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By *roud_Redhead OP   Woman
over a year ago

Reedham

I keep getting asked by one couple to send them a fully nude photo of myself showing my face.

This is something that I have never done and even set that as one of my "no-no's" when I set out on my FAB adventure.

I have sent them nude photos without showing my face and portrait photos of me clothed. However, they are insisting that I should send them a photo of myself both naked showing my face.

I have heard that the infamous Ghanaian spammers use that sort of photo to compromise (desperate) individuals, but is it the accepted norm here on FAB?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

If it is clearly set out as one of your No Nos then stick to your guns and decline.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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accepted norm on fab is that if someone doesn't take no for an answer then they are pushy.

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By *roud_Redhead OP   Woman
over a year ago

Reedham


"accepted norm on fab is that if someone doesn't take no for an answer then they are pushy."

Oh! They are very pushy!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I wouldent do it personally

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I absolutely wouldn't do this, and if they keep insisting on it despite knowing you're uncomfortable with it, what are they going to be like if you meet?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"accepted norm on fab is that if someone doesn't take no for an answer then they are pushy.

Oh! They are very pushy!"

could be a good idea to just block them then? so they can't message you.

you can do this by going to their profile and choosing the 'block user' option or check/tick the box on their messages that block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting asked by one couple to send them a fully nude photo of myself showing my face.

This is something that I have never done and even set that as one of my "no-no's" when I set out on my FAB adventure.

I have sent them nude photos without showing my face and portrait photos of me clothed. However, they are insisting that I should send them a photo of myself both naked showing my face.

I have heard that the infamous Ghanaian spammers use that sort of photo to compromise (desperate) individuals, but is it the accepted norm here on FAB?

"

Sounds like they are being very choosy and looking for perfection, if they can't accept what you have sent already then the doubt is clearly there. Do only what you are comfortable with sister and be careful!

Nice to see it isn't the single males being forceful

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By *roud_Redhead OP   Woman
over a year ago

Reedham


"accepted norm on fab is that if someone doesn't take no for an answer then they are pushy.

Oh! They are very pushy!

could be a good idea to just block them then? so they can't message you.

you can do this by going to their profile and choosing the 'block user' option or check/tick the box on their messages that block."

Thanks. I have reported them and blocked them.

It was a very disconcerting situation. Everything going swimmingly well and the the pressure began. I was so torn as they seemed nice at first.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"accepted norm on fab is that if someone doesn't take no for an answer then they are pushy.

Oh! They are very pushy!

could be a good idea to just block them then? so they can't message you.

you can do this by going to their profile and choosing the 'block user' option or check/tick the box on their messages that block.

Thanks. I have reported them and blocked them.

It was a very disconcerting situation. Everything going swimmingly well and the the pressure began. I was so torn as they seemed nice at first. "

no worries, glad it's sorted now.

if anyone makes you feel uncomfortable it will be for a reason, and you're right to trust your gut.

you don't have to be 'nice' when it comes to your body and should expect to be respected also.

i'm sure you won't get many more people like that but block them if you do and don't feel bad about it at all.

good luck, i'm off to sleep.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd say don't do it and find someone else.

I'd say to them "I've looked at the background in one of your photos and I don't like the colour combinations so have decided not to go ahead"

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Not sure why you would report them, asking for a pic isn't normally a reportable offence. But I would have ignored them the 2nd time I had to say no about the pic with a block after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting asked by one couple to send them a fully nude photo of myself showing my face.

This is something that I have never done and even set that as one of my "no-no's" when I set out on my FAB adventure.

I have sent them nude photos without showing my face and portrait photos of me clothed. However, they are insisting that I should send them a photo of myself both naked showing my face.

I have heard that the infamous Ghanaian spammers use that sort of photo to compromise (desperate) individuals, but is it the accepted norm here on FAB?

"

Each to there own. They obviously want to see your face connected to your body. But I agree with the other posts. If it's not something you normally do then don't do it. There's always the chat rooms x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Your doing the right thing if they don't like it block them

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Sounds like you did the right thing for you

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If they are being pushy on here id avoid, imagine being in a room with an even more pushy person

Boo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they are being pushy on here id avoid, imagine being in a room with an even more pushy person

Boo x"

- Mrs. J -

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It would be a definite NO from me, I'd tell them to do one if they can't see that doing so would/could put you at a great risk....plus it does seem a very unreasonable request, ask once maybe ok, get told no and ask again? I'd be suspicious to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm firmly in the no camp...even if it was someone you met. It's too easy to grab images and misuse them.

Stick to your beliefs OP

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By *o4everCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We fell for the scam and it cost us dearly . Don't send any face pics they find you on Facebook and hold you to random. Very cunning scam .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who try to push your boundrys or comfort zones are a no no,

block and move on

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I keep getting asked by one couple to send them a fully nude photo of myself showing my face.

This is something that I have never done and even set that as one of my "no-no's" when I set out on my FAB adventure.

I have sent them nude photos without showing my face and portrait photos of me clothed. However, they are insisting that I should send them a photo of myself both naked showing my face.

I have heard that the infamous Ghanaian spammers use that sort of photo to compromise (desperate) individuals, but is it the accepted norm here on FAB?

"

Personally I would tell them to jog on !!

They obviously don't respect your boundaries and they sound very pushy !!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We never send face pics.

If the potential meet requires one they can move on to someone else.

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By *ramscheMan
over a year ago

Huton- le-hole near Whitby area when in the UK

For persistent pushiness. The block button is a wonderful gadget. It's just fundimentaly wrong to pressurise anyone and just plain disrespectful.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I suspect they want it so they can prove your body pics are yours and not copied. But if you don't want to send them, then if they persist, block and move on.

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