FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs best place to start?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had this account for a while but only just become active. I'm assuming it's best to go clubs and get a few veris and then swinging should be slightly easier from then on?? Just an assumption. Any advice to get going is muchly appreciated

By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I don't look at veris before choosing to meet a guy, it is purely down to our interaction not that some woman who I don't know writing a short blurb stating he made her cum loads.

But meeting people in clubs make it easier for people to see the real you, not having to rely on how well you can write a message.

By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

At the end of the day if you can connect with people that say you're a great fun, relaxed guy. All good. People do take notice (some dont of course) and it can help.

Consider only getting veri's from groups you're looking to meet. People get funny if you're straight and have veri's from men and TV/TS even thought they're only vouching for you as a person.

At the end of the day, please yourself because you'll never succeed in pleasing the majority on here.

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Clubs and socials may be an easier way to build verifications, which some want people to have. in the midlands we've a range of clubs, so shop around, comparing costs, nights etc. Some clubs also have non-member days, so you'd get a feel for what clubs are like. There's less risk that way, as you guys usually pay quite high fees.

Marketing yourself is also important on here, so do what you can to do this well.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly easier? It takes time and effort. You want verifications to endorse you - don't be clingy and over chatty - don't make it all about sex.

And above all don't be a dick

By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes, go to a club. Relax and have fun chatting in the bar area. You'll enjoy it just for that. It will lead to more fun there, or later.

MrB