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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We originally joined the site with the intention of having our first threesome. We quickly realised finding a lady on here isn't so easy. I've read on here that some women feel that they are being used as a couples plaything which is definitely not what we want. Any pointers for our profile that will help attract single women? Thanks

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi,

You are looking for the smallest group on the site. But there are plenty of lovely single females on here who play with couples.

You might struggle looking exclusively for women as it makes play veris and experience harder, but I see you have got one now.

I'd suggest some clubs and socials so girls can get to know you and gauge the feeling they get.

I dont want to pry, but you say soft swap only, do you mean with couples or when in the threesome?. On of the biggest issues single ladies have is jealousy from the female of the couple. That needs clarifying I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for reply. Yes soft swap was for couples. I'll make that clear on profile x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If you want to attract a single lady to meet you then a few changes may help.

You currently only have pictures of the female of the couple. The lady will be meeting both of you so will want to know what the male looks like too.

Your list of interests is limited and your profile doesn't give any specifics on how you see a meet with a lady working. From the little information you do have I have come to the assumption that you will only do soft swing - it may help if you clarify this. A single lady who meets a couple usually wants to play with both of you. Some are happy with soft swing but most aren't.

You might find it easier meeting a single lady at a club. I haven't met anyone just from messaging on here since I started going to clubs. It just feels a lot safer to meet at a club than anywhere else.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Thank you for reply. Yes soft swap was for couples. I'll make that clear on profile x "

That will be good.

But, it also raises another issue. If you haven't full swapped with a couple, your female half won't have experienced seeing the man with another woman.

Fem halves freaking out / being jealous / posessive is one of single girls biggest worries.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, you need to be clear that both of you will play, or you'll struggle for interest.

You just need to think about giving more details about yourselves in the profile, as no-one can tell much about you from what you've written.

But it's a good profile, your veris make you sound nice people and your pics are very hot, so it's a bit more of a polish needed than an overhaul. Do you send clear face pics of you both with your messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already suggested add in some more pics of Mr.

I am a single female who meets couples but the attraction has to be there towards the male and female for me obviously.

The photos you currently have are really good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, you need to be clear that both of you will play, or you'll struggle for interest.

You just need to think about giving more details about yourselves in the profile, as no-one can tell much about you from what you've written.

But it's a good profile, your veris make you sound nice people and your pics are very hot, so it's a bit more of a polish needed than an overhaul. Do you send clear face pics of you both with your messages?"

Thank you. Yes we always send clear face pics x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As already suggested add in some more pics of Mr.

I am a single female who meets couples but the attraction has to be there towards the male and female for me obviously.

The photos you currently have are really good "

Thank you x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

It's a hard dynamic to find, however when it works....

Especially if the ladies become great friends.

We like an on going dynamic. Clubs are fun, however there is, to us, more fun in a fwb dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never really looked for a single female, along the way have had a few threesomes now but they have just happened. The way they have happened for us are with ladies we've met at clubs and at parties

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"We originally joined the site with the intention of having our first threesome. We quickly realised finding a lady on here isn't so easy. I've read on here that some women feel that they are being used as a couples plaything which is definitely not what we want. Any pointers for our profile that will help attract single women? Thanks "

Take a look at our profile. We've been told by a few single women that ours is one of the best they've read. We don't think we've done anything special really, just been honest, detailed and made sure that people know we want equal play for all involved.

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We originally joined the site with the intention of having our first threesome. We quickly realised finding a lady on here isn't so easy. I've read on here that some women feel that they are being used as a couples plaything which is definitely not what we want. Any pointers for our profile that will help attract single women? Thanks

Take a look at our profile. We've been told by a few single women that ours is one of the best they've read. We don't think we've done anything special really, just been honest, detailed and made sure that people know we want equal play for all involved.

x"

Brilliant profile I'll have to steal a few lines

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