FabSwingers.com forum: Lack of meets!

By *luewater man OP Man
over a year ago

Greenhithe

Hi all,

What is it lately? We have couples that come on saying they like us and want to meet, but when you try and set up a date, no-one seems to commit? We are always ready to meet couples, we have never let anyone down, always turned up,what is going on? Is our profile all wrong lol? P & D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you doin' Friday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just over the river to you, if you like to meet single guys. Your profile looks good to me.

"Hi all,

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By *luewater man OP Man
over a year ago

Greenhithe

ahh thanks peeps for your replies to our post xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had the same thing chatted got on realy well then a no show dont let it worry u guys its just one of thoses things xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get it lots also everything going great then nothing sometimes not even a reason.Maybe couples get something out of it in their own little way, but it is annoying!!

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Your not on your own. I've got a friends list full of people who allegedly want to meet then as soon as I'm free.. nobody is available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are just waiting for people to get in touch with us, as we are new to the scene and dont really know what to say to people .

We would be happy to meet anyone (not single males lol) nsa just for a chat face to face .

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Your not on your own. I've got a friends list full of people who allegedly want to meet then as soon as I'm free.. nobody is available."

Add me as a friend I won't let you down lol.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Lots of couple profiles are really speculative, the guy hopes she will say yes to a meet when he springs it on her...

So the no show usually involves the guy nursing a black eye from saying he has lined up a couple to play with, and never having discussed it with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an interesting topic...for the record we no longer play with couples as there are soooo many on here that are not 'on the same page' with each other. Guy just wants to watch wife... or Husband arranging meets without wife knowing..... or couples bigging themselves up to be someone they are not and then low and behold dont want to meet....!!!! Yep heard it all....

The only solution..be honest from the outset. Be frank in your profile. And if you are a couple...both chat. Then everyone knows where they are in life and on fab!! Its not rocket science. But because some cannot be honest...it makes for awkward meets...Not good!!!!

Honesty is the way forward.....

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By *unlovers2009Couple
over a year ago

chester

Wow!! So many sweeping statements in this thread.

Yes there are couples where the guys is making arrangements without his mrs knowing, yes there are couples who big themselves up but really aint all that!!

There are also lots of people on here who get off on the fantasy and when it comes down to it, they bottle it.

Lets not forget that there are also lots and lots of real people, real players on here too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys making the arrangements?? Other way round with us! Hmm wonder how that happened the lazy so & so lol. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow!! So many sweeping statements in this thread.

Yes there are couples where the guys is making arrangements without his mrs knowing, yes there are couples who big themselves up but really aint all that!!

There are also lots of people on here who get off on the fantasy and when it comes down to it, they bottle it.

Lets not forget that there are also lots and lots of real people, real players on here too!!"

My statement was not an attack at the couples/singles that we dont think are genuine. This was a take on our own personal experiences...

We know there are plenty of genuine players on here. My comments were with reference to the people that frustrate and let people down!

"Forum: an opportunity to exchange views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be they should get a new carpet ???

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I always find it amusing when people say 'but there are plenty of people who don't let you down on here'. Obviously not, else posts wouldn't be made about unreliable people.

So unless all of you who swear blind you have never ever been let down can tell us your secret way of divining who are the 'genuine and real people' on Fab, maybe just let the rest of us have a little moan. It really hurts when it happens you know, and someone saying 'well it doesn't happen to me' doen't help one tiny bit.

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By *ohn_joCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

yer we get the same be easy just to say no to start with

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

from experience summer is always quiet, kids mean peeps cannot meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately quiet during summer time, kids off school for a start

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"This is an interesting topic...for the record we no longer play with couples as there are soooo many on here that are not 'on the same page' with each other. Guy just wants to watch wife... or Husband arranging meets without wife knowing..... or couples bigging themselves up to be someone they are not and then low and behold dont want to meet....!!!! Yep heard it all....

Honesty is the way forward....."

I couldn't be more frank with my profile.. It says exactly what I'm looking for. So, why doesn't anybody take s blind bit of notice of that??

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

if ur wanting to meet couples, why not try a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the way forward....."

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its hard as a single woman finding a genuine couple who are interested most chat for a while then stop as soon as meeting is mentioned.

those who mentioned it being one chatting without the other half knowing are spot on ive had a few guys say they want to meet on their own first err no dont think so.

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