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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Silly thing to ask but is it possible verifications can help when it comes to arranging meets,thought I'd get advise from the more experienced swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've verified men and they have received more interest after. Some people block unverified men so, being verified, you open your profile up to more people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah thought so,now I just need to actually get a meet so I can get verified,that first step seems the hardest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah thought so,now I just need to actually get a meet so I can get verified,that first step seems the hardest "

Where there's a will

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lucky I got the thick skin for multiple rejections,hopefully get there eventually ??

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By *ivWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Yes. It proves that you are genuine and not just a one handed typer. I only meet guys with 2 verifications.

Go to a social. Best way to get some

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hopefully going to one soon so will see,bit more prove I'm a real person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are essential for me. I would attend a social or club if you are having difficulty getting a verification. Cam Verifications don't count for me or many people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, shows you're not going to bottle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here for about an year no meet no verifications

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update: finally have a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

Well done OP!

When I joined the advice I got was to go to socials and clubs so thats what I did. Also I found out I realy enjoyed the social side

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Update: finally have a verification "

Well done and welcome to fab hunny xxx ( hot pics by the way!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. It proves that you are genuine and not just a one handed typer. I only meet guys with 2 verifications.

Go to a social. Best way to get some "

I have more than 2 verifications...

Or do you only meet guys with 2 and no more?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Update: finally have a verification

Well done and welcome to fab hunny xxx ( hot pics by the way!)"

Thank you for the compliment,same to you,looking hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials and clubs are the best way to veri also a great way to meet people make friends, if you put the effort in you will not just meet great people but also make some great friends,

We have some great verifications not played will every one of them

We love reading what people write and always respond to them

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also bit of advice regarding profile it's a bit on the short side, what attracts us to a person is a really good profile bit of humour, shows a bit of what the personality is like, what they enjoy doing, what's on offer, you can lead someone to a lovely set out table read the menu if the menus rubbish your not going to order food

Really sell yourself will especially make a single guy stand out

X h

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update: finally have a verification

Well done and welcome to fab hunny xxx ( hot pics by the way!)

Thank you for the compliment,same to you,looking hot"

You have to display it. Many will not meet you with hidden veri, especially when only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also bit of advice regarding profile it's a bit on the short side, what attracts us to a person is a really good profile bit of humour, shows a bit of what the personality is like, what they enjoy doing, what's on offer, you can lead someone to a lovely set out table read the menu if the menus rubbish your not going to order food

Really sell yourself will especially make a single guy stand out

X h "

For a good example of the above very useful advice, see my profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hadnt actually noticed it was hidden,thanks for the advice,keep it coming if you got some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hadnt actually noticed it was hidden,thanks for the advice,keep it coming if you got some"

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well done. Other un-verifed guys, it is possible!

Yes, it will help you get further meets. Try some clubs too.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another hurdle is that people look at your meets and if you seem to meet anyone however large or old and ugly they may be, it's unlikely that a slim gorgeous blond will contact you.

No offence intended to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly thing to ask but is it possible verifications can help when it comes to arranging meets,thought I'd get advise from the more experienced swingers."
i think if you not verified a other member their no hope of a meet sorry but i am honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly thing to ask but is it possible verifications can help when it comes to arranging meets,thought I'd get advise from the more experienced swingers. i think if you not verified a other member their no hope of a meet sorry but i am honest "

not necessarily true...many people posting on similar threads have said they've met unverified people, as have i. theyre certainly helpful,but not a deal breaker if someone has a good profile and talking to them has meant there's an attraction there...and everyone presumably stars on here without any.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess the only thing left then is to try attracting some more meets, and will look at clubs and socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly thing to ask but is it possible verifications can help when it comes to arranging meets,thought I'd get advise from the more experienced swingers. i think if you not verified a other member their no hope of a meet sorry but i am honest

not necessarily true...many people posting on similar threads have said they've met unverified people, as have i. theyre certainly helpful,but not a deal breaker if someone has a good profile and talking to them has meant there's an attraction there...and everyone presumably stars on here without any."
i see so my profile must suck lol

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We're not all that interested in other people's opinions and prefer to make our own mind up about anyone we're considering meeting.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"We're not all that interested in other people's opinions and prefer to make our own mind up about anyone we're considering meeting."

This I agree with!

We all have a mind of our own so use it to form your own opinions (and not just related to fab either!).

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

Some people will only meet people with veries,but on my single profile i met men with none.

We all had to start somewhere and having a verification doesnt mean someone wont srand you up etc.

Maybe try a club or go to a social if you can

Good luck

Miss

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By *r TonguetasticMan
over a year ago

North Essex


"I am here for about an year no meet no verifications "

I have been on here about 15 months and have no veris,I have had 3 meets from here with couples during this time.

I find it far more difficult to ask for a verification than organising a meet, it just seems awkward to ask after being naked and having fun.

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I am here for about an year no meet no verifications "

Forget Fab women are outnumbered 100/1 by desperate men so the odds are stacked against men as your own experience has proved. Go onto normal dating sites where the odds are better and the women still want sex the only difference is it's after two socials rather than than one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're not all that interested in other people's opinions and prefer to make our own mind up about anyone we're considering meeting."

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris make a huge difference with us. Let's us know if they meet couples. Let's us know if they go to clubs. Let's us know how they like to play. All very relevant information. We're not a great fan of chatting on a Fab, so the more info the better. Besides we are more comfortable with men who are active in the lifestyle, so lots of veris are a good indicator of that.

Mrs

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