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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hola, newbie with a question for the ladies (don't hold back)

I've noticed in many (many) profiles ladies are looking for explicitly non-hairy guys

Question; is hair such a turn off and if so why do you feel it is?

Guys (gay) seem to enjoy/look for it (I've actually had a guy recently annoyed I wasn't) but you ladies generally not a lot!

Is it the perception of cleanliness/lack of grooming?

People been with previously have never indicated an issue (usually the opposite) and like all regular people wash relentlessly (min 2 times a day - more in this heat!) hence never previously considered shaving it...

But pretty certain I'll lose it (may make me a dam sight cooler too :D).

Is my perception way off?

What gives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a hairy chest but not a hairy back and shoulders..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a hairy chest but not a hairy back and shoulders.."

Yeah always thought am right side of it but I deffo take your point.

Wax it is!

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

I like hairy. Shaved doesn't bother me much, only if it is just shaved around penis. It looks so sad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was considering the half way house and shaving to a 3 or similar...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i like men when they are comfortable with themselves...simples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like hairy men

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't mind hair on a guy, so long as it's not rug like on the back or on the balls. I like to put them in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hear that and always have been. But as per Tinder/bumble (where I get waaay more success, but that's another story) there's an abundance of choice here hence can afford to be picky. Hair seems to be particularly divisive 'at first glance'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seemingly...

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I like the hair...be natural

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind hair on a guy, so long as it's not rug like on the back or on the balls. I like to put them in my mouth "

Makes perfect sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like hairy. Shaved doesn't bother me much, only if it is just shaved around penis. It looks so sad."

A sad penis is never attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a hairy chested man.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Your perception of way off fella.. i wouldn't shave to make yourself more appealing.. but thats me.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a hairy man

As long as his "manly" region is at least trimmed. Not a fan of pubes in my mouth.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love a hairy chested man."

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Your perception of way off fella.. i wouldn't shave to make yourself more appealing.. but thats me.

Good luck "

There is no justice in the world.

99% woman do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your perception of way off fella.. i wouldn't shave to make yourself more appealing.. but thats me.

Good luck "

Cheers. First time ever questioned it in 20 years, here people are more explicit about their preferences. Never experienced or held me back before hence the curiosity

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By *exylegs15Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Big fan of a hairy chest here! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a hairy man

As long as his "manly" region is at least trimmed. Not a fan of pubes in my mouth.

~Mia"

Veet it is! to be fair this goes both ways...

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I quite like hairy chests

Trimmed pubes, don't want my nose tickled while I've got my mouth full, a sneeze could be disastrous

If you shave for the 1St time, in this heat. Chances are the regrowth will itch sooooooooo bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I quite like hairy chests

Trimmed pubes, don't want my nose tickled while I've got my mouth full, a sneeze could be disastrous

If you shave for the 1St time, in this heat. Chances are the regrowth will itch sooooooooo bad."

That is SOLID advice :D Think I may use the clippers and put away the Mach 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a hairy man

As long as his "manly" region is at least trimmed. Not a fan of pubes in my mouth.

~Mia

Veet it is! to be fair this goes both ways..."

My lady garden is bald 95% of the time and trimmed the other 5%

I like hairy bods just not bushy pubes.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a hairy man

As long as his "manly" region is at least trimmed. Not a fan of pubes in my mouth.

~Mia

Veet it is! to be fair this goes both ways...

My lady garden is bald 95% of the time and trimmed the other 5%

I like hairy bods just not bushy pubes.

~Mia"

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ? "

Ignore my username haha

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

At least trimmed down below (nobody likes to floss whilst trying to give pleasure)

Hairy backs, shoulders and bushy beards are a no no for me, but I don't mind some stubble

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ?

Ignore my username haha "

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"i like men when they are comfortable with themselves...simples.."

What she said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually quite like hair on men as long as its kept very trimmed. I'm not a fan of men being completely hair free

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I like a dad bod with some hair... really manly in my opinion. I also think it's the person that's important though... and the furry chest is an extension of them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't shave my chest for anyone. Mainly because I look weird. just maintain my pubes with a trim and shave my sideburns and balls lol.

I personally think you'd look better with a trim tho OP as your body hair does look quite thick. But definitely don't get the razor out. Men should be a little hairy I reckon. im biased tho as I'm a hairy bearded fucker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i like men when they are comfortable with themselves...simples..

What she said. "

definitely agree, this counts more than looks in 80-90% of cases in my experience.

But when the looks are decisive from the outset, useful to get the perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ?

Ignore my username haha "

Never seen a smooth silver back in the wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one thing that really fucks me off on this site is the hair thing! people have hair..some people have more hair than others...some people have hair in different places to others..some people like to get rid of it, some people dont...do what you want, not what anyone else wants you to do...and anyone who correlates being shaved to being somehow more 'clean' is a moron...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually quite like hair on men as long as its kept very trimmed. I'm not a fan of men being completely hair free "

amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"one thing that really fucks me off on this site is the hair thing! people have hair..some people have more hair than others...some people have hair in different places to others..some people like to get rid of it, some people dont...do what you want, not what anyone else wants you to do...and anyone who correlates being shaved to being somehow more 'clean' is a moron..."

And amen to that!

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I really like hairy men .

Don't like when they shave and wax chest or back or bits .

If they want to trim it's still ok as long as they have hair .

Also I like bearded men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ?

Ignore my username haha

Never seen a smooth silver back in the wild "


"Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ? "

Going to sign off. Thanks for the messages and honesty, this nails it.

General takeaways are trim the chest a 'little', lose the back, keep trim down below. Well groomed and clean generally.

We all groom to some extent (else would be a mess). Exercise to keep focussed and feel good, this is similar

I'll trim up to see if it's a feel good else it will quickly return.

Now to put this obscenely hairy body through a cold shower...

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By *aturally sexyCouple
over a year ago

watford

I love a hairy chest on a man - I think it's because I used to watch Tom Selleck in Magnum pi !. Hairy backs are a big turn off! Prefer neatly trimmed pubes on a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one thing that really fucks me off on this site is the hair thing! people have hair..some people have more hair than others...some people have hair in different places to others..some people like to get rid of it, some people dont...do what you want, not what anyone else wants you to do...and anyone who correlates being shaved to being somehow more 'clean' is a moron..."

Well said!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's more about the man himself than facial or body hair.

Though I do prefer no willy beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a hairy chest and arm pits and facial hair and pubic area, not sack and crack though. It maybe just reminds me of a primal male, but I don't like it over grown just a bit will do.

One of my exs used to shave everywhere!! It was ok but I do prefer a bit of man hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the little hair strip some men have under their belly buttons down to their cock and just stops at the top

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