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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

hi all can anyone give me some tip on the first time doing anal sex as i have never done it with any lady i have been with thanks in advance pm me you advice

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

slowly, gently, lots of lube, and more lube. Buy her "Anal Sex for Women" from amazon first.

Use condoms and don't do the porn-star ass to mouth shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her, same as any sex act women have their likes and dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best tip I can give is lube up well, put the tip of your cock at her asshole and let her do the pushing back to begin with instead of you ramming it in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best tip I can give is lube up well, put the tip of your cock at her asshole and let her do the pushing back to begin with instead of you ramming it in there."

Totally correct! And once in move very slowly until she says for you to fuck harder. Then withdraw More lube and slowly back in. Just because you are in does not mean it is comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you get in there and eat her booty for a while. Start with the tip of a finger and gradually go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best tip I can give is lube up well, put the tip of your cock at her asshole and let her do the pushing back to begin with instead of you ramming it in there.

Totally correct! And once in move very slowly until she says for you to fuck harder. Then withdraw More lube and slowly back in. Just because you are in does not mean it is comfortable. "

Wow! Now's you've got an ass I'd like to get to know better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best tip I can give is lube up well, put the tip of your cock at her asshole and let her do the pushing back to begin with instead of you ramming it in there."

Good advice. Loosen her up with your fingers first too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they are experienced in taking ask them

otherwise slow and build up to slamming

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

thanks everyone for advice its just incase i meets someone that that loves to be fucked up the arse

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Lube, lube and more lube!

Lots of foreplay!

Dont get like a bull in a china store!

Let her get use to you rather than going nuts...

And in case you missed it... Lube!

Positions.. Her on her back, let her take charge on how quickly it goes in it also gives the opportunity for clit stimulatuon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all can anyone give me some tip on the first time doing anal sex as i have never done it with any lady i have been with thanks in advance pm me you advice "

you should let them do it to you first...

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Before your tip - do the same with fingers, have a good play, but don't go back to pussy or she'll slap you.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

all of the above!!

plus anal for most is a trust thing as it hurts like fuck if you just ram it in. so let her be in controle. and as others have said- foreplay, loosen up with fingers etc is important.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Best tip I can give is lube up well, put the tip of your cock at her asshole and let her do the pushing back to begin with instead of you ramming it in there."

Yes please

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

its a craft getting someone's ass ready for cock.

stage 1 prepare it

stage 2 eat it

stage 3 gentle opening with toys & lube

stage 4 deeper probing and more lube

stage 5 probe opening with bell end (fully erect or will be painful)

stage 6 slide deeper but slowly slowly

stage 7 force shaft in and pull back gently to let the air out

stage 8 go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slam it in and hope for the best

no pain no gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As well as all of the comments with lube and slow and gentle etc

Make sure she prepares if you don't want a messy experience and most importantly make sure you communicate with her so you know she's comfortable and enjoys her first experience

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

nah I'm too hung to slam and bring it home.

Doing it right is doing it nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no art to putting a cock in someones arsehole apart from using lube.

Top tip make sure the lady has had a dump first.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"There is no art to putting a cock in someones arsehole apart from using lube.

Top tip make sure the lady has had a dump first. "

You have such a way with words..lol

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By *aloma12TV/TS
over a year ago

city cnt

Hahaha its so funny cos its true lol

Paloma x

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"There is no art to putting a cock in someones arsehole apart from using lube.

Top tip make sure the lady has had a dump first. "

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

An arse hole is an arse hole,male or female..

Your fab straight so ask yr boyfriend!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You've been here 3 years with no veris, I'd concentrate on getting some regular meets under your belt first.....

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"An arse hole is an arse hole,male or female..

Your fab straight so ask yr boyfriend! "

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria


"You've been here 3 years with no veris, I'd concentrate on getting some regular meets under your belt first....."

ive been trying to get meets but not been successful i never gets any interests

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

yeah ive been on 3 years on here and still not had any meets from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest worry about anal is having shit on the condom

Surely that.must happen?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"My biggest worry about anal is having shit on the condom

Surely that.must happen?"

Not unless you feel the need to sneeze

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"My biggest worry about anal is having shit on the condom

Surely that.must happen?"

The condom won't mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest worry about anal is having shit on the condom

Surely that.must happen?"

So long as you prep first you should be fine... Douche and clean..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her to kneel on the edge of the bed and part her are cheeks. You stand and the other end of the room. Hard on at the ready, spit on the tip and run at her as fast as you can.

Take my word for it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"My biggest worry about anal is having shit on the condom

Surely that.must happen?"

It can, but we're adults

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I like to make sure she has had an orgasm (or two, or more), before I go anywhere near her backdoor, and just treat it like you did her pussy; be gentle, a finger at first, then two, let her get used to the feeling, and relax into it, then the tip of your cock, and slowly inside. You'll find she will push back, so let her take you in, and just go with the flow. Anytime you think things are a bit 'dry', just casually apply some more lube, and continue, don't make a fuss. Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest worry about anal is having shit on the condom

Surely that.must happen?"

Yes shit does sometimes happen.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"My biggest worry about anal is having shit on the condom

Surely that.must happen?

So long as you prep first you should be fine... Douche and clean.. "

Exactly

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

.... I tried it once ..... not for me im afraid ...

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By *y PussyWoman
over a year ago

Crickhowell

Mmm big giver and receiver

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"Mmm big giver and receiver

"

do you make them Douche

and Douche you

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"My biggest worry about anal is having shit on the condom

Surely that.must happen?

So long as you prep first you should be fine... Douche and clean..

Exactly "

hell yes

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

ive had a mail from someone that would like to help me out thanks for all the help guys

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

I had some this evening lol

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria


"I had some this evening lol "
lucky you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm big giver and receiver

do you make them Douche

and Douche you"

Sounds like a ridiculous question..... (please go easy on me!) How do you douche?

I have had anal before and I like it as long as he takes it slowly. Never had a 'mess'; but I would like to know how to prep properly just-in-case!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well what worked for me having a good time anal..

My partner gave me the loviest back massage and as he massaged he played with my ass using lots of baby oil and massaged my legs from my calves and thighs but during the massage kept playing with my ass ...

The whole time massaging me he used lots of baby oil and it was all very slow and relaxing and only went to penetrate me when I was relaxed

He put me first and didn't just try and push himself on me ...

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"I had some this evening lol "
Lucky you

Nice ass

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