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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all, I have been here a while now and finding I am getting no luck with female and couples members of the site, I am unsure why as I have tried to keep my profile respectful, and decent.

I have no issues meeting male members and that's happens easily.

Am I doing something wrong, or is it just most don't want to meet a young male member of the site.

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are significantly more men on here, hence you are finding it easier to meet men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do understand that, but even when I message female members I don't get a reply.

First messages I send are always decent and polite and introduce myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age is a barrier to many, as mature ladies see you as the same age as their children.

You state you are inexperienced sexually. Many women don't want to take the lead, nor do the 'Mrs Robinson' thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay, thank you for your reply and comments. It's very much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women don't like to meet bisexual men either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you doing an advanced search, when browsing profiles ?

Ticking the box that says 'only show members seeking my age too' ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am doing yes, got that programmed as a save search too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of women don't like to meet bisexual men either "

I backed off that one, as it can get a bit heated on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose that one is down to preference, which we are all allowed to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am doing yes, got that programmed as a save search too"

Brill, that means you are targeting people seeking your age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am doing yes, got that programmed as a save search too

Brill, that means you are targeting people seeking your age "

Found that to be the best way, means I am not pestering people who I don't meet the age requirements for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples maybe after someone older has there children maybe not much off your age so would be like sleeping with there kids, plus some couples won't meet bi guys unless they are bi them selves, try a few social meetings at clubs or go to local clubs you may find more people will chat and are more social then chatting on fab.

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