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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can I approach the conversation with my girlfriend about a 3 some (mff) I joked on with her before at the begning of our relationship about it and she said yeah but who with, I am scared it might ruin things for us any advice appreciated thanks

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish


"How can I approach the conversation with my girlfriend about a 3 some (mff) I joked on with her before at the begning of our relationship about it and she said yeah but who with, I am scared it might ruin things for us any advice appreciated thanks "

I certainly wouldnt tell her about your Single profile on here as it WILL Ruin things for you

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Did you specifically mention mff when discussing threesomes? If not she may assume you meant mmf.

You could try talking about fantasies, hers and yours. Don't try to push or pressure her into it just because it is something you want. It has to be right for both of you.

Good communication really is the key here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I approach the conversation with my girlfriend about a 3 some (mff) I joked on with her before at the begning of our relationship about it and she said yeah but who with, I am scared it might ruin things for us any advice appreciated thanks "

If you watch porn together get some 3sum action on the go and just mention it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I approach the conversation with my girlfriend about a 3 some (mff) I joked on with her before at the begning of our relationship about it and she said yeah but who with, I am scared it might ruin things for us any advice appreciated thanks "

Let her control it, pick the girl, arrange the date and just enjoy yourself if/when it happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men always want MFF what about our needs we are never asked just assumed when bi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men always want MFF what about our needs we are never asked just assumed when bi x"

Thats subjective, we communicate about everything we do.. i dont assume anything.. mrs p4k is a genuine bi fem and loves her girls to the point wgere she has flirted with a girk in our lical sainsburys, got her number and introduced her to this world. All whilst i was at work!

i guess im lucky i that aspect.. in other guys eyes, but its horses fir courses and a goid friend and his partner love MMF 3 sums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men always want MFF what about our needs we are never asked just assumed when bi x

Thats subjective, we communicate about everything we do.. i dont assume anything.. mrs p4k is a genuine bi fem and loves her girls to the point wgere she has flirted with a girk in our lical sainsburys, got her number and introduced her to this world. All whilst i was at work!

i guess im lucky i that aspect.. in other guys eyes, but its horses fir courses and a goid friend and his partner love MMF 3 sums "
guess I just get the selfish ones lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men always want MFF what about our needs we are never asked just assumed when bi x

Thats subjective, we communicate about everything we do.. i dont assume anything.. mrs p4k is a genuine bi fem and loves her girls to the point wgere she has flirted with a girk in our lical sainsburys, got her number and introduced her to this world. All whilst i was at work!

i guess im lucky i that aspect.. in other guys eyes, but its horses fir courses and a goid friend and his partner love MMF 3 sums guess I just get the selfish ones lol x"

Maybe.. or maybe a communication issue, hopefully you find a good partner in crime that shares you interest x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"How can I approach the conversation with my girlfriend about a 3 some (mff) I joked on with her before at the begning of our relationship about it and she said yeah but who with, I am scared it might ruin things for us any advice appreciated thanks "

Are you quite open with each other about your fantasies? If so just tell her its a fantasy of yours. If not start working on your sexual communication and take it from there. If you're in a strong relationship you can talk about things you'd like to try and not take offence at what's said or offence if its turned down.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Men always want MFF what about our needs we are never asked just assumed when bi x

Thats subjective, we communicate about everything we do.. i dont assume anything.. mrs p4k is a genuine bi fem and loves her girls to the point wgere she has flirted with a girk in our lical sainsburys, got her number and introduced her to this world. All whilst i was at work!

i guess im lucky i that aspect.. in other guys eyes, but its horses fir courses and a goid friend and his partner love MMF 3 sums "

Which Sainsbury's is this? Ive never been offered this service when I've shopped there

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