FabSwingers.com forum: London Club for couple new to swing?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi fabs people,

We are new to swinging lifestyle. We have been on the site for a few of weeks now. We've been contacted by some lovely couples but we don't ever seem to get to the meeting stage.

We were thinking about going to a club where we could hopefully mingle a bit and perhaps try some playing maybe..? Maybe get over the first step of doing stuff infront of others.

We are in our 40s now and no longer slim and trim. Is there some club in London that perhaps open to all ages, shapes and sizes?

Also what can we expect at these club? Do some allow for just viewing? Or perhaps couple playing with their partners in same room as others? Or is this a bad idea for beginners?

Thanks for any advice.

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By *andrewMan
over a year ago

GUILDFORD

For a new couple i would suggest Abfabs near Heathrow on a Saturday night as no single men so a more relaxed atmosphere. No pressure to play and has a nice pool and 2 hot tubs. Going this saturday with my FWB if you want to chat

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I can't advise on London clubs but I can answer your other query.

It is perfectly acceptable in any club to just watch or just play together. There is no pressure to play with anybody and a simple "no thanks" us enough if you are asked.

Most clubs have both open play areas and private rooms so you don't even need to let people watch if you don't want to.

On my first club visit I went intending to not play. I just wanted to get a feel for the place. Everyone was very respectful of the fact I didn't want to play. They were all very friendly and made me feel welcome.

I would suggest having a look on the club review page. I would take some of the reviews with a pinch of salt though - a bit like trip advisor. The clubs do have links to their websites and you can find out more that way.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OurPlace4fun is a small intimate club which is ideal if you two just wanted to soak in the atmosphere. You could stay around the bar area and chat with the owners and hostesses, who are very friendly

- Mrs. J -

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Ab Fabs on a Saturday for sure when it's couples night

Or if you like the idea of being naked in this hot weather and some outdoor fun the same venue during the day.

DM me if you have specifics

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Well the three big ones are op4fun, abfabs, la boudoir.

I have only been to abfabs. I would say if this is first time to club then abfabs on a Saturday is couples and single females only.

But like others have said there is no pressure to play at a club, and if someone approaches you you can always say no thank you

If your nervous, i went to a new club last weekend and leading up to it I wasn't sure if I was going, in the end I went and had a great time

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