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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you feel that way OP, then its time to either delete the profile or at least hide it...

take a break and come back with renewed vigour...

I did the same thing for a couple of months and it really does make a difference

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Life is full of changes and this includes our desires etc

Perhaps you have other distractions going on.

Either way be gentle with yourself..we probably all have 'barren' periods, accept and 'lust' will no doubt return..

Ps..nice pics

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Life is full of changes and this includes our desires etc

Perhaps you have other distractions going on.

Either way be gentle with yourself..we probably all have 'barren' periods, accept and 'lust' will no doubt return..

Ps..nice pics"

Thanks Ken

I think that maybe I need to have a breck, and possibly reflect too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get like this, it seems a bit hard work sometimes so we just hide our profile for a few months until we fancy it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take a break, hide if you won't log in still and delete if you won't be able to resist.

Just use the forums. Being on Fab doesn't mean you're obligated to meet anyone ever. Just do what makes you happy.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed. "

Here's a secret. Some of the people who've been swinging for a long time take breaks. Some regularly. It's ok, we do need to recharge our batteries sometimes and come back raring to go!

Personally, I treat swinging like the many other hobbies I've had in my life. I get out of the house, meet some interesting people and have fun! Swinging isn't my entire life but it does add to the quality of it. Same as meeting my mates down the pub for a drink.

Having said that, I do still need a break from my mates sometimes...

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed.

Here's a secret. Some of the people who've been swinging for a long time take breaks. Some regularly. It's ok, we do need to recharge our batteries sometimes and come back raring to go!

Personally, I treat swinging like the many other hobbies I've had in my life. I get out of the house, meet some interesting people and have fun! Swinging isn't my entire life but it does add to the quality of it. Same as meeting my mates down the pub for a drink.

Having said that, I do still need a break from my mates sometimes... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the need for two posts about it though

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Find a great lady, rope and a few toys, my mojo comes flooding back... Think it's something to do with getting back into the saddle...

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed.

Here's a secret. Some of the people who've been swinging for a long time take breaks. Some regularly. It's ok, we do need to recharge our batteries sometimes and come back raring to go!

Personally, I treat swinging like the many other hobbies I've had in my life. I get out of the house, meet some interesting people and have fun! Swinging isn't my entire life but it does add to the quality of it. Same as meeting my mates down the pub for a drink.

Having said that, I do still need a break from my mates sometimes... "

What he said...... this is just a thing..... it's not everything. Go do another thing for a bit and when you're tempted to see if there's a new thing here to float your boat then do, and see what happens.

v x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed. "
i think a lot of other men on here feel like you but not in the same way but do not talk about it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on a break for 14 months.......CBA anymore, but our profile is so brilliant, and full of happy memories, I can't delete it. I've just hidden it, as you never know what's round the corner.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed. i think a lot of other men on here feel like you but not in the same way but do not talk about it on here "

Men ate scared to show too much emotion, for me that can be a problem.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I don't see the need for two posts about it though "

No one answered the first post, the title was poor and I needed advice.

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