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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've been trying for some time to find a meet with a single bi female, but with little to no luck. Any advice on were we're going wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been trying for some time to find a meet with a single bi female, but with little to no luck. Any advice on were we're going wrong? "

Single bi women are overwhelmed on here form single guys and couples alike! They have the the pick of the litter so to speak!

Most of them are made to feel like they are trophy or badge of honour that couples just want to tick off.

Best advise is don't force it, one day it will happen xx

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By *nkySwitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Stirling


"We've been trying for some time to find a meet with a single bi female, but with little to no luck. Any advice on were we're going wrong?

Single bi women are overwhelmed on here form single guys and couples alike! They have the the pick of the litter so to speak!

Most of them are made to feel like they are trophy or badge of honour that couples just want to tick off.

Best advise is don't force it, one day it will happen xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend on here (Single female) had over 500 messages in less than 3 days when she joined. Trying to get noticed it that pile of messages is very difficult if not impossible.

We have been on here for a few years (I think) and I don't think we have had a single meet by the site directly. OK we are not huge users of the site but our advice would be to not rely on getting a meet by here, use it as a way to find out about socials and events.

From our experience you are a lot more likely to meet people face to face than by dropping random messages to profiles.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"A friend on here (Single female) had over 500 messages in less than 3 days when she joined. Trying to get noticed it that pile of messages is very difficult if not impossible.

We have been on here for a few years (I think) and I don't think we have had a single meet by the site directly. OK we are not huge users of the site but our advice would be to not rely on getting a meet by here, use it as a way to find out about socials and events.

From our experience you are a lot more likely to meet people face to face than by dropping random messages to profiles."

That's not our experience of the site at all. Our meets have pretty much only come from Fab and we're lucky enough that when we want to meet we do. We have sort of given up on looking for a single bi female (we have met one though) as it's so much easier to find a single bi guy that wants to play with both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been trying for some time to find a meet with a single bi female, but with little to no luck. Any advice on were we're going wrong? "

I don't know how up to date your profile is but it suggests the F has only tried her bi side out once and that and that you would like to share cock with another female...

aside from that its all quite negative...

I hope your initial messages are a little more upbeat?

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By *atrionaSavageWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We've been trying for some time to find a meet with a single bi female, but with little to no luck. Any advice on were we're going wrong? "

I'm a single bi female and I tend to play with couples only at clubs now. It got too complicated for private meets as both parties of the couple were not always on the same page....if you get what I mean.

At least at a club I can see them play together before I might approach them and vice versa. It also is more safe for me personally as meeting 2 strangers on my own can be a concern.

So I'd get down your local clubs, socialise and it might happen for you that way.

Cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto. Meeting people in a club is the best way to test the water.

Personally, I've found meeting couples an absolute minefield of awkwardness.

Far from being seen as a trophy or a prize of some sort, I found I was there to fulfil the fantasy of the wife exploring her bi curiosity, or the man, who got to play with two women at once. I felt like I had to be all things to all people and left feeling like a free whore.

Entering an existing dynamic can be uncomfortable. For example, when a lady had a hygiene issue, how could I mention it when her adoring, muscular husband was lying next to us? I couldn't. It was horrific.

As I say, it's a minefield, unless the dynamic is absolutely right.

It was enough for me to stop meeting couples altogether.

When everything's right, it can be nice. But it's a chance I wouldn't take again.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have been lucky in meeting and playing with a few single bi-fem ladies in clubs. These have become fab friends who we sometimes arrange meets with too.

I'd say stick with it, but don't obsess over it.

Without being critical your meet request for a show for hubbys birthday is normally a turn off for ladies. They are here to have fun as an equal 3-way dynamic, not as a present.

Relax about it, have fun on the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ditto. Meeting people in a club is the best way to test the water.

Personally, I've found meeting couples an absolute minefield of awkwardness.

Far from being seen as a trophy or a prize of some sort, I found I was there to fulfil the fantasy of the wife exploring her bi curiosity, or the man, who got to play with two women at once. I felt like I had to be all things to all people and left feeling like a free whore.

Entering an existing dynamic can be uncomfortable. For example, when a lady had a hygiene issue, how could I mention it when her adoring, muscular husband was lying next to us? I couldn't. It was horrific.

As I say, it's a minefield, unless the dynamic is absolutely right.

It was enough for me to stop meeting couples altogether.

When everything's right, it can be nice. But it's a chance I wouldn't take again."

I hear ya !! I'm back on and have my profile as straight even tho I enjoy woman...

Unfortunately clubs aren't an option over here but prefer a well organised party, I get to play in a situation were everyone is happy

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

You and about half the site.

Oh and apparently they don't like being referred to as unicorns, they much prefer being called women.....who knew

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