FabSwingers.com forum: Meets asking for contributions

By *ipin Cider OP Man
over a year ago

Warick & London

Hi All

Relatively new to Fab but not new to swinging (after leaving another wel known but rip off site).

I have noticed that there seems to be a few couples posting meets and then when you message them you get replies asking for a "contribution"... such as this:

"The contribution is £40. Pics attached.

Once you confirm with a time of arrival, we will provide our contact number. Hope you can join us! xxx"

I always avoid them but just wondering what people's thoughts are on it.

Personally I just send a polite reply saying not for me thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them

Block them

Move onto the next

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet

Prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prostitution"

And against fab rules. Report them

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I had a guy messaging me saying he would do anything I wanted him to do....but....only if I could stand as guarantor so he could get a loan from the bank.

I nearly pissed myself laughing

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Depends what the contributions are for, if it's towards a hotel room. OK it is your choice if you want to or not.

Enterance to a private party, I wouldn't.

For going round their house and fucking the mrs, report them for prostitution.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Depends what the contributions are for, if it's towards a hotel room. OK it is your choice if you want to or not.

Enterance to a private party, I wouldn't.

For going round their house and fucking the mrs, report them for prostitution. "

Yeah we were going to say, if it's for a hotel room, then that seems to be more acceptable. Though if it's just to pay to meet the mrs, then it's a reportable offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen everything from money to clothes, makeup, drink and drugs requested.. all forms of prostitution in my book and all blocked.

It's sadly a lot more common these days too it seems, from statuses with ££ on the end, to the ever so subtle 'sick of being skint' ones.. only usually? with poor spelling.

I guess it shows the level of desperation some people have reached, which is sad.

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Asking for money where there is no clear extraordinary outlay is against site rules.

A couple may have booked a lodge, provided food and drink, anything really. To ask that people cover cost or even if they put on a "for profit" event then that's fine surely?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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£40 is cheap tbf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your story smells like a good scam ! Those people are the worst.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Perhaps the gas bill was due

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

come across a couple you start talking to them get to the arrange a meet part and they say do it through adult work and you will see the cost, reported both and even sent links but nothing happened

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I'd only consider contributing 10 pounds or so *IF* the couple were well known to geniunely use the money for the meets and not just profit.. like, if they had a fuckton of clean towels, wipes, condoms, waterproof sheets, and drinks (tea/coffee/juices) on tap !!

Any more for any less... no freaking way lol. (And this would be if it were at their own place, and the cost was to cover cleaning/ washing/drinks.)

That just comes from experience tho.. and you'll get to out the takers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can ask for anything they like and provided it's by mutual agreement and not illegal and not against the site rules, is FINE.

But as others said it and I've been offered the same, it's a prostitution. I tend to stay away from professional hookers and their pimps and sure as a fuck, there are many of them on this site.

10-15% of the members won't be an exaggeration.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Report them

Block them

Move onto the next

this!!!!! every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happens too often on here - some use the site as a safe street corner to stand on

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

"Anyone can ask for anything they like and provided it's by mutual agreement and not illegal and not against the site rules, is FINE.

But as others said it and I've been offered the same, it's a prostitution. I tend to stay away from professional hookers and their pimps and sure as a fuck, there are many of them on this site.

10-15% of the members won't be an exaggeration. "

There's one pair on here who have 4 separate accounts all couples ones too with same photos and bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a meet on Sunday and have no problem with paying a contribution towards the cost of the hotel

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If it's not for an equal share of an essential cost, where you all have equal use of said service, then it's someone emulating a commercial sexual service. Licenced clubs etc are fine, as are bring your own buffet supplies or a totally reasonable share of costs that HMRC would support as not profiteering.

Report anything else to fab Admin and block.

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

There's a difference between splitting cost of a hotel and getting told it's 125quid for an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thesecouples usually have timeslots or gang bangs or as many blokes as they can entice

10 blokes at 40 quid a head , 400 quid for a 75 pound room

if its a hotelmeet and there genuine , they wouldnt charge or theyd just go 50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to a couple and hey asked for a £50 contribution to the room - it was a travelodge in some god forsaken place and out of curiosity I googled the price - £45 a night... oh and they also said there would be multiple men.. I declined their generous offer, sure enough a string of 6 (from memory) verifications from that day! ... not a bad days work!!!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"I was talking to a couple and hey asked for a £50 contribution to the room - it was a travelodge in some god forsaken place and out of curiosity I googled the price - £45 a night... oh and they also said there would be multiple men.. I declined their generous offer! "

Haha this happened to me as well but i called them out on it and i was told i could get a £20 discount

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By *N_FunMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I've seen at least two couples whose pictures turn up on AW..but presumably so long as they don't mix business and pleasure I don't see a problem.

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I had this with a meet, met him had a nice time then he was like I've lost out earning £270 by meeting you this afternoon, can you lend me that until next Friday?! He was the one that chose the time and place of the meet and pestered me for it! On yer bike mate!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I've seen everything from money to clothes, makeup, drink and drugs requested.. all forms of prostitution in my book and all blocked.

It's sadly a lot more common these days too it seems, from statuses with ££ on the end, to the ever so subtle 'sick of being skint' ones.. only usually? with poor spelling.

I guess it shows the level of desperation some people have reached, which is sad."

Make Up? Nah, we will meet for foreign holidays, sports cars, speed boats etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"happens too often on here - some use the site as a safe street corner to stand on "

Lol

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Sunny Manchester

As a couple, if we decided to book a hotel then invite someone extra round for some fun I would NOT expect or ask for a contribution towards the cost of the room.

Our choice to hire the room, our responsibility to pay for it.

We would be wanting a threesome for our sexual needs and gratification, not theirs.

Sorry if this goes against the grain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this with a meet, met him had a nice time then he was like I've lost out earning £270 by meeting you this afternoon, can you lend me that until next Friday?! He was the one that chose the time and place of the meet and pestered me for it! On yer bike mate!

I'm sure I read this exact comment awhile back

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

If it's making any kind of profit and it's not made clear that you are not guaranteed sex, then to me, it's prostitution.

Play for profit,in my eyes, is escorting. Not that I judge or disapprove of escorting. But don't dress it up as it being anything else.

Fairly sharing the cost of a room i think is reasonable. Not that I'd ever ask anyone for a contribution towards a hotel room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report them

Block them

Move onto the next

exactly this

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I'm sure I read this exact comment awhile back

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hmmm maybe he is making a habit of it, I've not written about it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think requesting payment is overlooked if the host is laying out money to host an event BUT I've seen "hosted events" where the host rents a room somewhere for like £45 for 2 hours for a gangbang and charges men £40 each to attend.

The last one I bothered to count was over 20 guys being added to the "invite list" at £40 each for a mass guys on 2 women.

Nice little earner eh, but given the low cost to host but the very high yields, is that really in the spirit of things ?

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

I know a couple who invite men and ask for £30.

When the man arrives, they waive the fee. They reckon asking for money sorts the dreamers out from the genuine people.

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