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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not having to much luck on here, don't know if it's my profile, how I look , or the size of my Willy! Ha (not massive but it's got technique and stamina ??) could I have some advice please and be as honest as you like, I can take it

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's probably your profile. You need to make an effort in order to attract anyone to meet you.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's probably a combination of things. But don't give up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing will be your inability to accommodate. Most people see that as being attached..... wether it's true or not, they will assume that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Go on then tell me more! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on then tell me more! ??"

jeez you have been here a week....

also I doubt your profile pic helps...mean n moody it aint

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Definitely your profile, it looks like you just joined and expected the women to come flocking to you.

If you are Bi then it might work as men don't seem to need much to decide if they want to meet, as a cock is a cock right?

Strange thing about us women, we need so much more! No effort no reward, if you want instashag then just pay for it, simple

Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha not paying for it! And not bi either. I do get told I need to smile more on pics so that's probably it?? i am a nice happy bloke though just crap at smile pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to try and do a smiling pic now! Ha I'm honestly not a miserable git though! ??

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm going to try and do a smiling pic now! Ha I'm honestly not a miserable git though! ??"

Improve your profile as well while your at it, 2 sentences does not cut it, pussy aint gonna run towards you if that is all you can muster, we have hundreds of guys to choose from

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

So, its a 34 word profile, you cant acomm (married?), been here 7 days (could wait 7 months or more for his first meet), and would you really meet a 99 year old?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh shit, didn't realise the 99 thing ?? definitely not married 100% single and yeah perhaps I did think it was an easy way to get involved with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more time and effort you put into the site the luckier you will be.

Try checking out other mens profiles who have meet verifications, don't copy but get some ideas.

Work on your pics.

Don't be desperate to meet.

Be respectful to everyone.

Try and have a laugh not don't take it too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou, will take your advice on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh shit, didn't realise the 99 thing ?? definitely not married 100% single and yeah perhaps I did think it was an easy way to get involved with people "

If you can't do accommodation, then write an alternative idea... Club or hotel

Loads of guys are looking for 3sums. The only place you'd stand a chance is at the clubs...

Best of luck

3 years ago it took me three months to hook up.

Try and be patient. I applaud your face pics btw. You stand a better chance meeting than a guy with a cock pic x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dick pics gone, new profile wrote up coming soon and a hopefully nice smile pic will get on there as well! Ha thanks ladies and gents

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP how would you approach a woman in 'real' life?

With your cock out, a one liner and a frown?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cocks gone! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dick pics gone, new profile wrote up coming soon and a hopefully nice smile pic will get on there as well! Ha thanks ladies and gents "

tbh its just as bad as before...

think of your profile as your shop window..

if there isn't much to look at from the outside, no one is going to bother looking in are they?

also unless willy is your actual name, maybe think about changing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres loads of threads on here about profile help

have a flick through and see what you're up against

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