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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a meet this evening with a dom. first time I've done this sort of thing... wants me tied and to have a lot of fun with me...

I'm

Very nervous.. any ideas to keep myself from chickening out?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I have a meet this evening with a dom. first time I've done this sort of thing... wants me tied and to have a lot of fun with me...

I'm

Very nervous.. any ideas to keep myself from chickening out?

"

Man or a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a meet this evening with a dom. first time I've done this sort of thing... wants me tied and to have a lot of fun with me...

I'm

Very nervous.. any ideas to keep myself from chickening out?

Man or a woman?"

I was thinking the same?!

OP you have arranged this to happen so just take a deep breath and go for it have fun

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I have a meet this evening with a dom. first time I've done this sort of thing... wants me tied and to have a lot of fun with me...

I'm

Very nervous.. any ideas to keep myself from chickening out?

"

Honestly, I always thought that I would only do that sort of stuff with somebody after I'd grown to trust them. Then I met this lovely domme at a club and the main reason why I played with her is because she seemed to know a friend quite well and she was quite knowledgeable about the things she was talking about.

Otherwise I personally steer clear of random wannabes until I know better about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was a female. I went in the end, have a great time... trying things I've not done before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wearing a nappy now mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a female. I went in the end, have a great time... trying things I've not done before. "

That's what it's all about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You wearing a nappy now mate. "

Nothing that bad, just teasing really..

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By *nkySwitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Stirling


"You wearing a nappy now mate.

Nothing that bad, just teasing really.."

Wait until it goes further and she has you locked in chastity for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you op. Its good to try things even if you decide its not for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good for you op. Its good to try things even if you decide its not for you. "

Thank you, we had a good chat too as I'm told that's very important with things like this.. have to learn what I like and what I don't like.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It was a female. I went in the end, have a great time... trying things I've not done before. "

Glad you had a great time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was a female. I went in the end, have a great time... trying things I've not done before.

Glad you had a great time! "

Thank you... I was very nervous but it's to be expected.. I'm glad I went

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It was a female. I went in the end, have a great time... trying things I've not done before.

Glad you had a great time!

Thank you... I was very nervous but it's to be expected.. I'm glad I went

"

You are bound to feel nervous about doing something new, I'm sure we all are, but you went and enjoyed it. Onwards and upwards, as they say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was a female. I went in the end, have a great time... trying things I've not done before.

Glad you had a great time!

Thank you... I was very nervous but it's to be expected.. I'm glad I went

You are bound to feel nervous about doing something new, I'm sure we all are, but you went and enjoyed it. Onwards and upwards, as they say! "

Indeed.. looking forward to another meet thanks for your messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you discuss first what your hard and soft limits are. And a safe word! That is so important if you don't know the person you are in a scene with!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It was a female. I went in the end, have a great time... trying things I've not done before.

Glad you had a great time!

Thank you... I was very nervous but it's to be expected.. I'm glad I went

You are bound to feel nervous about doing something new, I'm sure we all are, but you went and enjoyed it. Onwards and upwards, as they say!

Indeed.. looking forward to another meet thanks for your messages "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This made me smile from one sub to another x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This made me smile from one sub to another x "

What made you smile?

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