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Will she think I don't love her because I lshear her with other men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Hands up if you know what's coming...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

She only does it for you OP.....that is not good!!! It's obvious she is not enjoying it. Why would you put your wife through this just for 'your' pleasure.

Tut tut

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"She only does it for you OP.....that is not good!!! It's obvious she is not enjoying it. Why would you put your wife through this just for 'your' pleasure.

Tut tut

"

Bingo

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Stop doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She tells me she she does it for me but enjoys making me happy on a number of occasions she was the one that suggested we go play I don't ask her anymore but if she suggests it I will go her love means more than a fantasy to me xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her "

Why are you telling us this and not her?

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By *wingtolifeCouple
over a year ago

who knows

Strange post, you dont do it because you dont want to, she doesnt want to do it but your wife does it for you.

Why dont you quit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confusing. Is it that she only does it to make you happy. Or that she enjoys doing it as she loves seeing you happy? In example, my ex loved cross dressing. It didnt turn me on at all. But seeing how much it turned him on did. So all good in my book. But if it was that I just put up with it because I didnt want to make him unhappy, maybe thought I might lose him otherwise, well that would have been a different thing entirely. Can you see the difference? Or have I just drank too much vino?!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her "

It's great that you have a wife who wants to please you. My only question is what will you do when she gets bored of this?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Confusing. Is it that she only does it to make you happy. Or that she enjoys doing it as she loves seeing you happy? In example, my ex loved cross dressing. It didnt turn me on at all. But seeing how much it turned him on did. So all good in my book. But if it was that I just put up with it because I didnt want to make him unhappy, maybe thought I might lose him otherwise, well that would have been a different thing entirely. Can you see the difference? Or have I just drank too much vino?!"

You've drank too much vino lol. OPs wife has sex with other men to make him (OP) happy. He asks if she enjoys it and the reply is she does it to make him happy. Having sex with someone should only be done if the person doing it enjoys it.....I certainly would not have sex to make someone else happy

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her "

Does she mean: A) she does it because you like it, but she could personally take it or leave it

Or

B) She doesn't like it but does it for you, a bit like washing up dishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her

Does she mean: A) she does it because you like it, but she could personally take it or leave it

Or

B) She doesn't like it but does it for you, a bit like washing up dishes "

Or C) she does it because she doesn't want to lose him.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

My advice is to advise her to trim down below before meets. That way you can share her instead of shearing her and she should definitely feel more love

Hope this helps

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"My advice is to advise her to trim down below before meets. That way you can share her instead of shearing her and she should definitely feel more love

Hope this helps "

OMG OMG how observant, even I missed that! I'm laughing so much now!

OP has not responded, probably busy 'shearing' ha ha haaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her

Why are you telling us this and not her?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking a peek it seems you stopped playing a while ago op.

Does she know your profile is still on here or have you become another single guy using a redundant couples profile?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"My advice is to advise her to trim down below before meets. That way you can share her instead of shearing her and she should definitely feel more love

Hope this helps

OMG OMG how observant, even I missed that! I'm laughing so much now!

OP has not responded, probably busy 'shearing' ha ha haaaaa "

Or swigging some hard liquor at the club

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we think op female got to enjoy the life style .as to play this game both have to be ready willing and able.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice is to advise her to trim down below before meets. That way you can share her instead of shearing her and she should definitely feel more love

Hope this helps "

I was wondering if anyone was going to pick up on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given this "I lshear her" and the fact that they are a Welsh couple, I think the OP is obviously talking about one of his sheep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her "
I like to swig when I'm at a club let's face it its a social event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Given this "I lshear her" and the fact that they are a Welsh couple, I think the OP is obviously talking about one of his sheep."

Yes and she's going to be spit roasted soon XXX

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

She might even be a bit embarassed to admit she enjoys being fucked by other men - guess you need to try and have a really honest discussion about it.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"

Given this "I lshear her" and the fact that they are a Welsh couple, I think the OP is obviously talking about one of his sheep.

Yes and she's going to be spit roasted soon XXX"

Slam in the lamb ...remember that ?

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