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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sends a message stating what I'm looking for, includes a pic.

Gets positive reply of looking good, I send back another message, being polite and asks for one back. deletes instantly. When asked why....delete delete delete...why bother when we get asked to make all the effort yet when it's their go it's a different rule!

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By *manda2626Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

i send pics,,, lots guys not serious,, think they save them and masturbate,, so its not just you guys

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Have you checked their profile before messaging to see if YOU are what THEY are looking for, OP? If not then it will be a wasted message and 9/10 times will be instantly deleted, possibly even unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I wouldn't worry yourself about it if they going to be like that. Sounds far too difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i send pics,,, lots guys not serious,, think they save them and masturbate,, so its not just you guys"

Correct.

By the way. You made me cum.

Ty.xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it "

I,m not looking for well hung guys XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was just a face pic and then I sent a starting message asking something completely normal. It's just tiring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it

I,m not looking for well hung guys XXX"

Thats why i said 70% of women. As some women prefer the average sized guy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Sends a message stating what I'm looking for, includes a pic.

Gets positive reply of looking good, I send back another message, being polite and asks for one back. deletes instantly. When asked why....delete delete delete...why bother when we get asked to make all the effort yet when it's their go it's a different rule! "

What ever was the point of asking why? If they didn't send their photo and deleted your message - what did that tell you? Did it suggest "oooh! you sound sexy, lets shag!" or did it suggest "meh not interested"?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Ah yes, us women who have wasted time writing profile just love to get messages from guys telling us what THEY want

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it "

Can you state your sources for the statistics?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it

Can you state your sources for the statistics?"

April 2016 copy of Woman's Weekly, dahn the laundrette, innit?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it

Can you state your sources for the statistics?

April 2016 copy of Woman's Weekly, dahn the laundrette, innit? "

Ahhh, must have got it from Sydney Uni seeing as they know so much about Fab

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By *ust me and the spidersWoman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Bloody hell am new to this and have been diligently trying to reply to everyone at least with a ' thanks for message ' kind of thing. Try ans be polite currently have 1.5k + unread. However, after nice chat I appear to have been blocked?! Cos I cannot meet right away. I dunno

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Bloody hell am new to this and have been diligently trying to reply to everyone at least with a ' thanks for message ' kind of thing. Try ans be polite currently have 1.5k + unread. However, after nice chat I appear to have been blocked?! Cos I cannot meet right away. I dunno"

Don't bother replying to them. It's time consuming and ultimately, a pointless waste of your and theirs valuable time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it

Can you state your sources for the statistics?"

My source for the statistics is some of the profiles and status updates on here. Its just a guess really nothing pointed at anyone on fab just what ive seen and read

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it

Can you state your sources for the statistics?

My source for the statistics is some of the profiles and status updates on here. Its just a guess really nothing pointed at anyone on fab just what ive seen and read "

A guess then.

If we're up for that I'd say 80% of men think women are only interested in cock size when they get no action. But it's usually because they have crap profiles

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Bloody hell am new to this and have been diligently trying to reply to everyone at least with a ' thanks for message ' kind of thing. Try ans be polite currently have 1.5k + unread. However, after nice chat I appear to have been blocked?! Cos I cannot meet right away. I dunno"

Get your filters on, or you'll be writing too many thank you messages to be able to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"70% of women on here are mainly looking for well hung guys anyway even if they are too big and csnt take it all. My view is it aint all about size its what you do with it that counts but thats my view.

As for the rest if they delete then leave them too it

I,m not looking for well hung guys XXX

Thats why i said 70% of women. As some women prefer the average sized guy "

I'd say more couples than women look for VWE guys, I see it a lot!

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