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By *lade10000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prick always out even in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?"

we have one of those little fish signs on the boot of our car

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got a lizard sticker on my car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?

we have one of those little fish signs on the boot of our car "
oh right something fishy going on in here yes

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Am just going outside to water the pampas grass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the sign is...

For a lady,

A coarse rope bracelet on the ankle (rope for swinging off)

For a man... same but rope bracelet on wrist.

There's different colours for different meanings.

Red for gay/lesbian

Blue for Bi

Green for straight

Orange for group sex.

Google it for other colours and their meanings.

The rope is available online, cut it to size.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you want to? "
well let's face it we wouldn't need a sign for you I'd recognise those on a clear day from 28 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you want to? "
well let's face it we wouldn't need a sign for you I'd recognise those on a clear day from 28 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They drive blue cars and use they're indicators as a sign for you to follow them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a bright yellow t-shirt that says 'I'm a swinger' on the front, 'fancy a fuck' on the back.

Simple

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No there isn't. I don't think it would remain discreet for long. Also anyone using the sign unaware of what it meant might react quite badly to being approached.

Stick to places where you know people are definitely swingers.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?"

If we put it on an open forum it wouldn't be a secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the day there used to be websites for swingers too, then thanks to the media, they all became popular and any number of chancers joined them.

Secrets don't remain secret for long.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We don't want to be recognised in day-day life. Even if it did stay secret between swingers or this site, we like to play at certain times and live our everyday life the rest of the time.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Isn't it more fun playing the "I wonder....." game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?

we have one of those little fish signs on the boot of our car "

thought the fish sign was christianism sign

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?

we have one of those little fish signs on the boot of our car

thought the fish sign was christianism sign "

Now you tell me - I thought it odd my local church carpark was full of swingers - almost made me go to mass as I thought it must have got a lot more interesting since I was a kid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god! You're right ... Did some googling and even found swingers jewellery.... my god that must have been a unique Dragon's Den moment.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?

we have one of those little fish signs on the boot of our car

thought the fish sign was christianism sign "

For those that believe in fairy tales?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got a badge - people comment all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?

we have one of those little fish signs on the boot of our car "

Thought that was born again Christians?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?

we have one of those little fish signs on the boot of our car

Thought that was born again Christians?"

it is - the ichthus - but its a constant joke that its a swingers emblem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people openely show their face on here so would be easy to spot them.

Personally we would rather not be known as swingers in public and would rather keep our swinging life and our normal life separate. As would most

~Mia

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"Some people openely show their face on here so would be easy to spot them.

Personally we would rather not be known as swingers in public and would rather keep our swinging life and our normal life separate. As would most

~Mia"

Especially in small Highland towns!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people openely show their face on here so would be easy to spot them.

Personally we would rather not be known as swingers in public and would rather keep our swinging life and our normal life separate. As would most

~Mia

Especially in small Highland towns! "

Yeah

Already had a few folk from the area guess who we are based on our age.

Creeps me out when folk do that.

Like one guy who said he had saw me at my work place. Creep alert

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?"

.....

I've read in several articles about swinging that say wearing any type of black ring on the right hand means you're a lifestyler. Don't wear a black ring on your middle finger though, as it means your identify as asexual.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I wear a bright yellow t-shirt that says 'I'm a swinger' on the front, 'fancy a fuck' on the back.

Simple "
my car number plate ends in FAF....

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

'Merry Christmas'

I carry a 4 foot pampas plant around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you see a couple and the female is wearing pampus grass around her ankle, be in no doubt. They are swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about Fab coming up with a t-shirt?

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

We like the T-shirt with the wording "It isn't cheating when my husband watches"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because any such sign would be in that weeks issue of the daily mail in the "femail" section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a tee shirt it says no cock pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like the T-shirt with the wording "It isn't cheating when my husband watches""

My wife wears that t-shirt to the beach, always gets a few stares

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By *hris 696969Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

You wouldn't need a t shirt a badge a bit of rope or anything else on here all you need is for all the timewasters fake profiles to fxxk off and you will be left with Swingers like fabs was at the beginning

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

In the supermarket if you suspect someone is a swinger, stand in front of them and with your left hand form an "O" using you thumb and forefinger. With your right hand take your forefinger and pump in and out of the centre of the "O" repeatedly whilst shouting wayhaaaay. Yeeeehahhh is an acceptable alternative shout.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"How can swingers recognise one another in public. Is there a secret sign apart fon maybe body language ... what about a phrase or bracelet or ... I don't known ... any ideas?"

Yes of course there is how do you think we all meet when out?

Unfortunately as it is a secret sign we cannot let you in on the secret, otherwise it would not be secret.

However if you follow the secret code of ethics a member will approach you and with luck you might be initiated into the secret world of swingers

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By *ellensd41Woman
over a year ago

north yorkshire

Lol I drive a ago blue never had anybody follow me xx

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

There is one handy sign, it says 'Swingers Club' , you go through the door to a world of fun and adventure.....

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By *teveoabcMan
over a year ago

banbury

One way to tell if it is a swingers car , is if it has those little plastic flags stuck on it. If you see one just go up and stick your knob through the window I'm sure it will be readily appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a lizard sticker on my car"

I have one of those too

Nobody has ever asked about it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just keep licking your lips . lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i am thinking of getting a chameleon tattoo

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have a badge which says "pervert" and another with a pictogram of a man flanked by two women and the text "sharing is caring"

Nobody actually notices if I wear them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am thinking of getting a chameleon tattoo"

Me too. I've had the design drawn already, but have cancelled two appointments because I can't decide where to have it!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"i am thinking of getting a chameleon tattoo

Me too. I've had the design drawn already, but have cancelled two appointments because I can't decide where to have it!"
i want mine on my arm, with it looking onto my shoulder, however i am going to have it done in henna first..cos i'm like that..other signs could be a 'sir's' on my ass, of course that's not public, damn horny thought though

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

A lot of the single guys wear a wedding ring...if that helps?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

There is a secret sign and its simply this ( removed by secret swinging overlords ).

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By *lade10000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Depends who's on the forum

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've got a lizard sticker on my car"

It does nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of us don't really want to be approached or propositioned by other swingers in vanilla life / when out and about in public.

What part of discretion are you confused by?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is, but it's a massive secret we can't tell you. But we can tell you we are all at it like rabbits. One simple flick of the sign and that's it straight to business.

It's probably happening right now in the room next door, if not definitely within a maximum raduis of 50 meters.

If only you knew the sign.

Sorry got to go, just got the sign, that's the fourth today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband and I wear a black ring on our thumb which is a sign. You can basically wear them on any finger on the right hand apart from middle finger. Wearing it on your middle finger is a sign of asexuality, so is not done out of respect for this group x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of the single guys wear a wedding ring...if that helps?"

that's so funny!!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

The thing to really watch for is a series of small pock marks above the headboard caused by the wearing of high heels for photography purposes.

Though obviously if you are already in the bedroom it might be superfluous!

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental

Try chucking your car keys in a pot at a party and see who joins in!!

Grow some pampas grass in your front garden, see who knocks on your door!!

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

I'm wearing the symbol in one of my pics on here......

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