FabSwingers.com forum: Contraception advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am on the pill and don't meet often and never bare back anyone except hubby

I had to change pill recently as old one discontinued

I've had 2 weeks of bleeding since I started it

It's driving me and my husband mad

I am horny and frustrated

Any tips ???

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am on the pill and don't meet often and never bare back anyone except hubby

I had to change pill recently as old one discontinued

I've had 2 weeks of bleeding since I started it

It's driving me and my husband mad

I am horny and frustrated

Any tips ???

About what?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Towel on the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beppy tampons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which type of pill? I've been on and off the mini pill for years, and whenever I go back on it I spot for a few weeks then it settles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask a doctor instead of a bunch of random strangers? Surely they're better qualified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex in the shower?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Norethisterone the period delay pill x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry for saying it but i have to

When the river is running red take the dirt track instead?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Im sorry for saying it but i have to

When the river is running red take the dirt track instead? "

Why did you 'have to'? For goodness sake!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This can be quite normal. It may wear off eventually. If not then I'd seek professional advice as to what other options may suit.

~Mia

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Bit of a pointless exercise asking other ladies about contraception advice. All ladies react differently to different options. Xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Bit of a pointless exercise asking other ladies about contraception advice. All ladies react differently to different options. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sorry for saying it but i have to

When the river is running red take the dirt track instead?

Why did you 'have to'? For goodness sake!!! "

I just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of a pointless exercise asking other ladies about contraception advice. All ladies react differently to different options. Xx

Yeah best discussing with a professional. There are downsides and upsides for all contraception just depends on the person.

~Mia

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

OP you should speak to somebody who's qualified instead of asking on here. As previously said we're all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of a pointless exercise asking other ladies about contraception advice. All ladies react differently to different options. Xx

While its true that everyone can react different ... doctors often offer you the cheapest and easiest options so it is helpful to ask somewhere here where a wide range of women can asvise what types they have tried and what they found good and bad about ... lets you be armed with some ideas for things you might like to try before returning to the doctor

OP ive been lucky that the generic first choice pill works pretty well for me and i can tricycle my packs together .., i have tried the mini pill before but bled constantly ... its the same hormones in the implant which puts me off that ad an options ... they do often say that it can take up to 6 months for the bleeding to settle down though

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I am on the pill and don't meet often and never bare back anyone except hubby

I had to change pill recently as old one discontinued

I've had 2 weeks of bleeding since I started it

It's driving me and my husband mad

I am horny and frustrated

Any tips ???

We would suggest you have sex while you are menstruating as the result is often lighter, shorter periods.

We know many people are disgusted with period sex but if you can ignore the mess it can be beneficial.

Take sensible precautions, waterproof mattress protector covered by a sheet on the bed, husband use a condom to prevent pregnancy (it will also help keep his cock clean).

You might find that by having sex while you have your period things settle down more quickly and your body will come to terms with the new pill quicker.

You could find perhaps, the worst thing about sex when menstruating is having to get up afterwards to wash and clean up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sorry for saying it but i have to

When the river is running red take the dirt track instead? "
hilarious, never heard that before..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sorry for saying it but i have to

When the river is running red take the dirt track instead? hilarious, never heard that before.. "

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

We have had some of our best sex when I'm on. Orgasms are out of this world and last ages. One thing though , definitely put protection down because of the large and bloody evacuation when you orgasm. Big bonus , certainly shortened my period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get hubby to have snip, then don't need to take pill at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I changed to the mini pill it took 6 to 12 months for my cycle to settle.

Fortunately my fuck bud at the time didnt care.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

is there not a sea sponge tampon designed for this?

Google it!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Get hubby to have snip, then don't need to take pill at all"

This

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By *armersWoman
over a year ago

castle bromwich

"Im sorry for saying it but i have to

When the river is running red take the dirt track instead? "

Bloody hilarious lol

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Im sorry for saying it but i have to

When the river is running red take the dirt track instead? "

Ha ha love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to discuss with GP, there may be underlying health issues as to why you cannot use other types of contraception & obviously we don't know that.

You can arm yourself with information though, implant, coil, depo injection etc

That way you'll get the best out of your GP appointment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get hubby to have snip, then don't need to take pill at all"

if I was still fertile, even if my partner was sterilized, I'd still take the pill while taking part in this hobby. Condoms aren't 100% reliable and very dependant on user competence. It may seem a bit belt and braces but I wouldn't want to take any chances of conceiving

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

go to docs and they will find out what is wrong

"Get hubby to have snip, then don't need to take pill at all"

thats sad and not a lot of guys would do thats very precious part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"go to docs and they will find out what is wrong

Get hubby to have snip, then don't need to take pill at all

thats sad and not a lot of guys would do thats very precious part."

According to mens health magazine approximately 90,000 men a year get the snip so looks like a lot of men would ... probably husbands who realise their wife has been pumping her body with hormones for years as birth control , then put her body through the trauma of pregnancy and giving birth so maybe its his turn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"go to docs and they will find out what is wrong

Get hubby to have snip, then don't need to take pill at all

thats sad and not a lot of guys would do thats very precious part."

When you bareback your meets who is taking responsibility for contraception? ... and how are you protecting your precious parts then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"go to docs and they will find out what is wrong

Get hubby to have snip, then don't need to take pill at all

thats sad and not a lot of guys would do thats very precious part.

When you bareback your meets who is taking responsibility for contraception? ... and how are you protecting your precious parts then

*high five to that!

Obviously not his

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jesus

Just asking for a little lighthearted advice to see if others experienced the bleeding when changing pills

Obviously I'm not thick and wouldn't rely on medical advice from strangers on a swinging site, I was just frustrated last night by the bleeding when I wrote the post.

have a doctors appointment during the week to discuss other options

I've heard good advice re the mirena coil so will look into all options

Period sex can be fun I agree but i wouldn't meet anyone when I have period and love the saying about the dirt track

Thanks everyone xxx

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I'm too old for the pill. The coil I got fitted over a year ago has virtually stopped all bleeding. I'm good to go all the time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's what I'm looking for

Periods to be gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I'm looking for

Periods to be gone

Xx"

I tricycle my packs until i spot then i take a period ... usually only have about 4 a year now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I'm looking for

Periods to be gone

Xx"

Depends on the contraception and your reaction to it.

I was originally on the injection (the 3 monthly one) and my periods stopped and only light spotting for a few months on and off. Then it completely stopped. Was on it for a year and a bit.

Changed over to the implant and had no change then suddenly gained loads of weight and kept getting days and days of light bleeding. But it's not a proper period just very light bleeding and it goes away again for months on end.

But I know others who have either had no period at all or a normal period just depends on you.

The implant works for me just now until I get it taken out I haven't considered other options as I need something long term.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I'm looking for

Periods to be gone

Depends on the contraception and your reaction to it.

I was originally on the injection (the 3 monthly one) and my periods stopped and only light spotting for a few months on and off. Then it completely stopped. Was on it for a year and a bit.

But I know others who have either had no period at all or a normal period just depends on you.

The implant works for me just now until I get it taken out I haven't considered other options as I need something long term.

~Mia"

Can speak for a FWB, she has a coil and it does the trick. Only thing is certain positions you (I) can feel it but she had it adjusted and fine. Had another girl with implant and she rated that too. Having doscussed it at length with a both can recommend either if the pill is not the way to go

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By *hestercplCouple
over a year ago

chester

Doctors are not the best we find family planning clinic have much more experience and are much more helpful gps have so much to contend with that it's often not there area of expertise

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I have had implant okay when it was fitted but when i changed my mind and went on somthing else it messed with my body i have more problems which family planning said its common when having implant removed

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Check out the mirena Facebook page. Lots of problems although it's great for a lot of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd recommend discussing the options with your local sexual health clinic, I've certainly got more comprehensive advice there than with my GP.

As for what to try my experiences aren't going to help as people react differently. I had an awful time with the implant whereas others have loved it. Now have a mirena coil and it's working much better for me but was incredibly painful when it was put it, other people report no issues. I was on the depo for a decade and loved it, others hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I'm looking for

Periods to be gone

Depends on the contraception and your reaction to it.

I was originally on the injection (the 3 monthly one) and my periods stopped and only light spotting for a few months on and off. Then it completely stopped. Was on it for a year and a bit.

But I know others who have either had no period at all or a normal period just depends on you.

The implant works for me just now until I get it taken out I haven't considered other options as I need something long term.

~Mia

I was told to avoid the coil but shall look into everything as the implant is doing my head in.

~Mia

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"That's what I'm looking for

Periods to be gone

Depends on the contraception and your reaction to it.

I was originally on the injection (the 3 monthly one) and my periods stopped and only light spotting for a few months on and off. Then it completely stopped. Was on it for a year and a bit.

But I know others who have either had no period at all or a normal period just depends on you.

The implant works for me just now until I get it taken out I haven't considered other options as I need something long term.

~Mia

I was told to avoid the coil but shall look into everything as the implant is doing my head in.

~Mia"

I've spoken to two women who found the coil less that satisfactory. But the good experiences far outweigh the bad. I for one, would recommend it!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i would use condoms while having this bleed, i got pregnant during the breakthrough bleed stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I'm looking for

Periods to be gone

Depends on the contraception and your reaction to it.

I was originally on the injection (the 3 monthly one) and my periods stopped and only light spotting for a few months on and off. Then it completely stopped. Was on it for a year and a bit.

But I know others who have either had no period at all or a normal period just depends on you.

The implant works for me just now until I get it taken out I haven't considered other options as I need something long term.

~Mia

I was told to avoid the coil but shall look into everything as the implant is doing my head in.

~Mia

I've spoken to two women who found the coil less that satisfactory. But the good experiences far outweigh the bad. I for one, would recommend it!

Thank you

may give it try when my implant time is up next April

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My periods were a nightmare with the implant, I was on for six weeks non stop at one stage, and I was a hormonal mess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the problem? Bit of blood won't hurt him u may find others who don't mind either. I'm always more horny with a bessy bleed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send him to the vets for the snip. It's worth it for the drugs alone!

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

"Ask a doctor instead of a bunch of random strangers? Surely they're better qualified? "

That's not fair, surely?!

Experts in a particular activity -in this case swinging - might point to what's particularly relevant in other "fields".

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

I haven't read the whole page sorry

I was suffering a few years ago with continuous bleeding

My doc prescribed norethisterone tablets which stopped the bleeding but it's only a temporary measure and obviously you need to get to toot of of your problems as I did

But it helped us to enjoy a naughty weekend away and stopped the bleeding

Anna x

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