FabSwingers.com forum: Fab blues

By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Take a break and come back again. Thts what I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it such an issue? Fab is just a website. You sound more like a priest questioning his faith than a dude who's bored of a website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd look at yourself to be honest is it fab that is changed or your state of mind maybe a rest is the way to go or q closer look at what's really getting you down

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Maybe it's the male menopause.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

I would say that if you are feeling like this then maybe time to hide your profile, log out and leave it for a bit.

Today's probably the first time in 6 months that I've logged in, I found the site boring and tedious plus I have lots of things in the real world that need my full attention.

Just do what you feel is right for you.

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Why is it such an issue? Fab is just a website. You sound more like a priest questioning his faith than a dude who's bored of a website."

Maybe i am questioning.

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Maybe it's the male menopause.

God I hope not in my 20's

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I would say that if you are feeling like this then maybe time to hide your profile, log out and leave it for a bit.

Today's probably the first time in 6 months that I've logged in, I found the site boring and tedious plus I have lots of things in the real world that need my full attention.

Just do what you feel is right for you. "

That's what I am going to do I will hide my profile until a time where i feel more comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your in your twenties go out live your life instead of living it through fab x

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think sometimes you read things on here and can be left feeling like you should be horny 24/7 and out there having the time of your life. However it's just a website and in reality I couldn't be bothered shaving my legs for a random mechanical shag. It has to be something great to even pique my interest.

OP perhaps the novelty has worn off and its time to just wait and see what finds you?

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Thank you for the advice everyone. In going to hide the profile probably best to do this on a computer rather than a phone and come back when in ready,

How do I hide the profile using a phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I'd look at yourself to be honest is it fab that is changed or your state of mind maybe a rest is the way to go or q closer look at what's really getting you down"

This. X

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Probably because fab was your entire life as you said so you ate, slept and dreamed it but now that you're not getting as many fucks off here as you would like or have done in the past it is boring you now? Take a break and start afresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it possible that you are starting to feel the need for more than fab usually offers? A deeper connection? A relationship even? But yeah as others have said, hide your profile and take a break. If you feel the need to come back your profile will still be there for you.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed. "

Yeah very much my feelings now. At first it was very exciting and learnt lot's about sexuality etc. Now very jaded by how repetitive the forums are and frankly the intelligence level shown in many of the discussions by people who assume the first thought that pops into their head is a good one and don't contemplate further. Pretty much given up using fab for meets other than existing friends, just find clubs far less hassel and more rewarding.

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I appoligise before hand to any ex's or people I have slept with Im not trying to be offensive.

There was a time little while ago Where I just had to check fab (every 5 mins); it used to be just one big exercise in finding oneself and a route for exploration.

Now I rarely come on here and when I do Im just not aroused. I think to myself why the hell am Im on here and what was the point of joning in the first place, Did I join for the right reasons?

This is not a digg at the site, the sites epic but I don't know what Im feeling atm, is this normal, just a phase, has anyone else felt like this and if so any advice if you had, is warmly welcomed.

Yeah very much my feelings now. At first it was very exciting and learnt lot's about sexuality etc. Now very jaded by how repetitive the forums are and frankly the intelligence level shown in many of the discussions by people who assume the first thought that pops into their head is a good one and don't conyiiitemplate further. Pretty much given up using fab for meets other than existing friends, just find clubs far less hassel and more rewarding. "

Your thoughts are on a par with mine, for some reason I just have no labido what so ever.

All Forums have the potentile to like that they give a voice to the many and at times there is no debate, just opinions.

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