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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The general consensus is "keep your mouth shut"

They may not want to be recognised, or they nay be in a relationship and are keeping fab a secret.

Respect everyones anominity.

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By *armersWoman
over a year ago

castle bromwich


"The general consensus is "keep your mouth shut"

They may not want to be recognised, or they nay be in a relationship and are keeping fab a secret.

Respect everyones anominity."

Totally agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?"

No, we block and never mention it if we see anyone we know.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?"

Don't say anything and block them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?

Don't say anything and block them. "

What they said ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?

Don't say anything and block them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?

Don't say anything and block them. "

Agree, we do the same. Block and forget

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I wouldnt say anything and prob block depending who they were to me .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Noted!

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By *appily marriedCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd be mortified if someone on here approached either of us in real life. It would be very indiscreet and disrespectful. If I recognised someone I would walk on by and hope they'd do the same too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?"

NO

Block and forget you ever saw them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually get this fairly regularly. I get messages from guys all the time asking "say, do you work in (insert company)?" It's fucking awful and makes you consider being on here at all.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Try being a TV and having random people message you guessing names or saying 'i know you'. It just comes off as a threat and I don't know why people do it.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Would love someone to recognise me....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a TV and having random people message you guessing names or saying 'i know you'. It just comes off as a threat and I don't know why people do it. "

God the " I know you" messages. The fuck is that? Trying to worry me into bed with you? Or do they think someone knowing a part of my life is gonna get me all hard? Fucking idiots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't just forget and I have a strange attraction to wanting to do something with them...i blocked them though following your advice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?"

I shit myself till I saw your not local

I get paranoid all the time wondering if the lady in the shop or my doctor saw me on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?

I shit myself till I saw your not local

I get paranoid all the time wondering if the lady in the shop or my doctor saw me on here "

Perhaps shame is all part of the growing process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get recognised through the occasional times I post my face pics as public then recognised and questioned; All I do is say "Same party, different perspective".

I never get hung up on the fact I'm on this site. No different then meeting somebody at a normal club etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I showed my friends pics of me dressed and even one who is trans did not recognise me so I am doing something right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I showed my friends pics of me dressed and even one who is trans did not recognise me so I am doing something right "

You've got that one down it would seem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?"
yes go on say hi what's the worst that can happen

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I recognised a friend of a friend. Block. End of. Wouldn't mention it to them unless we wanted to play with them, which we don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across someone here who I know and didn't expect to see ...what would you do?? Would you say hello?yes go on say hi what's the worst that can happen "

Who knows! Haha!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"The general consensus is "keep your mouth shut"

They may not want to be recognised, or they nay be in a relationship and are keeping fab a secret.

Respect everyones anominity.

Totally agree"

This plus block and stay quiet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The general consensus is "keep your mouth shut"

They may not want to be recognised, or they nay be in a relationship and are keeping fab a secret.

Respect everyones anominity.

Totally agree

This plus block and stay quiet."

It's a couple so does it still count?

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Everyone we know in our lives knows what we do. Work, family, friends. We couldn’t give a shit if people recognised us and said hi. Maybe we’d not say hi to them. Why would we when we could say hi in real life if we know them? But yeah, some people panic at the idea that someone knows they aren’t leading the typical life. Like it matters?

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

There’s too much shame involved in sex as it is, but we figure if someone judges us negatively because they find out we don’t lead a stereotype life, why would we continue to have anything to do with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The general consensus is "keep your mouth shut"

They may not want to be recognised, or they nay be in a relationship and are keeping fab a secret.

Respect everyones anominity.

Totally agree

This plus block and stay quiet.

It's a couple so does it still count? "
not related I hope ?? Friends of family or an ex girlfriends parents oh my

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