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By *ikeoak OP   Man
over a year ago

ormskirk

So I'm at a party with lots of fabbers, do I literally just go up to people and ask if they want to play?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No you dont. You go up to people and chat normally and see how it goes. If they seem interested then you ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're at a swingers party and on your phone

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've not been to any parties yet so I can only go by my experience at clubs.

Anyone who just walks up to someone and asks straight out if they want to play never gets lucky. Introduce yourself first and make small talk. See how things go, they might invite you to play or you can ask them if you all seem to be getting on well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm at a party with lots of fabbers, do I literally just go up to people and ask if they want to play?

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Absolutely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too late now but for future reference.

Approach people in a social area. Be engaging and friendly and take only a few minutes of their time. End the conversation with something like "I hope you have fun tonight and if you're looking for someone I'd very much be up for getting together". If they're interested your eyes will meet later for sure.

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By *ew year funMan
over a year ago

travel country wide.

My first time at a club in Leicester years ago and a guy came up to me and said "would you like to fuck my mrs" I obviously said yes, he said "go and ask her then".

So the straight forward approach does work

But probably not the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too late now but for future reference.

Approach people in a social area. Be engaging and friendly and take only a few minutes of their time. End the conversation with something like "I hope you have fun tonight and if you're looking for someone I'd very much be up for getting together". If they're interested your eyes will meet later for sure. "

Yes ?? agree.... but please please please guys... don't forget flirty!!!! It is so important and the skill is severely lacking in a lot of guys at clubs/parties.... I'm sorry but if you don't get into my mind and turn me on in my head first, there's no way you're getting in my knickers.... please make more effort to engage with the couple/person have fun, bit of banter, conversation and some hot flirting

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"you're at a swingers party and on your phone "

This!

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Too late now but for future reference.

Approach people in a social area. Be engaging and friendly and take only a few minutes of their time. End the conversation with something like "I hope you have fun tonight and if you're looking for someone I'd very much be up for getting together". If they're interested your eyes will meet later for sure.

Yes ?? agree.... but please please please guys... don't forget flirty!!!! It is so important and the skill is severely lacking in a lot of guys at clubs/parties.... I'm sorry but if you don't get into my mind and turn me on in my head first, there's no way you're getting in my knickers.... please make more effort to engage with the couple/person have fun, bit of banter, conversation and some hot flirting "

Spot on, flirt with me get me to smile and give you some banter back. & as the guy from Livingston said - do not monopolise, talk for 5 minutes, let us know you're interested then mingle!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"Approach people in a social area. Be engaging and friendly and take only a few minutes of their time. End the conversation with something like "I hope you have fun tonight and if you're looking for someone I'd very much be up for getting together". If they're interested your eyes will meet later for sure. "

Spot on.

Sociable, showing yor interest without pressure, and approachable for later.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"So I'm at a party with lots of fabbers, do I literally just go up to people and ask if they want to play?

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If you want to be sat alone all night then this is absolutly the way to go OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't forget the pack of cards.

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