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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

me n wife want to try soft swing how does it work

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"me n wife want to try soft swing how does it work "

Is your wife on here as well?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can anyone help

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Soft swing is usually everything except penetration. So you agree with the people you're going to meet what your limits are. For instance we don't kiss our meets and I don't enjoy receiving oral sex.

When it comes down to it you only do what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but how do u find a couple who wud be happy with just doing soft swing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"but how do u find a couple who wud be happy with just doing soft swing"

There are quite a few. We are soft swing only. If you go on "browse" then click on the drop down menu by "interests" you will see that you can tick "soft swing"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if during soft swing and u want more does that happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but how do u find a couple who wud be happy with just doing soft swing"

Read the profiles, if not clear just ask, get the wife on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"if during soft swing and u want more does that happen"

Only if all parties agree. I wouldn't recommend going in to a soft swing meet expecting more.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"but how do u find a couple who wud be happy with just doing soft swing"

You will have to look, but you will find lots of couples who only soft swing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is there ever a time 3 couples do soft swing same time

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Of course there is... you could have a soft swing orgy if your wanted to.

Personally when we soft swing we just prohibit penetrative sex... but we will do pretty much anything else.. but I warn you...going into a soft swing situation, to then turn around and say.."shall we take this further" might not be too well received. Most people on here have set pre defined limits of what they do and don't want... if you are seen to disrespect that, it won't end well

And like others have said... bring your wife on here too... no one is going to believe you have a wife into swinging while you have a single guy profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do soft or full it just depends on who we're with and there preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does soft swing always involve kissing other couple

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"does soft swing always involve kissing other couple"

no not always, some couples do not kiss its all about boundaries which are agreed by ALL parties involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how do u say to a couple u both like do u fancy soft swing

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"how do u say to a couple u both like do u fancy soft swing"

You say "we like you two...do you fancy a soft swing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope she enjoys it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope she enjoys it"

you mean she doesn't know yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

of course she knows just so nervous I hope she doesn't back out shes going out from work to get underwear so we will see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope she enjoys it"

and I hope that it's her decision that she really wants to try it A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stories and fantasies section me thinks !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you keep evading the question single profile were is your wife? Does she even know your organiszing this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does soft swing always involve kissing other couple"

soft swing involves anything you want other than penetration, you need to chat with the other cple and decide what you all want,some allow kissing some don't some like oral some don't ect during the meet its not a good idea to move your boundrys and try something you haven't discussed you may upset the other cple, unless both cples agree more.

there are quite a few cples who like this play including us, we find it very erotic as you all tend to do more teaseing and foreplay rather than get straight down to penetration

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"of course she knows just so nervous I hope she doesn't back out shes going out from work to get underwear so we will see"

You may need to create a couple's profile before you begin your search for a soft swing couple.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Hmm OP's veris make reference to photos of his ex wife??

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"Hmm OP's veris make reference to photos of his ex wife??"

Chances ate she wouldn't be too thrilled about having her pics on here, OP does your ex wife know you are showing her pics here...?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"me n wife want to try soft swing how does it work "

As you are in Leeds we would suggest you visit Quests with your wife one day or evening and talk to the people who are members there.

You will find that some will be happy to soft swing with you and some will be happy to go further.

You could even just go and talk or watch what happens in the public rooms etc.

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By *hruster1969Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations. "

But you've been a here over a year and you have no veri's, it doesn't look as that approach works too well?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations. "

I'd say you are limiting your prospective playmates, quite a few couples on here like us have single guys blocked so you'd never see them in searches.

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By *hruster1969Man
over a year ago

Manchester

We like to read and occasionally post on the forum, to do this you have to have a photo verification, that is the only reason we have a single profile as for meeting we will only ever do so in a club on a couples night if we ever pluck up the courage to go, I wonder how many single females on here are married? I dont see anyone ripping them to bits, I thought this lifestyle was all about live and let live jeez

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We are soft swing only, basically we allow everything it full sex and love it! We have been involved in threesomes, foursomes, eightsomes.... you get the picture!

Just read profiles and look at interests - it's easy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We like to read and occasionally post on the forum, to do this you have to have a photo verification, that is the only reason we have a single profile as for meeting we will only ever do so in a club on a couples night if we ever pluck up the courage to go, I wonder how many single females on here are married? I dont see anyone ripping them to bits, I thought this lifestyle was all about live and let live jeez"

you don't have to have a photo verification to post on the forum.

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By *hruster1969Man
over a year ago

Manchester

You do

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

As a single woman I'd actually really enjoy a soft swing only meet with a guy but very few men would be up for this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You do"

We aren't photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do"

No you don't. We're not photo verified.

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By *orthwest2someCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We only ever soft swing and find it great ,we do everything apart from full sex ,so lots of kissing ,touching,licking,sucking,fingers basically everything apart from full sex with others

Can be very erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only ever soft swing and find it great ,we do everything apart from full sex ,so lots of kissing ,touching,licking,sucking,fingers basically everything apart from full sex with others

Can be very erotic "

Totally agree

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By *auldutcliffeMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

I find fab frustrating at the moment, you take you time to be respectful, I respond to ppls profiles and don't waste their time, I do fee like a lot of men are judged and painted with the same brush, just to get feed back is great, to be ignored and not responded to by some who doesn't like time wasters us rude, it's hard to get past a couple off messegesnr on here at times which is probley a trust issue due to not being known, I have had more luck on Facebook and lately with 2 women around 200 messeges between us so far, please rate fab swing to Facebook

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations. "

You can have a couple profile without having your wifes picture on display. If I was really serious I'd make a couple profile for optimal results.

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By *orthwest2someCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I find fab frustrating at the moment, you take you time to be respectful, I respond to ppls profiles and don't waste their time, I do fee like a lot of men are judged and painted with the same brush, just to get feed back is great, to be ignored and not responded to by some who doesn't like time wasters us rude, it's hard to get past a couple off messegesnr on here at times which is probley a trust issue due to not being known, I have had more luck on Facebook and lately with 2 women around 200 messeges between us so far, please rate fab swing to Facebook "

We like to look at single men profiles that have a little more than cock pics all the way through them to be honest ,not having a go but maybe every pic being a cock pic is off putting for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations.

This.

You can have a couple profile without having your wifes picture on display. If I was really serious I'd make a couple profile for optimal results. "

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By *onnicCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

We have only soft swapped so far :/ with lots of group play / mainly ff we love it ! But that's not to say we wouldn't fully swap.. x

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"We like to read and occasionally post on the forum, to do this you have to have a photo verification, that is the only reason we have a single profile as for meeting we will only ever do so in a club on a couples night if we ever pluck up the courage to go, I wonder how many single females on here are married? I dont see anyone ripping them to bits, I thought this lifestyle was all about live and let live jeez"

You've obviously not read many threads about cheating then. Some people (us included) won't meet people of either sex if they're cheating on their partner. Your 'live and let live' comment is also rubbish as people come on Fab with the same expectations and preferences that they carry around in 'the real world' and the fact that we're more liberal than some in relation to fucking other people doesn't mean we have to relax our own moral code to suit other folks wild expectations.

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