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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So iv had my single account for around 3 months...iv not had any luck! I'm not asking to meet with my husband..I'm looking for a complete one and one with a female..and I hope I make that clear in my profile. For some reason all I'm dealing with is women with absolutely no conversation..it seems I'm expected to do all the work...ladies who will not verify strait away (so im assuming they are fake) or I just get plain ignored what am I doing wrong? I am a mummy so it's a little confidence knocking. Or are married women a turn off for you single ladies?? I would love your input...Iv lost hope so giving it till the end of this week..if I don't have a girl riding my nose by Friday I'm deleting the profile TIA xx

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By *rovocPairCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

No advice- I was in the same scenario as you and had exactly the same experience. People didn't seem to be willing to give me a chance! I deleted t as a bad do. Good luck!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure this isn't the case for all women but my wife who is good looking but a little self conscious would probably be intimidated by your body and hence shy/too nervous to play with you x

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"So iv had my single account for around 3 months...iv not had any luck! I'm not asking to meet with my husband..I'm looking for a complete one and one with a female..and I hope I make that clear in my profile. For some reason all I'm dealing with is women with absolutely no conversation..it seems I'm expected to do all the work...ladies who will not verify strait away (so im assuming they are fake) or I just get plain ignored what am I doing wrong? I am a mummy so it's a little confidence knocking. Or are married women a turn off for you single ladies?? I would love your input...Iv lost hope so giving it till the end of this week..if I don't have a girl riding my nose by Friday I'm deleting the profile TIA xx"
It seems you may be talking to the wrong ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will meet married bisexual women, with or without their partner. But we need to be reassured that their partner is aware of exactly what is going on

However, we are not the type you are looking for as we only ever meet as a couple, even if he does not get involved (or I do not get involved if the woman is straight and just wants fun with him)

I am certain that some lady will come along shortly; x

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years back it was so easy for women to hook up on here - but all that seems to have dried up, unfortunately.

I'd love the chance to meet another woman, one-on-one, and it certainly wouldn't be a problem if she were married.

Women have different needs, varying from just friendship to very specific sexual desires, and talking it through is essential, as is getting the right mood...

I so wish that it were easier, and that more women were interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv had my single account for around 3 months...iv not had any luck! I'm not asking to meet with my husband..I'm looking for a complete one and one with a female..and I hope I make that clear in my profile. For some reason all I'm dealing with is women with absolutely no conversation..it seems I'm expected to do all the work...ladies who will not verify strait away (so im assuming they are fake) or I just get plain ignored what am I doing wrong? I am a mummy so it's a little confidence knocking. Or are married women a turn off for you single ladies?? I would love your input...Iv lost hope so giving it till the end of this week..if I don't have a girl riding my nose by Friday I'm deleting the profile TIA xx"

You're exactly what I'm looking for. If you lived closer I'd make sure we were fuck buddies xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I cannot help resolve your problem but just wanted to say a friend has had the same issues. She is in the same situation as you and has tried to arrange a few meets with ladies but she had all the same problems, not verifying, not conversing or cancelling on the day.

So I would say it isn't you, it looks like it is hard for a female to get a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why assume that a lady who is unwilling to jump through hoops to prove herself is fake?

I hate it when people push me to do so.

Maybe this is alienating women?

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Have posted several times to try and meet up with other women on here, as hubby works prolonged periods away. A little one on one time with a likeminded woman is something I'm very much interested in exploring, however all my meet requests have turned up diddly squat and as for receiving replies from single females profiles...........Ah well, I'll keep preserving when he's away next, who knows lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alot of single females are abit weary of who they meet in general.

Your pictures look amazing but i think I'd be a little bit skeptical when you've only actually been verified by cam and never in person (couples profile)

This is definitely not a criticism just my personal thoughts on meeting people xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I joined to meet women I initially and have found it incredibly difficult. I usually find the woman of the couple will insist the hubby is there to, which always seems like there's an ulterior motive!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So iv had my single account for around 3 months...iv not had any luck! I'm not asking to meet with my husband..I'm looking for a complete one and one with a female..and I hope I make that clear in my profile. For some reason all I'm dealing with is women with absolutely no conversation..it seems I'm expected to do all the work...ladies who will not verify strait away (so im assuming they are fake) or I just get plain ignored what am I doing wrong? I am a mummy so it's a little confidence knocking. Or are married women a turn off for you single ladies?? I would love your input...Iv lost hope so giving it till the end of this week..if I don't have a girl riding my nose by Friday I'm deleting the profile TIA xx

You're exactly what I'm looking for. If you lived closer I'd make sure we were fuck buddies xxx"

Not gonna lie I may have had a little perv on your pics earlier so feel very flattered right now! Damn u location!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why assume that a lady who is unwilling to jump through hoops to prove herself is fake?

I hate it when people push me to do so.

Maybe this is alienating women?"

May I just say this; you are a very attractive woman and with a toned, nice figure

Guys think that is too good to be true on this site and that is what the issue really is

Just a thought

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I joined to meet women I initially and have found it incredibly difficult. I usually find the woman of the couple will insist the hubby is there to, which always seems like there's an ulterior motive! "

Originally I was looking through my couples profile but assumed they would think I was just trying to get a three way...but I thought I'd made myself clear enough..don't blame the suspicion tho many arnt so honest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv had my single account for around 3 months...iv not had any luck! I'm not asking to meet with my husband..I'm looking for a complete one and one with a female..and I hope I make that clear in my profile. For some reason all I'm dealing with is women with absolutely no conversation..it seems I'm expected to do all the work...ladies who will not verify strait away (so im assuming they are fake) or I just get plain ignored what am I doing wrong? I am a mummy so it's a little confidence knocking. Or are married women a turn off for you single ladies?? I would love your input...Iv lost hope so giving it till the end of this week..if I don't have a girl riding my nose by Friday I'm deleting the profile TIA xx

You're exactly what I'm looking for. If you lived closer I'd make sure we were fuck buddies xxx

Not gonna lie I may have had a little perv on your pics earlier so feel very flattered right now! Damn u location! "

You're definitely travel-able

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why assume that a lady who is unwilling to jump through hoops to prove herself is fake?

I hate it when people push me to do so.

Maybe this is alienating women?

May I just say this; you are a very attractive woman and with a toned, nice figure

Guys think that is too good to be true on this site and that is what the issue really is

Just a thought

- Mrs. J -"

Why thankyou mrs j that's lovely of u to say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hello sexy ladies!

I'm genuine and definitely meet but I suspect people may look at your profile and think too good to be true.

Don't give up it does take time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think alot of single females are abit weary of who they meet in general.

Your pictures look amazing but i think I'd be a little bit skeptical when you've only actually been verified by cam and never in person (couples profile)

This is definitely not a criticism just my personal thoughts on meeting people xx "

Totally respect that. love ur profile btw xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv had my single account for around 3 months...iv not had any luck! I'm not asking to meet with my husband..I'm looking for a complete one and one with a female..and I hope I make that clear in my profile. For some reason all I'm dealing with is women with absolutely no conversation..it seems I'm expected to do all the work...ladies who will not verify strait away (so im assuming they are fake) or I just get plain ignored what am I doing wrong? I am a mummy so it's a little confidence knocking. Or are married women a turn off for you single ladies?? I would love your input...Iv lost hope so giving it till the end of this week..if I don't have a girl riding my nose by Friday I'm deleting the profile TIA xx"

I've PM'd you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined to meet women I initially and have found it incredibly difficult. I usually find the woman of the couple will insist the hubby is there to, which always seems like there's an ulterior motive! "

I understand what you are saying but there is no ulterior motive here. Just that a lot of the profiles by women are not really by women. Hubby is there the first time to make certain that I do not end up in some awkward situation. After the first time, he can go have a beer and watch footy, whilst I ...

- Mrs. J -

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

*persevering, stupid autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs: I too had a single profile after the same thing and also came across the same problems

If your still looking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs) have had a similar experience. I'm not interested in group fun or fun with a couple. I would just like to spend some time alone with a woman and see what happens. It's strange to be on the other side of the fence as I get umpteen messages a day from horny guys even though I would consider myself very average in my life outside Fab.

In response to you in particular OP, I can imagine there may be bi women who would feel a bit self conscious meeting you as you have a great figure and you know exactly what you're looking for. I hope this post gets you attention from some sexy fems. Let us know if you have success

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why assume that a lady who is unwilling to jump through hoops to prove herself is fake?

I hate it when people push me to do so.

Maybe this is alienating women?"

Cleo being an attractive single lady on here I'm sure you have dealt with fakes doesn't it anger u? I'm honestly curious. Having dealt with two fakes when we started...I can tell u I felt violated to be told after weeks of picture swapping, messages talking about 'our' kids and personal matters in our lives (not too personal but u know the usual getting to know one another), that I was actually arranging to meet a man...as a married woman on here iv taken the choice not to meet men...I find it a huge turn on to be only available to my husband and just tease..but to spend that much time on another man I just felt so angry. I hope I made sense there haha...I would verify strait away..for anyone..we all have a right to know who we are talking too I think xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou so much for your replies everyone..this is my first thread so I want to reply individually to u all but I'm struggling to keep up haha thankyou very much tho! Lots of m Jenna love to u all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There simply aren't very many single women in the swinging nsa scene. It's important to go into things with realistic expectations so you don't waste too much time asking after something that doesn't exist or barking up the wrong tree. I think, for most women, swinging means swapping and nsa means mechanical sex... neither of which appeal to most women. Even many of the women on here don't like these things. As such Fab may not be the best place to look.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Why assume that a lady who is unwilling to jump through hoops to prove herself is fake?

I hate it when people push me to do so.

Maybe this is alienating women?

Cleo being an attractive single lady on here I'm sure you have dealt with fakes doesn't it anger u? I'm honestly curious. Having dealt with two fakes when we started...I can tell u I felt violated to be told after weeks of picture swapping, messages talking about 'our' kids and personal matters in our lives (not too personal but u know the usual getting to know one another), that I was actually arranging to meet a man...as a married woman on here iv taken the choice not to meet men...I find it a huge turn on to be only available to my husband and just tease..but to spend that much time on another man I just felt so angry. I hope I made sense there haha...I would verify strait away..for anyone..we all have a right to know who we are talking too I think xx"

Ask to have a fem to fem chat on the phone at a early stage.That will out the fakes.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I'd keep your profile.. it certainly wouldn't hurt

I can add to the list of ladies who have found it very hard going to meet another woman for some FF fun or even just a girlie chat over coffee.... I have more luck when I've started up a convo in a pub!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd keep your profile.. it certainly wouldn't hurt

I can add to the list of ladies who have found it very hard going to meet another woman for some FF fun or even just a girlie chat over coffee.... I have more luck when I've started up a convo in a pub!! "

Yep- we've had fun with a woman on one occasion and a couple on another who we met while out socialising. X

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Maybe try the middle ground and look at TVs too. I have no doubt you'd be super popular lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married bi for myself (not lip stick bi) and enjoy f/f ..

But some f's don't want to meet as they don't understand that until I feel safe ..hubby is in the house (he leaves).. This after a girl turned up and was 6ft 3" hairy Gorilla with the excuse that gf couldn't make it...

I found that for f fun clubs are best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But some f's don't want to meet as they don't understand that until I feel safe ..hubby is in the house (he leaves).. This after a girl turned up and was 6ft 3" hairy Gorilla with the excuse that gf couldn't make it...

"

That does work both ways though - if I'm turning up on my own, then I'm very wary if the other woman wants to have her hubby in tow.

I did that once, went to their house, and he was all over me, grabbing, groping - when I'd made it very clear that I was only coming for an F-F meet!

So it does tend to put me off when a woman sets that limit!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, also you need to remember that you yourself aren't meet verified. I assume you are looking for verified ladies or the ladies of a couple, so they will have a suspicion of an unverified single female, unfortunately.

In general terms, lots of ladies from couples will meet alone with other ladies. We have done lots of all-girl nights at clubs and lots/most of the women at those are half of a couple, meeting for girl-girl only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, also you need to remember that you yourself aren't meet verified. I assume you are looking for verified ladies or the ladies of a couple, so they will have a suspicion of an unverified single female, unfortunately.

In general terms, lots of ladies from couples will meet alone with other ladies. We have done lots of all-girl nights at clubs and lots/most of the women at those are half of a couple, meeting for girl-girl only.

"

If I'm entirely honest the verifications on here mean nothing to me...iv dealt with fakes who have fake verifications...is also very easy to mock a very well fakes photo verification on here so no I actually don't look for that but I understand if other people want to go off them. I would rather do a quick phone call or video chat on kik..of your genuine I don't see why either of these would be an issue xx

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By *erkshire7274Couple
over a year ago

Bracknell

Wife seems to be in same boat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a sad sad story..all is hot bi ladies just want some girly love and cant get no joy.....

Girly gang bang anyone??????

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

If I'm entirely honest the verifications on here mean nothing to me...iv dealt with fakes who have fake verifications...is also very easy to mock a very well fakes photo verification on here so no I actually don't look for that but I understand if other people want to go off them. I would rather do a quick phone call or video chat on kik..of your genuine I don't see why either of these would be an issue xx"

Ok, you might, but lots won't. Bun meets single ladies alone, but wouldn't meet an unverified one, except in a club. Just an opinion and our experience to throw in the pot...

Have fun x

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"It's a sad sad story..all is hot bi ladies just want some girly love and cant get no joy.....

Girly gang bang anyone?????? "

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But some f's don't want to meet as they don't understand that until I feel safe ..hubby is in the house (he leaves).. This after a girl turned up and was 6ft 3" hairy Gorilla with the excuse that gf couldn't make it...

That does work both ways though - if I'm turning up on my own, then I'm very wary if the other woman wants to have her hubby in tow.

I did that once, went to their house, and he was all over me, grabbing, groping - when I'd made it very clear that I was only coming for an F-F meet!

So it does tend to put me off when a woman sets that limit!

"

Meet the couple in a bar and then she can leave her hubby and the two of you go alone to a room, club, whatever

That is what we would do

- Mrs. J -

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I'm married bi for myself (not lip stick bi) and enjoy f/f ..

But some f's don't want to meet as they don't understand that until I feel safe ..hubby is in the house (he leaves).. This after a girl turned up and was 6ft 3" hairy Gorilla with the excuse that gf couldn't make it...

I found that for f fun clubs are best "

That is even more daunting for the single female though. Of course you want to feel safe, but you are asking her to turn up to a house on her own, with you both there.

I agree, if you need to do that, then a club is best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were 11 years younger

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hi Jenna.

I would guess that a big part of the problem is that there are very few ladies on here who are looking to play with just another lady. Many of the bi girls in couples only play as part of their couple, and most of the single lasses are looking for guys.

Several of the Clubs run ladies only nights, this may be a good place to find yourself a regular play-mate.

Cal (Still in sunny Crete)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married bi for myself (not lip stick bi) and enjoy f/f ..

But some f's don't want to meet as they don't understand that until I feel safe ..hubby is in the house (he leaves).. This after a girl turned up and was 6ft 3" hairy Gorilla with the excuse that gf couldn't make it...

I found that for f fun clubs are best

That is even more daunting for the single female though. Of course you want to feel safe, but you are asking her to turn up to a house on her own, with you both there.

I agree, if you need to do that, then a club is best."

After the Gorilla - I tend to meet girls in clubs first time and then if there is a "click" (hate the word) at home..He's only there opens door ... looks...waves by and "vanishes" to do man things (not wanking laughs).. Seen many profiles which have been "doctored" with verification's so I'm now careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is going to be one hell of a lucky lady if one does meet you op! Absolutely stunning! What are you other ladies waiting for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have been off and on here for years ,and I am bi sexual ,slim ,and fit but because of my age there are no fem/s at all wish to meet me ,which is a shame, as I love meeting bi/fem/s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One on one FF meets are what I look for; however many ladies are mummies or, like me, work more hours than is frankly decent and quite a few are both. It's a tricky one. But, when it happens that mutual diaries free up, it's marvellous.

I don't think your marital status is going to be a challenge for many, but real life logistics are just a bit of a bugger.

Chin up, and stick with it. HHx

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Why not go to a local club.

You would be far more likely to have success in that environment.

Mx

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Yes your best bet is clubs as you get a chance to chat flirt & play with other females, me & Kim meet single ladies together & on our own but we have found maybe only 1 in 5 are actually single & use the single tag to bait people.

We found the trick is to get on with their partners then the ladies are quite comfortable to meet on their own once trust as built up.

We find clubs one of the the best places to get to know single ladies as they feel safer in crowds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv had my single account for around 3 months...iv not had any luck! I'm not asking to meet with my husband..I'm looking for a complete one and one with a female..and I hope I make that clear in my profile. For some reason all I'm dealing with is women with absolutely no conversation..it seems I'm expected to do all the work...ladies who will not verify strait away (so im assuming they are fake) or I just get plain ignored what am I doing wrong? I am a mummy so it's a little confidence knocking. Or are married women a turn off for you single ladies?? I would love your input...Iv lost hope so giving it till the end of this week..if I don't have a girl riding my nose by Friday I'm deleting the profile TIA xx"

I'm not sure why you aren't getting messages as you look very hot, maybe she is a factor. Are there many young girls on here looking for one on one girl play.

I must say you have lovely photos. I'm looking for girl on girl but your profile would scare me off - you do look too perfect. I mean that in a nice way

What I thought would be an easy thing to find on here is sooo not

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Might be an idea to get this profile verified.

And for sure, tone down the "I'm awesome and you need to be awesome too", although there are loads of sexy fems on here, there are very few who have the confidence to match yours, so they will not respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would but too old for one thing

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Yr bang on with the lazy replys tho ...seems there so many single men on here the women get complacent..

Then they say ... make a effort....what for the 100 to just be deleted...lol..

Go to a club...or try another site...

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Yr never to old kiss....lol

Not when as sexy as u..lol...

Nice dress..

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By *rblackpool2Man
over a year ago

blackpool

That gives them more chance to be real not fake, if there to eager to prove there real and always message you quickly it's probably a guy using pics of his gf to get your attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might be an idea to get this profile verified.

And for sure, tone down the "I'm awesome and you need to be awesome too", although there are loads of sexy fems on here, there are very few who have the confidence to match yours, so they will not respond."

Wow I'm so glad I wrote this post now...if that's the way I come across I'm seriously deleting the lot! It couldn't be more wrong. Looking at it I suppose I shouldn't mention I was a model (although believe me it's not a brag...most girls my age have been a 'model') I just wanted to out across how I realised I was bi...also when I say take care of yourself as I do I meant hygenically...I just tried to put it in a nice way haha I wanted my profile to say it how it is...I have no prefeeence with women...I have no type...I love all female forms. It's actually upset me that many people may have read it the way you have as if you knew me you would know it couldn't be fursther from the truth. My photos are down to experience in front of the cam and knowing good angles, good lighting and good outfits. I'm a mummy of 4 so I have many many imperfections...and if I thought I was so 'awesome' I'd be saving myself Money in surgery later in the year. Thankyou so much for the heads up tho you may have spotted a real flaw...nothing good about arrogance! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet girls.....but not unverified ones. Had some fellas pretending in the past. Good luck xx

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Might be an idea to get this profile verified.

And for sure, tone down the "I'm awesome and you need to be awesome too", although there are loads of sexy fems on here, there are very few who have the confidence to match yours, so they will not respond.

Wow I'm so glad I wrote this post now...if that's the way I come across I'm seriously deleting the lot! It couldn't be more wrong. Looking at it I suppose I shouldn't mention I was a model (although believe me it's not a brag...most girls my age have been a 'model') I just wanted to out across how I realised I was bi...also when I say take care of yourself as I do I meant hygenically...I just tried to put it in a nice way haha I wanted my profile to say it how it is...I have no prefeeence with women...I have no type...I love all female forms. It's actually upset me that many people may have read it the way you have as if you knew me you would know it couldn't be fursther from the truth. My photos are down to experience in front of the cam and knowing good angles, good lighting and good outfits. I'm a mummy of 4 so I have many many imperfections...and if I thought I was so 'awesome' I'd be saving myself Money in surgery later in the year. Thankyou so much for the heads up tho you may have spotted a real flaw...nothing good about arrogance! Xx"

Whatever you say will never be right for some people in the forums.Some people will always take it or read it the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm you sound and look Devine. The women local to you obviously have no sense!! Get yourself up north girl, you'd definitely find some fun up here xx

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

It might be worth checking out ladies only nights at your local swinging clubs. I've been to the one at Cupids in Manchester a couple of times and it was a brilliant, fun evening with lots of sexy ladies.

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been wondering the same thing...

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Might be an idea to get this profile verified.

And for sure, tone down the "I'm awesome and you need to be awesome too", although there are loads of sexy fems on here, there are very few who have the confidence to match yours, so they will not respond.

Wow I'm so glad I wrote this post now...if that's the way I come across I'm seriously deleting the lot! It couldn't be more wrong. Looking at it I suppose I shouldn't mention I was a model (although believe me it's not a brag...most girls my age have been a 'model') I just wanted to out across how I realised I was bi...also when I say take care of yourself as I do I meant hygenically...I just tried to put it in a nice way haha I wanted my profile to say it how it is...I have no prefeeence with women...I have no type...I love all female forms. It's actually upset me that many people may have read it the way you have as if you knew me you would know it couldn't be fursther from the truth. My photos are down to experience in front of the cam and knowing good angles, good lighting and good outfits. I'm a mummy of 4 so I have many many imperfections...and if I thought I was so 'awesome' I'd be saving myself Money in surgery later in the year. Thankyou so much for the heads up tho you may have spotted a real flaw...nothing good about arrogance! Xx"

I think to some extent a lot of ladies on here don't have the figure or body confidence that you have and would just assume that you would be out of their league.

Maybe a profile re-write is in order. Try to emphasise the fact you find ladies of all shapes and sizes attractive. Is there something particularly that you do like? I'm not especially attracted to a certain type - for me the main attraction is in the eyes and smile.

I would definitely ask for a phone chat early on. It s out the fakes and can be reassuring for both parties. If you have had trouble with fakes you can guarantee they have too. Meeting socially first will probably help with this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know if it's a thing, but can you block messages from people you're not looking for. I tried to send you a message as I only have a couples profile and it came up with a warning? Could be that plenty of women are trying to get in touch but because they don't initially have separate profiles they can't get through? Just a thought, I don't know how these things work ha.

S x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Don't know if it's a thing, but can you block messages from people you're not looking for. I tried to send you a message as I only have a couples profile and it came up with a warning? Could be that plenty of women are trying to get in touch but because they don't initially have separate profiles they can't get through? Just a thought, I don't know how these things work ha.

S x"

I think the OP has blocked couples from messaging, as she wants just ladies. But you're right that would block ladies from couples messaging. Ladies in couples would be the biggest number of bi women on Fab, way exceeding the single ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definatly haven't blocked couples from messaging...I think the warning comes up because I'm only looking for females...couples can still message xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might be an idea to get this profile verified.

And for sure, tone down the "I'm awesome and you need to be awesome too", although there are loads of sexy fems on here, there are very few who have the confidence to match yours, so they will not respond.

Wow I'm so glad I wrote this post now...if that's the way I come across I'm seriously deleting the lot! It couldn't be more wrong. Looking at it I suppose I shouldn't mention I was a model (although believe me it's not a brag...most girls my age have been a 'model') I just wanted to out across how I realised I was bi...also when I say take care of yourself as I do I meant hygenically...I just tried to put it in a nice way haha I wanted my profile to say it how it is...I have no prefeeence with women...I have no type...I love all female forms. It's actually upset me that many people may have read it the way you have as if you knew me you would know it couldn't be fursther from the truth. My photos are down to experience in front of the cam and knowing good angles, good lighting and good outfits. I'm a mummy of 4 so I have many many imperfections...and if I thought I was so 'awesome' I'd be saving myself Money in surgery later in the year. Thankyou so much for the heads up tho you may have spotted a real flaw...nothing good about arrogance! Xx

I think to some extent a lot of ladies on here don't have the figure or body confidence that you have and would just assume that you would be out of their league.

Maybe a profile re-write is in order. Try to emphasise the fact you find ladies of all shapes and sizes attractive. Is there something particularly that you do like? I'm not especially attracted to a certain type - for me the main attraction is in the eyes and smile.

I would definitely ask for a phone chat early on. It s out the fakes and can be reassuring for both parties. If you have had trouble with fakes you can guarantee they have too. Meeting socially first will probably help with this too. "

It's crazy that I'm leaking all this body confidence from my pictures...to me I'm doing all the same things as a lot of the the ladies on here...in fact if you look at my pictures carefully nothing I'm always covering something or tryna position this...but I understand I may be a little intimidating..the reality however is I get way too unwell during pregnancies so actually lose weight rather than gain it and my years of dancing have just helped me maintain muscle..I'm working with an ok face, ok legs, a saggy tum, saggy mummy boobs and not a great booty in all honesty...I think maybe a profile re write and some picture shuffling maybe? Thankyou for your help gorgeous! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mmm you sound and look Devine. The women local to you obviously have no sense!! Get yourself up north girl, you'd definitely find some fun up here xx"

I used to work up north...you northern girls are real beauties!!!!! I will take u up on that offer! Xxx

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Mmm you sound and look Devine. The women local to you obviously have no sense!! Get yourself up north girl, you'd definitely find some fun up here xx

I used to work up north...you northern girls are real beauties!!!!! I will take u up on that offer! Xxx"

All girl nights are advertised in here, next one at Cupids 13th June, they are always well attended and fun!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Mmm you sound and look Devine. The women local to you obviously have no sense!! Get yourself up north girl, you'd definitely find some fun up here xx

I used to work up north...you northern girls are real beauties!!!!! I will take u up on that offer! Xxx

All girl nights are advertised in here, next one at Cupids 13th June, they are always well attended and fun!"

You really should get commission..

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I joined to meet women I initially and have found it incredibly difficult. I usually find the woman of the couple will insist the hubby is there to, which always seems like there's an ulterior motive! "

I came on to write exactly this. Or you get close to arranging a meet and they utter the famous line 'i've got this fuckbuddy'.... no.

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By *evils-couple13Couple
over a year ago

Neath

You are absolutely stunning

Devil-lady x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

All girl nights are advertised in here, next one at Cupids 13th June, they are always well attended and fun!

You really should get commission..

"

There are other benefits..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Op from this post have you got yourself a meet yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text does not specify enough that it's only you and no male involvement at all.

Maybe a few more lines of what you are actually looking for and the assurances of no male around might help get better results ?

But I'm just a man "what do I know"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined to meet women I initially and have found it incredibly difficult. I usually find the woman of the couple will insist the hubby is there to, which always seems like there's an ulterior motive!

I came on to write exactly this. Or you get close to arranging a meet and they utter the famous line 'i've got this fuckbuddy'.... no."

That happens, probably 75% of the time. I just keep faith for the 25%.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

We think most "single women" have husband,boyfriend,f**ck buddy hanging about in the background somewhere.Some are honest about it,but quite a few are not.We always work on the assumption that there will be. If it turns out there is not we are pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv had my single account for around 3 months...iv not had any luck! I'm not asking to meet with my husband..I'm looking for a complete one and one with a female..and I hope I make that clear in my profile. For some reason all I'm dealing with is women with absolutely no conversation..it seems I'm expected to do all the work...ladies who will not verify strait away (so im assuming they are fake) or I just get plain ignored what am I doing wrong? I am a mummy so it's a little confidence knocking. Or are married women a turn off for you single ladies?? I would love your input...Iv lost hope so giving it till the end of this week..if I don't have a girl riding my nose by Friday I'm deleting the profile TIA xx"

Around Newcastle way anytime soon?

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky to have 2 meets with just the girls present (both were female half of a couple) in a hotel room for an evening. Its a lot more relaxed and very enjoyable. I guess I've just had a bit of luck and would jump at the chance to do it again! T Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'd meet you if you were closer. Gorgeous body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why assume that a lady who is unwilling to jump through hoops to prove herself is fake?

I hate it when people push me to do so.

Maybe this is alienating women?

Cleo being an attractive single lady on here I'm sure you have dealt with fakes doesn't it anger u? I'm honestly curious. Having dealt with two fakes when we started...I can tell u I felt violated to be told after weeks of picture swapping, messages talking about 'our' kids and personal matters in our lives (not too personal but u know the usual getting to know one another), that I was actually arranging to meet a man...as a married woman on here iv taken the choice not to meet men...I find it a huge turn on to be only available to my husband and just tease..but to spend that much time on another man I just felt so angry. I hope I made sense there haha...I would verify strait away..for anyone..we all have a right to know who we are talking too I think xx"

I see where you're coming from.

Oddly enough, I've never come across a fake. And I was here for a couple of years, last time. Obviously, I met men, and fake men are unheard of. This could be why!

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

My hubby quite happy not to be involved and let me have all the fun with the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is me too looking for one n one fem for norty fun

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