FabSwingers.com forum: How to approach on this site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone got any tips on first messages on this site, I'm new to this sence. Help would be appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whoever you are messaging, read their profile and tailor it to what it says...

and be polite..

don't wait for a response though, as no response means no so you should just accept that you aren't forthem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"whoever you are messaging, read their profile and tailor it to what it says...

and be polite..

don't wait for a response though, as no response means no so you should just accept that you aren't forthem

Thanks Mzzfox for the tip

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

be brief, ask an open ended question and make sure you're compatible.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"be brief, ask an open ended question and make sure you're compatible.

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why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"be brief, ask an open ended question and make sure you're compatible.

Much appreciated Nicecouple561, I'll remember the open question

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

The least successful for us are people that clearly haven't read our profile and are obviously not what we're looking for. These are quickly followed by the 'fancy a fuck' type of message.

The most successful are the funny/polite ones where they've taken the time to read about us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for humour lol

Dorsny work for me but im not very funny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sneak up behind them.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Go for humour lol

Dorsny work for me but im not very funny lol"

What is Dorsny work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go for humour lol

Dorsny work for me but im not very funny lol

What is Dorsny work?"

Im scottish

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By *portyNEMan
over a year ago

london

Dorsney

Does not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Gladpus i am also new on fabs but these are things i tried and i think i found a way how to be sucessful in few steps. 1. You really need to read profiles (Multiple times) and write polite and nice message, according to circumstances in the profile

and add little description of yourself (don't write something nasty, as they don't know you yet and it will just put them off) 2. In message also mention that you want first conversation meet somewhere in public.(You both need to be careful who you are meeting) 3. NEVER EXPECT reply back, there is so many guys doing the same thing as you do (including me). I said never but there is like 0,01% chance you can get reply back and i don't want you to get heart attack cuz you got message back and didn't expect getting one, so there is little chance. (I talked to some guys who know some guys who got reply back, but i say bullshit i don't trust them.) 4. Don't give up and keep trying until you sent messages to all local women in your area. 5. Give up swallow sadness try not to cry. 6. Jerk off in bahtroom lie down on the floor, cry a lot. 7. Read latest messages you got from gay guys, consider your options. 8. Get yourself together and try to visit club. Success.

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