FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

How to initiate?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, we are very new to this and have 1 massive thing we can not understand which is......

How do you initiate with a person in a club or hotel etc? What do you say to start and things like that. For example if me and my wife were having fun how can we signal it was ok for someone specific to join us? This may sound silly but we wouldn't want to look like divs or make the time very awkward lol

Hope to hear back soon

Paul and Abbi

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ns2006Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

If you've not had chance to chat to them before hand then make eye contact, smile ... and if they've still not picked up on your interest then offer a hand out to them .... most people would take that as a big hint

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you normally flirt, chat, body language I find along the lines are we going to play usually works.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Go with the flow, follow other people's leads, let things happen naturally & don't be pushy. Enjoy yourselves as you would in any other club but remember no means no. Have fun guys.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district


"Go with the flow, follow other people's leads, let things happen naturally & don't be pushy. Enjoy yourselves as you would in any other club but remember no means no. Have fun guys. "

Agree, looking back it was trial and error, felt very odd at first but is quite natural now. Think it's a process everyone has to go through!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hi, we are very new to this and have 1 massive thing we can not understand which is......

How do you initiate with a person in a club or hotel etc? What do you say to start and things like that. For example if me and my wife were having fun how can we signal it was ok for someone specific to join us? This may sound silly but we wouldn't want to look like divs or make the time very awkward lol

Hope to hear back soon

Paul and Abbi"

It has to be personal to u or you will feel very awkward, i can tell u what we do,but thats just what works for us.

If you were about to start shagging a date how wud you go about it,are u an asker?A toucher? A stripper?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Hi, we are very new to this and have 1 massive thing we can not understand which is......

How do you initiate with a person in a club or hotel etc? What do you say to start and things like that. For example if me and my wife were having fun how can we signal it was ok for someone specific to join us? This may sound silly but we wouldn't want to look like divs or make the time very awkward lol

Hope to hear back soon

Paul and Abbi"

Come to Vanilla Alternatives on 24th September and we'll work it out together.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top