FabSwingers.com forum: Chance meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have asked my wife several times if she'd be interested in a 3some or swinging. She can be a bit of a prude but has admitted she would try an mff if it happened by chance!

How can I make this happen by 'chance'? Any suggestions please.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By the way I definately wouldn't dress up for it!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest a club, no pressures as you can go and treat it as a night out you two, go a step further and talk to people there or try it and see. If the outcome is you walk away with her going thanks but not for me then you've an answer

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have asked my wife several times if she'd be interested in a 3some or swinging. She can be a bit of a prude but has admitted she would try an mff if it happened by chance!

How can I make this happen by 'chance'? Any suggestions please. "

By definition you can't make anything happen by chance. If you make it happen you are setting your wife up. Since chance is very random and unlikely to occur in the way we want it to I would say your wife is telling you just that.

Have another chat with her, try not to think of her as a prude because she isn't enthusiastic about the same things as you and see if she likes the club idea that has been suggested.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think of your wife as a prude and are looking to arrange an FFM without her knowledge or expressed consent. What could possibly go wrong?

There are many ways to introducea partner to swinging. This scenario probably isn't one of the best ones