FabSwingers.com forum: How to make a Lady squirt

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance"

Varied from woman to woman, but most of it is good chemistry. I have made women squirt that their husbands couldn't and they did not like me for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women are " Squirters " so it doesn't make you less of a man if she can't... Equally doesn't make her less sexy if she doesn't... We're all different so just enjoy who your with at the time, and just have fun pressing those buttons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hook your fingers use an up and down motion not in and out and don't use your wrist also don't be to rough and make sure the lady is relaxed it works for us hope this helps

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance"

Why would you be embarrassed? I have no interest in it whatsoever and would be annoyed if someone tried to make me do it to me.

Meet someone who likes it and just ask them I suppose.

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By *rs Robinson999Woman
over a year ago

bristol

"Not all women are " Squirters " so it doesn't make you less of a man if she can't... Equally doesn't make her less sexy if she doesn't... We're all different so just enjoy who your with at the time, and just have fun pressing those buttons

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one guy got me gushing.properly... Can now do it myself!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance

Varied from woman to woman, but most of it is good chemistry. I have made women squirt that their husbands couldn't and they did not like me for it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to all of you that have answered and even sent a pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and make her laugh when she has a mouthful of drink!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't get why you find it embarrassing. Not everyone does 'squirt' or even wants to. I hate it when I get messages asking me if I do it or even worse saying they'd love to make me!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it a tad embarrassing maybe I shouldn't but I do because I'm not sure on how to do it however, I've received some good detailed advice so now I know where my finger/s will be walking lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get why you find it embarrassing. Not everyone does 'squirt' or even wants to. I hate it when I get messages asking me if I do it or even worse saying they'd love to make me!!! "

Exactly. We ladies are not performing seals you know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And what's wrong in wanting to try and pleasure a lady that little bit more.I don't want or expect a woman to perform like a seal.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"And what's wrong in wanting to try and pleasure a lady that little bit more.I don't want or expect a woman to perform like a seal."

Because not all women want to squirt or believe it's 'a thing' anyway. The best thing to do is to ask a woman if they do it and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a tad embarrassing maybe I shouldn't but I do because I'm not sure on how to do it however, I've received some good detailed advice so now I know where my finger/s will be walking lol."

how about you ask the women you're with if they want to do it or how it works for them rather than generic advice from men who don't know them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

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Thank you in advance"

Just listen to her . Ask her questions. Listen when she tells you what she likes. Communicate. I can't imagine squirts without orgasm as that's the only time a lady has squirted in bed with me.

Not every lady squirts. Some will produce a lot of ladyjuice but not squirt . Some might still be on the journey of finding out new things which you can travel on with patience.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It does seem to be a male obsession to "make a woman squirt" and a recent one at that - as others have said OP there is no magic formula or technique, every woman is different, and some will, some won't squirt, and if they do what works for one may not work for another. Why not concentrate on just having a good time and giving your partner pleasure rather than focussing on squirting? If it happens as a by product of that, then so be it.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance"

I learned from watching others playing. I suggest you do the same as this is not something I would teach to someone who is looking to lose his "swingers virginity".

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I have done it three times that I know of, I'm not aware it's happening it's just when we're done and I notice the bed / carpet / other has a big wet patch for all I know I may have just pissed myself with excitement! *shrug*

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Hook your fingers use an up and down motion not in and out and don't use your wrist also don't be to rough and make sure the lady is relaxed it works for us hope this helps

this works for me but it's not a sexy experience or enjoyable like cumming is.

it's just interesting what you body can do.

def more horny if it happens when a guy is not trying to make me do it and it happens.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"Hook your fingers use an up and down motion not in and out and don't use your wrist also don't be to rough and make sure the lady is relaxed it works for us hope this helps

this works for me but it's not a sexy experience or enjoyable like cumming is.

it's just interesting what you body can do.

def more horny if it happens when a guy is not trying to make me do it and it happens."

I'm the same...I don't cum from it and honestly don't really like the feeling. But apparently men know better than me and carry on even after I say stop but the hooked fingers def do something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tongue does it .. love to make a woman squirt .. but agree with other posts it is up to the individual.. as long as the woman cums and enjoys that's good enough for me ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can make a woman squirt but most dont even know whats happening and a lot try to stop ,when a woman does it a lot say sorry and think they have pissed themselves .Its kind of sad .yes some women just get a little wet but if you have both used common sense and used the toilet its fairly certain this isnt pee its like an emergency lubrication wrapped up in a massive orgasm .Some women rarely reach it ,some often .Incredibly fast hands and fingers tend to push them to that point wrapped up with a little fisting for good measure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does seem to be a male obsession to "make a woman squirt" and a recent one at that - as others have said OP there is no magic formula or technique, every woman is different, and some will, some won't squirt, and if they do what works for one may not work for another. Why not concentrate on just having a good time and giving your partner pleasure rather than focussing on squirting? If it happens as a by product of that, then so be it."

Giving a woman pleasure isn't a problem, it's someone other than her deciding for her what form it should take and how out will happen that is the issue for me.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

Giving a woman pleasure isn't a problem, it's someone other than her deciding for her what form it should take and how out will happen that is the issue for me."

I once had a meet from here and he was making me squirt but it's not an orgasm for me and every time I tried to make myself cum he would move my hands away from my clit. I told him he wasn't getting me off but he refused to listen and every time I touched myself he pushed my hands away because he knew better than me.

Add that to the other guy who was there unable to get and stay hard it was a really frustrating meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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well said

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance"

Nothing worse than a bloke prodding away with his fingers for ages trying to make you squirt, for HIM!! Listen to what the lady wants, and what satisfies HER instead of trying to recreate a porn film!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Gas mark 8 for about 2 hours, that should do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving a woman pleasure isn't a problem, it's someone other than her deciding for her what form it should take and how out will happen that is the issue for me.

Add that to the other guy who was there unable to get and stay hard it was a really frustrating meet

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that guy would have so been out the door selfish prick you should not have put up with that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thank you for all your views on this.Looking closely at what the ladies have said about it I think I may just leave it and carry on as normal as it realistic seems that it's no big deal.Again thank you to all for contributing your views to this thread.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her orgasm instead. I know I'd appreciate that so much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give her a fairy liquid bottle ,it's simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some ladies don't want to squirt...

me included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get why you find it embarrassing. Not everyone does 'squirt' or even wants to. I hate it when I get messages asking me if I do it or even worse saying they'd love to make me!!!

Exactly. We ladies are not performing seals you know!"

I'm embarrassed for the OP...in that he thinks he has to be able to do this. Some ladies like it, some don't. Some can some can't.... why not just ask the lady in question two things. (1) is it something she wishes to do/can do? (2) can she show you what works for her..... see the performing seals comment above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never squirted - but I don't want to

I get incredibly wet and have no desire to squirt and would be put off by someone trying to make me.

I'll just have an orgasm please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I've decided to let the tongue carry on doing the business as I really enjoy doing it as do you ladies enjoy receiving it so,that's that.All sorted

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance"

I usually find a drive from London to Manchester without stopping at the services will leave her very wet and squirting all the way to the nearest loo lol.

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By *s and boiCouple
over a year ago

pleasure and pain town

You don't "MAKE" a woman squirt ... you help her to relax and enjoy ... if she's not relaxed no matter what you do .. she won't squirt ..

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance"

Buy her a waterpistol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how some men talk as if all women are the same

Like bloody 17 year olds

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them your credit card lol

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hook your fingers use an up and down motion not in and out and don't use your wrist also don't be to rough and make sure the lady is relaxed it works for us hope this helps

That's the advice I (Hubby) would give too, plus it seems to be easier if their legs are bent. Every girl is different though! And as you're being a bit forceful, just be mindful of what you're squeezing and where your nails are (cut short obviously), especially when the girl is squeezing you back.

But as others have said, I'd only use it if the girl wants to do it and is ready. Or says they don't squirt but have asked me to try it

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If it happens it happens. It's not something all ladies can do. Everyone is different. What's the big deal as long as she's enjoying it.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"And what's wrong in wanting to try and pleasure a lady that little bit more.I don't want or expect a woman to perform like a seal."

Because a lot of women who can/do Squirt will tell you it doesn't automatically = orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guarenteed Squirt method:

1 add 3 pints of larger

2 squeeze in tight cuddle around abdomen

3 tell series of really funny jokes

Sorted.

Or you could try mutually satisfying sex instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one man has made me squirt and it's chemistry that is the trigger

But that's not to say I don't have a fantastic time with other men...

I just don't understand the need from men to make a woman squirt, it's not a big deal for me if I do or don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only one man has made me squirt and it's chemistry that is the trigger

But that's not to say I don't have a fantastic time with other men...

I just don't understand the need from men to make a woman squirt, it's not a big deal for me if I do or don't "

It probably stems from the same place that states to be 'pubic hair free' is more hygienic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy her a Gucci bag! !!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Ive never "squirted" .... some ladies dont ... if someone was trying to make me .... id be uncomfortable in their presence .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold her close start kissing her neck and softly whisper in her ear,'hope you got time I'm taking u shoe shopping after this' lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Ive never "squirted" .... some ladies dont ... if someone was trying to make me .... id be uncomfortable in their presence ....."

If someone tries to "make" me squirt , I tell them to fuck off . Nothing more uncomfortable .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give her a call supersoaker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her drink plenty of water

- Mrs. J -

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Why would you want to MAKE someone do this, porn has a lot to answer for

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

A water pistol?

Boo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going back a few years now I had a FWB who I could make squirt from giving oral and fingering. The first time it happened I was a bit shocked but as time went on I thought it was cool, plus she loved doing it.

I've managed to do it with another lady since then but I think it all comes down to the individual, not all women can squirt apparently.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Afternoon all.I find this quite embarrassing but I don't know how to make a Lady squirt.

I've searched the internet however I still find myself asking the question because I'm still non the wiser.

Any tips advice or even a demonstration would be absolutely truly appreciated.

Thank you in advance

Varied from woman to woman, but most of it is good chemistry. I have made women squirt that their husbands couldn't and they did not like me for it.

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