hell, if the connection is there, I'm a rather happy "unicorn". It's rare as rocking horse shit I use that term for myself, I'm what is referred to as a unicorn, but in truth, I'm just me.

And just me... well, she's pretty cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it if you are all having fun, you will love it when you feel her pussy twiching and her pushing her ass up in to your face,

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I arent bothered about teceiving... my pleasures in the giving.

Give me labia and i am happy for an hour xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are, single bi women who much prefer to give than to receive. I'm one of them.

That doesn't mean I will just sit back and do as I'm told, it means I will do it because I want to. Attitude and personality is just as important as physical attraction, if it's expected of me to do it, you can guarantee I won't.

If it appreciated that I do it, then hell, if the connection is there, I'm a rather happy "unicorn". It's rare as rocking horse shit I use that term for myself, I'm what is referred to as a unicorn, but in truth, I'm just me.

And just me... well, she's pretty cool."

I love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loving all these givers - love to give to each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are, single bi women who much prefer to give than to receive. I'm one of them.

That doesn't mean I will just sit back and do as I'm told, it means I will do it because I want to. Attitude and personality is just as important as physical attraction, if it's expected of me to do it, you can guarantee I won't.

If it appreciated that I do it, then hell, if the connection is there, I'm a rather happy "unicorn". It's rare as rocking horse shit I use that term for myself, I'm what is referred to as a unicorn, but in truth, I'm just me.

And just me... well, she's pretty cool."

Ha ha like ya style x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I am always worried I am not hitting the spot or doing it right for her. I have been with women that don't feel ready to go down on me personally, its cool, nobody should feel pressured into it.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Go with what feels good

I've had a million phases .... had a relationship with a woman, only interested in meeting women, bored with women, consider meeting a couple... bored with couples.... hot cutie at a club that I couldn't pass by........

These days I'm into men more but the point of this is that our sexuality and what pleases us isn't set in stone. It's fluid and changes often with the wind .... feel comfortable with those changes and who else cares.

As long as you do what feels right and good and are happy with it then only good things can happen.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another problem easily solved by just becoming friends with someone who may be up for it at some point if it just happens. Few bi and even fewer bi curious women would want to do this with a woman. But they'd probably be more than happy to do it with a swinging friend if it naturally happened

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Im a bi and i enjoy giving as well as receiving

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Female online lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all started somewhere sweetie xx "

True hun...but where to start is the issue I think lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go with what feels good

I've had a million phases .... had a relationship with a woman, only interested in meeting women, bored with women, consider meeting a couple... bored with couples.... hot cutie at a club that I couldn't pass by........

These days I'm into men more but the point of this is that our sexuality and what pleases us isn't set in stone. It's fluid and changes often with the wind .... feel comfortable with those changes and who else cares.

As long as you do what feels right and good and are happy with it then only good things can happen.

V x

"

Now that makes alot of sense ...thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I love both giving and receiving

If you are unsure then maybe a visit to a ladies night might help. There's no pressure to play, play if it happens can be one on one or group play, or you could just come to chat and watch.

The last 2 ladies who said they were shy and were just going to watch were soon joining in

Nearest ladies night to you is La Chambre in sheffield last Wednesday of every month, and Cupids Manchester 2nd Tuesday of every month.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love both giving and receiving

If you are unsure then maybe a visit to a ladies night might help. There's no pressure to play, play if it happens can be one on one or group play, or you could just come to chat and watch.

The last 2 ladies who said they were shy and were just going to watch were soon joining in

Nearest ladies night to you is La Chambre in sheffield last Wednesday of every month, and Cupids Manchester 2nd Tuesday of every month.

"

Thank you.. il look in to the l.c one ..but not been to a club b4 either lol x

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