FabSwingers.com forum: Hunting unicorns...

By *razedcat OP Man
over a year ago

London / Herts

Hey all,

My FWB is bicurious, and I'm very keen to try an FFM :P so we've agreed to find another bicurious or bi woman to join us in the bedroom.

However, having been on the scene for a little while, I know exactly why single bi girls are referred to as unicorns! Does anyone have any advice as to how we can find someone to join us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all,

My FWB is bicurious, and I'm very keen to try an FFM :P so we've agreed to find another bicurious or bi woman to join us in the bedroom.

However, having been on the scene for a little while, I know exactly why single bi girls are referred to as unicorns! Does anyone have any advice as to how we can find someone to join us?

so you want one for an experiment?

good luck with that

also there are plenty of threads about this subject, try a search and see what comes up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all,

My FWB is bicurious, and I'm very keen to try an FFM :P so we've agreed to find another bicurious or bi woman to join us in the bedroom.

However, having been on the scene for a little while, I know exactly why single bi girls are referred to as unicorns! Does anyone have any advice as to how we can find someone to join us?

also no one will meet your and your gf if you don't have a couples profile on here first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all,

My FWB is bicurious, and I'm very keen to try an FFM :P so we've agreed to find another bicurious or bi woman to join us in the bedroom.

However, having been on the scene for a little while, I know exactly why single bi girls are referred to as unicorns! Does anyone have any advice as to how we can find someone to join us?

A similar thread was posted a couple of months ago by a couple. I got chatting to them and we just spent a great weekend together.

The forums are a great place to get to know people

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Sort out a couples profile together and explain in the profile text what you're looking for. You may have better luck at a club to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start at the end of the rainbow and then join the very very long queue

But if that fails then try going to clubs and socials and best start a couples profile too good luck xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not for me, I'd rather not be a couple's plaything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also you really need to explain what it is exactly you are looking for? A single lady would want to know what you could offer her? And why it would be fun for her? She probably wouldn't want to be part of your gf just trying something out for your being it either? Tbh x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very unlikely to happen on your single male profile. Setup a couples profile and put in the blurb how you see the dynamic between you both and a potential meet. I.e will you all be equal play partners, will it be mainly girl on girl play etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take a look at the following thread OP...

it may give you food for thought

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/652878

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Is it just me or would the heading put off most women?

Bottom line is most women don't like to be seen as some kind of disposable sex toy only there to fulfill a couples fantasy. In my experience most of these "unicorn" posts suggest that is what is wanted.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Personally, we love real equall sexual/sensual partner. Just a cynic who doesn't believe in Harry Potter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me....it helps when its the girl who appraches me and not the guy from the profile.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Rarer than Rocking Horse poop!

If you are lucky, you might find one who is part of a couple, but even then its most likely only going to happen at a club.

Good luck with it though, it will take time but is well worth it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Is it just me or would the heading put off most women?

Put me off straight away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or would the heading put off most women?

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By *razedcat OP Man
over a year ago

London / Herts

"Is it just me or would the heading put off most women?

Put me off straight away!"

In my defence, it was meant to be tongue in cheek. No need to read too much into it.

I'm grateful for the input guys, will be setting up a couples profile shortly

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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago

Medway

We are also on the hunt for a unicorn.

Had a little experience but now we are back, really wanting more!

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Not for me, I'd rather not be a couple's plaything lol"
but you are looking for couple's

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Forget the myths about how rare single bi ladies are, and how difficult it is to meet them.

Also, drop the term unicorn, ladies like this are more than a label or trophy.

We have over 50 ladies on our friends list, many of whom we have played with, but we have never played with a " single bi female", only friends who just so happen to be bi, female, and single.

If you can spot the most important word in the paragraph above ( clue, it's there twice!), then you might just have a chance.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Not for me, I'd rather not be a couple's plaything lol"

Lol, you forgot the performing seal statement, there's always got to be a performing seal statement in these type of threads, as an accompaniment to the couples plaything remark.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Not for me, I'd rather not be a couple's plaything lol

Lol, you forgot the performing seal statement, there's always got to be a performing seal statement in these type of threads, as an accompaniment to the couples plaything remark."
oops

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Although I have to say the thread title would be enough to put me off and the fact that I would not be happy being an experiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all,

My FWB is bicurious, and I'm very keen to try an FFM :P so we've agreed to find another bicurious or bi woman to join us in the bedroom.

However, having been on the scene for a little while, I know exactly why single bi girls are referred to as unicorns! Does anyone have any advice as to how we can find someone to join us?

They are all at my ranch. Mr L. (Chief Unicorn Wrangler).

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Although I have to say the thread title would be enough to put me off and the fact that I would not be happy being an experiment"

Or being hunted lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Not for me, I'd rather not be a couple's plaything lol

Lol, you forgot the performing seal statement, there's always got to be a performing seal statement in these type of threads, as an accompaniment to the couples plaything remark."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads around...ample supply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me....it helps when its the girl who appraches me and not the guy from the profile.

"
. O dear that's me buggered then does seem it's me (male) that does message single women

. I'll stick to trying to win the lottery

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Why hunt them, why not engage and play with them?

It's not what "we" want as a couple, it's a holistic dynamic, who needs a certain play. 'Tas to be fun not planned (other than boundaries) fantastic and a laugh

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Fab is full of Bi women op,however i doubt they would agree to meet you and a lady on a single male prof .

Maybe create a joint profile and post pics of the lady too,or try a club?

Miss

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Is it just me or would the heading put off most women?

Put me off for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start at the end of the rainbow and then join the very very long queue

But if that fails then try going to clubs and socials and best start a couples profile too good luck xx"

Fyi Rainbows are circular so there is no end nor begining

... look it up I promise t'is true!... X

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Start at the end of the rainbow and then join the very very long queue

But if that fails then try going to clubs and socials and best start a couples profile too good luck xx

Fyi Rainbows are circular so there is no end nor begining

... look it up I promise t'is true!... X"

How it should be, or a spiral, it what defines Pi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How it should be, or a spiral, it what defines Pi

A Mandelbrot rainbow hey?!... that sure would be a sight to behold _icentious!... might need multidimensional goggles for that though lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're finding the same problem. There's lots of ladies that say they want to play but also know how high In Demand they are so tease torment and drop lol. Be nice to chat to someone genuine. We don't want a Plaything. We wNt someone to get pleasure from us...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"We're finding the same problem. There's lots of ladies that say they want to play but also know how high In Demand they are so tease torment and drop lol. Be nice to chat to someone genuine. We don't want a Plaything. We wNt someone to get pleasure from us... "

"There's lots of ladies that say they want to play but also know how high In Demand they are so tease torment and drop lol. "

Have you actually considered that you may not be what they are looking for after chatting? Why would they continue to correspond with you if there's not enough interest on their part? Would you waste your time doing this? People are entitled to choose who they meet and when, preferences should be respected. It works both ways, I've been messed around by numerous couples on here, maybe lose your sense of entitlement and you may find your unicorn! Your post on here probably hasn't helped you to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh as someone who has experience of "unicorns" they can be a real pain. Some are very needy and see themselves as sooo special. I would rather swap than have a unicorn. One tried to move in with us, another cried all the time none have ever really been interested in our sexual pleasure only their own. I know there are great unicorns (I hate that term) out there but be careful what you wish for.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Tbh as someone who has experience of "unicorns" they can be a real pain. Some are very needy and see themselves as sooo special. I would rather swap than have a unicorn. One tried to move in with us, another cried all the time none have ever really been interested in our sexual pleasure only their own. I know there are great unicorns (I hate that term) out there but be careful what you wish for."
I think we've all had bad experiences with different people on here, best just to move on

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Should have asked me GC

But I would say to visit a club or party as most mff situations happen organically. That's what most of my of experiences have been like.

Alternatively, catching a herd of us on a night out could lead to a night of an mffff... Just make sure the bed is strong

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