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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I'm hopefully losing my Anal virginity this week, I'm nervous and would appreciate any advice to clam my nerves.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's just sex don't worry about it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh and lube,plenty of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rub some bacon on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know???

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know???"

Poppers maybe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually, a great suggestion!!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Actually someone gave some really good advice about this once,can't for the life of me remember who it was though. Maybe someone else can remember...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just searched other posts here, and found some great advice.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Just searched other posts here, and found some great advice."

Good stuff,well enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I'm hopefully losing my Anal virginity this week, I'm nervous and would appreciate any advice to clam my nerves. "

Lucky bugger! Ive got no advice other than to enjoy it and go with the flow. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This helped me:

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino

Don't think that where anal sex is concerned, there are too many differences between women and men but there may be a male version of a similar book

- Mrs. J -

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By *iguysMan
over a year ago

clayton le woods

Lube lube and more lube. Also helps if its not rushed, play a while, relax and have fun with it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"This helped me:

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino

Don't think that where anal sex is concerned, there are too many differences between women and men but there may be a male version of a similar book

- Mrs. J -"

Think I may take a peek at that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This helped me:

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino

Don't think that where anal sex is concerned, there are too many differences between women and men but there may be a male version of a similar book

- Mrs. J -

Think I may take a peek at that!"

Please do; I got it from LoveHoney

Very informative and atleast I know that I am doing things right, I guess

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about a butt plug to prepare, take your time, lots of foreplay, stretching the sphincters a bit first, take it slow when penetrating with loads of lube.

And it's all in your head- if you think your too tight or it'll hurt, it will. Relax and enjoy yourself xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know???"

Wearing a butt plug for several hours before you play, and/or playing solo before the meet to warm up will help. Also relax and use tons of lube! (if you haven't tried j-lube I recommend it highly).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics or it didn't happen

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Why has no one mentioned the most important part. Make sure you douche!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know???

Poppers maybe!"

Poppers is a great suggestion I remember my first time being penetrated lots of lube poppers and a horny and kinky couple with numerous toys! I remember saying ok I can take more as she was using a well lubed dildo and she said your greedy arse has taken it all

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know???"
surely if you're used to giving you should know?

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