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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a quick question from a newbie, how do you get verified if nobody will meet you because you're not verified ? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go to a social, mingle and get verified by those you meet

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn


"Just a quick question from a newbie, how do you get verified if nobody will meet you because you're not verified ? ?"

Be where the people are, clubs, socials, coffee mornings...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, but the only social meet within reach isn't open to single guys without verifications

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don't think your lack of verification is why people won't meet you.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"I don't think your lack of verification is why people won't meet you."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice, but the only social meet within reach isn't open to single guys without verifications "

get yourself along to a club then...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Care to elaborate Redangel 2013 ?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Just a quick question from a newbie, how do you get verified if nobody will meet you because you're not verified ? ?"

Cam

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You haven't asked for help with your profile but that's where your problem is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In what way GordonBennet ?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

It doesn't explain what you want, whatyou have to offer.

Your profile is your shop window.

Writing a decent one helpsto distinguish you more from the thousands of single guys on the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I'll bare that in mind, thanks.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Answer this hypothetical question: why would a lady prefer to have sex with you rather than me?

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"You go to a social, mingle and get verified by those you meet "

I love it when people write this, Its not as easy or simple as that, Ive been to many social events and never got a veri. Yes I do ok for veri's and Im not moaning but some people can be very very snobbish when it comes to veri's especially for single guys.

God knows why, a veri should be just a confirmation that the person is genuine but ive heard all sorts of excuses as to why someone wont veri me. Its still amazes how quick my veri goes on thier profiles but I usually get a message back saying "Ill do you one tomorrow" or "Bit busy now we will leave you one after the weekend".

And camming is even worst, ive been in the chat rooms before for hours and hours and never got veri'd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All replies appreciated thanks.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, a social is a good way of being verified, we have seen lots of profiles who are social verified, it certainly won't harm going to one. You will get verified from a club visit, the club staff will do it.

As others have said, do a bit of profile work, and as a side note, some people might assume your user name means you are TS.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good point thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd skip right past your profile im afraid,says nothing really; nothing about what you enjoy, what you are looking for...some may assume that you can't accom becasue you're not single, so might be worth mentioning that too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May visit a club and chat to a few people and other single guys to see how they got verified, or maybe a social has said before.

Maybe a Manchester social you might meet some city fan seen has you are not a united fan. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

patience

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Having house mates is a reason you can't accom? I loved play partners running into my housemates

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously very different house mates than mine !

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By *unLuvazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Thanks for the advice, but the only social meet within reach isn't open to single guys without verifications "
we holding a fab social tonight at townhouse. Your welcome there. Might be a bit far to travel though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Busy tonight and yeah a long trip, but thanks for the offer. Will definitely keep in mind if I'm in your area

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