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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wounded if anyone had any handy tips I could use as I think I'm shit at it, thanks

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By *arriedmatureCouple
over a year ago

brmingham

ask her first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No scratchy stubble....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't be wounding anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be gentle unless she lets you know otherwise and don't just pay attention to the clit but the surrounding area too. Start with gentle suction on the clit and lips (not all women like this) and maybe when she's warmed up slip a finger or two inside (if she likes this). The best thing to do would be to ask the woman how she likes it as every one is different but i'm sure you've got the basics covered. It's a bit like a French kiss.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I do practice exercises, by licking my eyebrows and earlobes. If you can master that, you'll do fine

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you say you're shit at it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure your just fine at licking pussy and your just being hard on yourself ( pardon the pun )

All woman are different, try and listen for her little wimpers of pleasure

Must say I do love it when a guy slips his tongue into me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No scratchy stubble...."
. Ooo i like that

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Make sure she's washed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No scratchy stubble..... Ooo i like that "

ME TOO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do practice exercises, by licking my eyebrows and earlobes. If you can master that, you'll do fine

MrB"

that id like to see

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I do practice exercises, by licking my eyebrows and earlobes. If you can master that, you'll do fine

MrB

that id like to see "

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

This is what I normally do but again like the lovely people above have said everyone likes it different. Most women from the swinging world and normal dating world prefer this:

First I'll start by kissing you from your feet up, my eyes never leaving yours. When i get up to your thighs I'll lightly start to kiss and lick your inner thigh and lightly lick over your pussy whilst moving to the other thigh. Then I would start licking and sucking your pussy softly, making you moan loudly and run your hands through my hair and pushing my head out of your pussy. Then when I think you’re close to cumming or squirting I'll pick up the pace, stick my tongue in deeper, berry my face in between your legs, I'll also be using my fingers during this. Then when you do climax I'll lick you clean xx

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"This is what I normally do but again like the lovely people above have said everyone likes it different. Most women from the swinging world and normal dating world prefer this:

First I'll start by kissing you from your feet up, my eyes never leaving yours. When i get up to your thighs I'll lightly start to kiss and lick your inner thigh and lightly lick over your pussy whilst moving to the other thigh. Then I would start licking and sucking your pussy softly, making you moan loudly and run your hands through my hair and pushing my head out of your pussy. Then when I think you’re close to cumming or squirting I'll pick up the pace, stick my tongue in deeper, berry my face in between your legs, I'll also be using my fingers during this. Then when you do climax I'll lick you clean xx"

How can everybody be different, but everybody like that? It's a nice story, not cover-all advice.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"This is what I normally do but again like the lovely people above have said everyone likes it different. Most women from the swinging world and normal dating world prefer this:

First I'll start by kissing you from your feet up, my eyes never leaving yours. When i get up to your thighs I'll lightly start to kiss and lick your inner thigh and lightly lick over your pussy whilst moving to the other thigh. Then I would start licking and sucking your pussy softly, making you moan loudly and run your hands through my hair and pushing my head out of your pussy. Then when I think you’re close to cumming or squirting I'll pick up the pace, stick my tongue in deeper, berry my face in between your legs, I'll also be using my fingers during this. Then when you do climax I'll lick you clean xx"

If someone kissed my feet I'd want to kick them in the face hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Ali G eating a canape

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"This is what I normally do but again like the lovely people above have said everyone likes it different. Most women from the swinging world and normal dating world prefer this:

First I'll start by kissing you from your feet up, my eyes never leaving yours. When i get up to your thighs I'll lightly start to kiss and lick your inner thigh and lightly lick over your pussy whilst moving to the other thigh. Then I would start licking and sucking your pussy softly, making you moan loudly and run your hands through my hair and pushing my head out of your pussy. Then when I think you’re close to cumming or squirting I'll pick up the pace, stick my tongue in deeper, berry my face in between your legs, I'll also be using my fingers during this. Then when you do climax I'll lick you clean xx

If someone kissed my feet I'd want to kick them in the face hehe "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"This is what I normally do but again like the lovely people above have said everyone likes it different. Most women from the swinging world and normal dating world prefer this:

First I'll start by kissing you from your feet up, my eyes never leaving yours. When i get up to your thighs I'll lightly start to kiss and lick your inner thigh and lightly lick over your pussy whilst moving to the other thigh. Then I would start licking and sucking your pussy softly, making you moan loudly and run your hands through my hair and pushing my head out of your pussy. Then when I think you’re close to cumming or squirting I'll pick up the pace, stick my tongue in deeper, berry my face in between your legs, I'll also be using my fingers during this. Then when you do climax I'll lick you clean xx

How can everybody be different, but everybody like that? It's a nice story, not cover-all advice."

Meant to write the one "I've met" like this

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Buy her dinner first and her fave flowers

Boo

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Be gentle unless she lets you know otherwise and don't just pay attention to the clit but the surrounding area too. Start with gentle suction on the clit and lips (not all women like this) and maybe when she's warmed up slip a finger or two inside (if she likes this). The best thing to do would be to ask the woman how she likes it as every one is different but i'm sure you've got the basics covered. It's a bit like a French kiss."

Like a French kiss? Garlicy with a lot of wine?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Just wounded if anyone had any handy tips I could use as I think I'm shit at it, thanks "

In seriousness, I'd forget about any mystical technique.

You need to tune in to how the woman is reacting. Everybody is different and likes different aspects and also that can change, sometimes suddenly.. you can always ask what they like too

Good luck and have fun, and try to make sure they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Betty Dodson forum (use Google) has a good article, titled "Tutorial on Performing Oral Sex on a Woman"

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Lick the actual clit. Flick your tongue fast but gently on it... or even just to the side if it. But don't change the pace... keep it steady and constant. If she's making moaning noises don't change tact... keep going. And I love two fingers in at the same time too.

Good lick ... I mean luck!!!! X

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

hopefully she has washed lol if not don't go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her what she likes, listen to her and do it.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I do practice exercises, by licking my eyebrows and earlobes. If you can master that, you'll do fine

MrB"

forgot the elbows

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I do practice exercises, by licking my eyebrows and earlobes. If you can master that, you'll do fine

MrB

forgot the elbows "

Ooh that's black-belt standard

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Tease with wine first, then play with a mouthful of chilled wine on the clit seams to have a reaction... aledgedly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scuba Gear

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

Dont think about it just do it. The lady will let you know by her body movement

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Staines

Focus on the clit, have a fast tongue and accurate tongue. Finger her at the same time if you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wounded if anyone had any handy tips I could use as I think I'm shit at it, thanks "

A 23 yr old with no picture, you have way more problems than eating pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Focus on the clit, have a fast tongue and accurate tongue. Finger her at the same time if you can "

Accurate? Its not a shooting game, or is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 positive posts from Vinny58. Nice one mate !!


"Focus on the clit, have a fast tongue and accurate tongue. Finger her at the same time if you can

Accurate? Its not a shooting game, or is it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write the alphabet with your tounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bite her clit and go for the fist.

Your welcome.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"No scratchy stubble..... Ooo i like that "

And that folks is why 'How to' tips are a waste of time.

Everybody is different.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Just dive in and enjoy yourself, listen and look for her reaction as you lick and suck on each area.

Concentrate on those with the most positive results but not exclusively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up and direct her towards my profile instead.

Seriously, you need to enjoy the tender touch on the tip of your tongue as it traces round her delicate folds of skin. You need to enjoy the warmth, her scent, her taste and respond to her changes in breathing and movement.

Finally, you need to be completely unselfish and passionate about taking pleasure from her pleasure, a reward in itself and your time will cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Focus on the clit, have a fast tongue and accurate tongue. Finger her at the same time if you can "

See I would hate this - fast flicking on my clit is like torture!

I like a guy to kiss my pussy like he does my mouth, plenty of tongue and firm but gentle.

I do like 2 fingers rubbing inside at the same time though

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Ask her what she likes, listen to her and do it. "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go at it like a hungry dog eating a bowl full of hot chips!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I duno with my ex she never seemed bothered about it so I assumed I was doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes ahhaha

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