FabSwingers.com forum: At last a meet, unaccurate pics

By *arry1987 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

After being given the brush off recently for being not old enough i thought i would question it...

Not normally my style, i dont pursue any rejections out of politeltness bit though for some reason this seemed different..

I was told i was too young so suggested to the woman that she should put a filter on to stop us pesky kids messaging...

She then went on to explain that my veris were too club based and that put her off...

I explained that going to club meets is the realistic way for a single man to have a good chance of meeting people and get verification...

Im 6ft 6, good looking and well built (modest too

however on fab... Just another bloke...

I won her round eventually, being a tall lady herself it helpedand we got along well and arranged a meet.

Her pics were very nice and thought i had done well to arrange a meet...

She turned up true to her word and was very nice and straightforward. She let me know she had other men to see so could not say yay or nay to me before meeting the rest....

The point is she was a lot larger than her pics suggested... Old pics I think but none the less not accurate and were far more flattering.... Mine however are less flattering and in my opinion i am better in real life...

Surely with fab being fab and us men being constantly rejected it may be good courtesy for women of 'high standards' to represent themselves properly?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no need for them to, some men will happily accept a different appearance anyway, so why would they care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After being given the brush off recently for being not old enough i thought i would question it...

Not normally my style, i dont pursue any rejections out of politeltness bit though for some reason this seemed different..

I was told i was too young so suggested to the woman that she should put a filter on to stop us pesky kids messaging...

She then went on to explain that my veris were too club based and that put her off...

I explained that going to club meets is the realistic way for a single man to have a good chance of meeting people and get verification...

Im 6ft 6, good looking and well built (modest too

however on fab... Just another bloke...

I won her round eventually, being a tall lady herself it helpedand we got along well and arranged a meet.

Her pics were very nice and thought i had done well to arrange a meet...

She turned up true to her word and was very nice and straightforward. She let me know she had other men to see so could not say yay or nay to me before meeting the rest....

Surely with fab being fab and us men being constantly rejected it may be good courtesy for women of 'high standards' to represent themselves properly?"

Contrary to popular belief fat women can have high standards too....are you upset you didn't meet hers?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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mostly people are honest. can understand the disappointment though when you meet someone who is not what they claim to be. hardly happened with me but i mostly look for younger guys who don't need to decieve anyone.

all you can do is not verify someone as genuine if they are not who they present themselves as.

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By *arry1987 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

Not upset by any means... I have standards and and do not discriminate again size... Just asking wether the pics should be accurate... Surely so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not upset by any means... I have standards and and do not discriminate again size... Just asking wether the pics should be accurate... Surely so"

People put pics up that are hopefully flattering. Funny you never said her face never looked any older just she was bigger

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"After being given the brush off recently for being not old enough i thought i would question it...

Not normally my style, i dont pursue any rejections out of politeltness bit though for some reason this seemed different..

I was told i was too young so suggested to the woman that she should put a filter on to stop us pesky kids messaging...

She then went on to explain that my veris were too club based and that put her off...

I explained that going to club meets is the realistic way for a single man to have a good chance of meeting people and get verification...

Im 6ft 6, good looking and well built (modest too

however on fab... Just another bloke...

I won her round eventually, being a tall lady herself it helpedand we got along well and arranged a meet.

Her pics were very nice and thought i had done well to arrange a meet...

She turned up true to her word and was very nice and straightforward. She let me know she had other men to see so could not say yay or nay to me before meeting the rest....

Surely with fab being fab and us men being constantly rejected it may be good courtesy for women of 'high standards' to represent themselves properly?"

I agree that everyone should provide accurate pictures of themselves regardless of how or who they meet

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One of my biggest bugbears is people using misleading pictures. In this age of instant photos, you could have asked to see a more up to date one. However you are within your rights to feel disappointed.

And whats with the multiple meets being lined up? That's fine if she made it clear before you met, but telling you when you meet? Sounds like she wasn't being very fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit that I look thinner on my photos here, but I always look thinner on a selfies, but point is my meets liked my body anyway so I'm not too concerned about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After being given the brush off recently for being not old enough i thought i would question it...

Not normally my style, i dont pursue any rejections out of politeltness bit though for some reason this seemed different..

I was told i was too young so suggested to the woman that she should put a filter on to stop us pesky kids messaging...

She then went on to explain that my veris were too club based and that put her off...

I explained that going to club meets is the realistic way for a single man to have a good chance of meeting people and get verification...

Im 6ft 6, good looking and well built (modest too

however on fab... Just another bloke...

I won her round eventually, being a tall lady herself it helpedand we got along well and arranged a meet.

Her pics were very nice and thought i had done well to arrange a meet...

She turned up true to her word and was very nice and straightforward. She let me know she had other men to see so could not say yay or nay to me before meeting the rest....

Surely with fab being fab and us men being constantly rejected it may be good courtesy for women of 'high standards' to represent themselves properly?"
supply and demand my friend normal rules dont apply

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By *otandStickyCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Recent pictures are a must for everyone, fat, thin, old or young, make an effort to get some nice recent pictures, you will get found out eventually if you want to meet people, it saves face to face embarrassment!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Everyone should provide accurate pictures.

We've been somewhat taken aback several times.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I'm echoing the 'everyone should have recent photos if they want a meet' comment. Misleading photos are not confined to women in my experience...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple rule:

The closer the boob shot the bigger the girl

Most use angles etc to make the best of themselves, (we do) some however just take the piss, a full naked front body shot is a reasonable request x

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By *arry1987 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

She did look older... If the pics were out of date that is a given...

She did not mention the interview /audition process previously and by the time that was mentioned i was a bit dissalusioned.

Ha, supply and demanding, very true.

You are your own currency. Too many people over selling themselves and just as many under selling ( not literelly selling)

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"And whats with the multiple meets being lined up? That's fine if she made it clear before you met, but telling you when you meet? Sounds like she wasn't being very fair."

Exactly, if a man had done this he would have been torn to bits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And whats with the multiple meets being lined up? That's fine if she made it clear before you met, but telling you when you meet? Sounds like she wasn't being very fair.

Exactly, if a man had done this he would have been torn to bits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you tell her that her pics did not reflect how she looked in the flesh?

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By *arry1987 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

I didnt. Would that have helped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After being given the brush off recently for being not old enough i thought i would question it...

Not normally my style, i dont pursue any rejections out of politeltness bit though for some reason this seemed different..

I was told i was too young so suggested to the woman that she should put a filter on to stop us pesky kids messaging...

She then went on to explain that my veris were too club based and that put her off...

I explained that going to club meets is the realistic way for a single man to have a good chance of meeting people and get verification...

Im 6ft 6, good looking and well built (modest too

however on fab... Just another bloke...

I won her round eventually, being a tall lady herself it helpedand we got along well and arranged a meet.

Her pics were very nice and thought i had done well to arrange a meet...

She turned up true to her word and was very nice and straightforward. She let me know she had other men to see so could not say yay or nay to me before meeting the rest....

Surely with fab being fab and us men being constantly rejected it may be good courtesy for women of 'high standards' to represent themselves properly?"

He's avin a giraffe surely

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are they going to trap unsuspecting men, if they have pics of their flabby stomachs, double chins and bingo wings?

It's ok for women to bend the truth on here, but not men. Thought everyone knew that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After being given the brush off recently for being not old enough i thought i would question it...

Not normally my style, i dont pursue any rejections out of politeltness bit though for some reason this seemed different..

I was told i was too young so suggested to the woman that she should put a filter on to stop us pesky kids messaging...

She then went on to explain that my veris were too club based and that put her off...

I explained that going to club meets is the realistic way for a single man to have a good chance of meeting people and get verification...

Im 6ft 6, good looking and well built (modest too

however on fab... Just another bloke...

I won her round eventually, being a tall lady herself it helpedand we got along well and arranged a meet.

Her pics were very nice and thought i had done well to arrange a meet...

She turned up true to her word and was very nice and straightforward. She let me know she had other men to see so could not say yay or nay to me before meeting the rest....

Surely with fab being fab and us men being constantly rejected it may be good courtesy for women of 'high standards' to represent themselves properly?

He's avin a giraffe surely"

Pie in the sky thinking at the very least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didnt. Would that have helped?"

No idea, but maybe she's kidding herself with how she looks and needs a reality check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple rule:

The closer the boob shot the bigger the girl

Most use angles etc to make the best of themselves, (we do) some however just take the piss, a full naked front body shot is a reasonable request x"

..... we agree with this ... you can tell who's large as soon as you see a close up ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I admit that I look thinner on my photos here, but I always look thinner on a selfies, but point is my meets liked my body anyway so I'm not too concerned about it

Off topic but you look pretty damn hot to me

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By *arry1987 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

This wasnt good camera angles, genuine pics but out of date..

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"This wasnt good camera angles, genuine pics but out of date..

Has it traumatised you so much you need to stat a thread, spell inaccurate wrong and totally forget the people you've already met?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

*start

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I always tell meets I am old and fat lol...no one has ever not met because of it

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By *arry1987 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

Good spelling

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Not affected, this is a discussion, just getting a bit of feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I admit that I look thinner on my photos here, but I always look thinner on a selfies, but point is my meets liked my body anyway so I'm not too concerned about it

Off topic but you look pretty damn hot to me

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting for the day that a fella turns up, look at me and says "oh dear" and leaves. (I'm not looking forward to that day I should add)!! My "shop window" is as transparent as I'm happy with. So if she had been interested OP would you have declined?

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Have you complained to the Advertising Standard Authority?

Seriously... nobody looks exactly like their photos when you see them in person.

Whoever said the camera never lies ... lied!

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By *arry1987 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

She wasnt not interested and was very complimentary towards me but i did not pursue it any futher...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys can hide there dissapointment when people don't look as hot as the pictures and with the build up they are too horny to walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's anything wrong with expecting your meets to match their pictures. It's why I have such brutally honest ones in my friend's gallery - I'd hate for anyone to be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my belief is if you are actively meeting then you should have up to date pics, in order that there is no confusion when you do actually come face to face...

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I have disclaimers on my profile. My photos are up to date mind you..

Either way I choose how I wish others to see me on here. I don't think anyone I've met has been horrified by the reality thankfully. Equally I don't think I'm deceiving people either by using flattering angles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most guys can hide there dissapointment when people don't look as hot as the pictures and with the build up they are too horny to walk away

It shows in the eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- i get a lot of compliments about my pics but i always say they are flattering ones with good camera angles - im not going to put up the bad ones now am i - but always have recent ones on show - up to ourselves whether we like what we see in the flesh -

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By *iss JBWoman
over a year ago

cheshire

It's the chance you take

Obviously some people are as u expect them to be

Others are a real disappointment and others definately exceed or live up to your expectations xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definately look better in my pics than in reality. Hubby takes about 20 pics of me posing with my tummy sucked in. 19 pics will get binned as I look to fat. I guess the fat pics are more accurate though. But guess what - those pics won't be posted! But those who meet he in reality will get the full glory of my fat tummy

Mrs

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By *rego69Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Luv'd the lekture on bad speeling with a tipo! Lol. Bist pozt in the fred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to keep up to date pictures, I think I look thinner in some of mine though, as the outfit hides the podge XXX

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over a year ago

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah it's annoying when someone doesn't look like their pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I'd say people are straight up as to how they look. Most pics anyone puts up are flattering or them at their best.

I look my best in the summer when I'm getting ready for my hols so those are the pics I use here.

If your pics don't resemble you in the slightest then you're just setting yourself up for disappointment and embarrassment when you do meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been pleasantly surprised

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