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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I have a conundrum which I would like some support with please.

I'm coming into my final month of gold membership on here and don't know if it's worth renewing or not.

When a member previously I always had some meets, not a prolific swinger but I was happy with the number, this time however I've not met one person and by the way this isn't a plea for meets, well not unless you really want to lol. Now I know I've gotten that little bit older, put on a few more pounds so will not be everyones cup of tea but I've had zilch, nadda, nothing.

I've changed profile text, location depending on where I'm working, pics but still failed drastically to arrange something, sure I've chatted but it never leads to anything.

So is it just me or have others found that "results" have declined for them as well, I have seen the site change over the years and lots more complaining about time wasters etc. but have also seen and read lots of stories and veris of successes.

Any thoughts, comments, suggestions or feedback would be appreciated.

Thanks in advance

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's your choice, no one can give you advice on whether you want to stay or go, it's your profile do with it what you will. Perhaps consider just hiding it rather than deleting account?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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you're getting chats, i'd take that as a good sign really that you're doing something right. most guys don't even get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey cool sunglasses shot, my favourite..you should stay XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's your choice, no one can give you advice on whether you want to stay or go, it's your profile do with it what you will. Perhaps consider just hiding it rather than deleting account?"

Thanks for replying, I understand that ultimately it's my choice, I guess I'm just trying to find out if others are in the same boat as me or if I'm unique in not getting any meets.

Hiding my profile or creating a brand new one may be an option once this subscription comes to an end.

Thanks again for taking the time to reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you're getting chats, i'd take that as a good sign really that you're doing something right. most guys don't even get a reply."

Thanks for that, however perhaps I should clarify that when I say chats, I mean maybe a reply to 1 in 20+ messages and most of those are "thanks but not for me", meaningful chats are very few and far between.

God I sound desperate here lol

Thanks again for the reply.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

But if you left .... you wouldnt be able to chat to all the lovleys on the forums ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if you left .... you wouldnt be able to chat to all the lovleys on the forums .. "

Too true to be honest I think this is probably the first time I've used the forums, maybe that's where I've been going wrong, I've had more replies here in 10 minutes than in a month of sending messages lol.

Thanks for taking the time to comment.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"you're getting chats, i'd take that as a good sign really that you're doing something right. most guys don't even get a reply.

Thanks for that, however perhaps I should clarify that when I say chats, I mean maybe a reply to 1 in 20+ messages and most of those are "thanks but not for me", meaningful chats are very few and far between.

God I sound desperate here lol

Thanks again for the reply."

you're welcome.

don't worry about sounding desperate, you don't. i think most women do understand it's hard for men on here.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's your choice, no one can give you advice on whether you want to stay or go, it's your profile do with it what you will. Perhaps consider just hiding it rather than deleting account?

Thanks for replying, I understand that ultimately it's my choice, I guess I'm just trying to find out if others are in the same boat as me or if I'm unique in not getting any meets.

Hiding my profile or creating a brand new one may be an option once this subscription comes to an end.

Thanks again for taking the time to reply."

No problem, but if you delete you lose all veris and have to start from scratch, so better to hide that's what I do when I need a break, nice sunglasses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's your choice, no one can give you advice on whether you want to stay or go, it's your profile do with it what you will. Perhaps consider just hiding it rather than deleting account?

Thanks for replying, I understand that ultimately it's my choice, I guess I'm just trying to find out if others are in the same boat as me or if I'm unique in not getting any meets.

Hiding my profile or creating a brand new one may be an option once this subscription comes to an end.

Thanks again for taking the time to reply.

No problem, but if you delete you lose all veris and have to start from scratch, so better to hide that's what I do when I need a break, nice sunglasses "

If only I had some veris to lose lol

Glad you like the sunnys

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