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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Soo you just had a long foreplay session. You start fucking you feel the sudden urge to "bust a nut" u feel the thrill of a massive cum. U glance at the bedside clock and realise shit ots only been two minutes.

What tactics do you use to delay yourself cumming??

Change positions

Think about work??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bust your nut then go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you looking at the clock for anyway?

Hubby has shot his load after 2-3 minutes more than once, we wipe down, make a drink then I suck him back to hardness and go again.

Stop worrying about it. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What you looking at the clock for anyway?

Hubby has shot his load after 2-3 minutes more than once, we wipe down, make a drink then I suck him back to hardness and go again.

Stop worrying about it. x"

Ahh but things your hubby gets away with a planned meet won't

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

My advice

Give her some oral loving.

Squeeze your PC muscle until the urge subsides.

Take it slow

Prey

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By *annedandtallMan
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Just think of your Granny's knickers

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

This is real life, not porn. You're not expected to last for a day before coming.

You can either go for it and just enjoy your orgasm without shouting SORRY SORRY SORRY or you can stop and concentrate on other areas. Although if you've just got done with foreplay then that may be a bit weird.

If you really want to delay things, try using a thicker condom or try the ones with the numbing gel inside the tip. Also try and go easy on the penis pregame.

But yeah. Sex is for both of you to enjoy, not just for her.

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM

Think of old nuns and dead kittens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just bust your nut then go again. "

This!!

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai


"What you looking at the clock for anyway?

Hubby has shot his load after 2-3 minutes more than once, we wipe down, make a drink then I suck him back to hardness and go again.

Stop worrying about it. x"

That's exactly the right attitude! I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn about edging

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Car parks baby. Think about them carparks. Then think about owning a car park and driving around it. You'll last hours.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

There's a not so well published trick which actually works. I will DM it to you, you will be surprised who effective it is (that means it works).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think about Gail Platt no joke it works

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Think about the Queen on the toilet. If this makes you cum even quicker them good luck to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do feel for guys as it must be so frustrating/embarrassing. Oh my goodness though it's so frustrating when just as things are hotting up and it's feeling good the guy has to change positions/pull out for a bit to stop himself from cumming. I still haven't found a guy that can continue exactly the same when he finally hits my good spot. I think it's probably because a) I think it feels extra good just before a guy cums and b)I tend to ramp up a gear in my general 'fuck me now' state and this tips them over the edge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kick in the willy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think about Gail Platt no joke it works"

Gail Platt is fit

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I know it's not great cumming too early but if a guy can't control himself I take it as a massive compliment

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By *eek12Man
over a year ago

lakenheath

Change position or go down on her to give me a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it's happened to all of us at some point!!

Sometimes you just got to go when you've got to go!!

Not sure I've found any techniques that work and allow you to calm down with out stopping the action!

So as others say - just prepare yourself for round 2 in a little while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think about Gail Platt no joke it works

Gail Platt is fit "

aye no bother stevie wonder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do feel for guys as it must be so frustrating/embarrassing. Oh my goodness though it's so frustrating when just as things are hotting up and it's feeling good the guy has to change positions/pull out for a bit to stop himself from cumming. I still haven't found a guy that can continue exactly the same when he finally hits my good spot. I think it's probably because a) I think it feels extra good just before a guy cums and b)I tend to ramp up a gear in my general 'fuck me now' state and this tips them over the edge. "

This!! When you realise she is getting turned on and starts screaming you name, when u her hios start grinding into you its sure to make you explode in ecstasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think about Gail Platt no joke it works

Gail Platt is fit

aye no bother stevie wonder "

Who said that????

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I do feel for guys as it must be so frustrating/embarrassing. Oh my goodness though it's so frustrating when just as things are hotting up and it's feeling good the guy has to change positions/pull out for a bit to stop himself from cumming. I still haven't found a guy that can continue exactly the same when he finally hits my good spot. I think it's probably because a) I think it feels extra good just before a guy cums and b)I tend to ramp up a gear in my general 'fuck me now' state and this tips them over the edge. "

I know that feeling!

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By *haverMan
over a year ago

bracknell


"Car parks baby. Think about them carparks. Then think about owning a car park and driving around it. You'll last hours."

Yes specially the cost of car parks in reading you'll last all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mates used to say think of shagging some old granny and that will put you off - but the thing is you're supposed to be enjoying it! Trying to 'ruin' the moment to make you last longer almost feels like counter intuitive to having sex in the first place!!

The other that does seem to work is having a bottle of wine! Just takes the edge off both inhibitions and sensitivities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have some cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you looking at the clock for anyway?

Hubby has shot his load after 2-3 minutes more than once, we wipe down, make a drink then I suck him back to hardness and go again.

Stop worrying about it. x"

This, plus remember to scream her name when you climax.

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By *r_BBW_LoverMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Squeeze your dick at the base, mostly on the underside. It stops the flow of blood. If you get it right, you can bring yourself back from the precipice without going soft.

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By *wingtolifeCouple
over a year ago

who knows

Counting, but my thoughts are too erotic to bloody count, id rather be in the moment than think of shit things to think about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I'd rather someone I was fucking didn't think of something gross to avoid cumming too soon. I enjoy it when they do and don't really mind how quickly that happens.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Just bust your nut then go again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age old wank before a meet dilemma.

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